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8 Secret Ways A Virgo Man Expresses His Love

Do you want to know if your Virgo man is into you? How do you know when he’s in love? There are some very obvious signs that will show you, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that he cares. However, if you don’t know what these signs are, you may not put two and two together! These are the secret ways that he expresses his love for you: 

In my experience as a Relationship Astrologer, the Virgo is not always the most demonstrative of signs when it comes to showing love. 

However, they do actually feel very deeply, and may simply be shy to show their true emotions.  Hence, knowing the secret ways he shows love can go a long way to assure you of his true intentions! 

As an earth sign, Virgo is always looking for security and stability. Even if he pretends to act cool and uncaring, deep down, he’s rather anxious to settle down with his special person. Don’t be fooled by the ‘player’ type of behavior, as it goes against everything he is. 

Once you know the secret ways that he expresses love, you can confidently begin to draw closer to him, encouraging him to do just the same. He will, in turn, feel safer to show his feelings to you and in no time at all, become your lifelong partner! 

Here are the signs that a Virgo man is madly, deeply in love with you. 

8 Secret Ways A Virgo Man Expresses His Love

1. He Does Things For You All the Time

The main love language for Virgo is service. This means that he likes to do things for you, often without you asking. Unsolicited advice, fixing your car, or changing when he’s done something wrong are all ways to practically show you his love. 

He loves running errands for you – that is his favorite way of showing love! So, although he’s not the cuddly type (except behind closed doors), he has his ways of letting you knew that he really cares and that his mind is always on you. 

Keep your eyes wide open for all the ways he does special things for you, small or big. Tell yourself that when he does it, he is effectively saying “I love you.” 

2. He Tells You How Amazing You Are

The other love language of the Virgo men is verbal affirmation. He may simply reach out to you and let you know in his special, shy way, the things he likes about you. These may be as nerdy as saying how delicious your home cooking is, or how he admires how you handle your accounts. 

He’s too shy to get mushy with you or tell you how weak his knees get around you – he’s just too practical for that. So, look out for the subtle compliments, the respectful texts, the admiration he will show that he has for you. 

3. He Feeds You Healthy Food

Virgo Man Feeding A Woman Healthy Food

Virgo is the sign of food – did you know that? Virgo loves to be healthy and in control of their diet. You’ll often find this man going on some crazy detox, or deciding to cut out all carbs, gluten, sugar and dairy. 

Now, in of the ways he will show you love is by encouraging you to do the same. He may even take over the mealtimes, and make you take all kinds of interesting vitamins and seemingly strange herbs and remedies to “fix” your health issues. 

Don’t resist – this is a way that he is showing, secretly, that he really, really cares about you. This is a major sign of love, even if it feels a little bit like torture sometimes! 

You know that you have really won his heart when you find a packed lunch waiting for you in the morning and a sweet note to go with it! 

4. He Offers To Manage Your Finances

Something that most Virgo’s seem to be really good at his finances. Yes, you heard right – they are often accounting whizzes, doing math in their heads at breakneck speed. They know exactly what’s in their bank account at any given moment, and can give you a clear rundown of it all! 

As time goes on, you’ll also soon realize his obsession with spreadsheets. He loves to keep on top of his accounts and finances and it actually gives him pleasure, believe it or not. If he offers to take over your finances, try not to see this as trying to manage you, but that he’s telling you he loves you! 

It’s of course up to you to decide whether or not you’d actually like him to get involved.

5. He’s Critical

Sounds counterintuitive, right? You’d think that a critical guy is definitely not in love with you, or maybe doesn’t even like you. 

That’s not the case for the Virgo man. His critical nature come us when he gets comfortable with you, and wants to make you – and him – into better people for each other. Sure, it’s annoying as anything, and you may need to tell him that it’s too much at times. 

But, like the boys calling you names at and pulling your hair, this is just one of the quirks of the Virgo man and is, in his way, a love language. Remember that the next time he’s told you that you load the dishwasher all wrong! 

6. He Tries to Fix and Help You

Virgo Man Helping And Comforting

Similar to his criticism, when a Virgo fella tries to “fix” you, you can be very sure that he is head over heels in love with you. His nature is to fix and help the things – and people – he cares about. This includes him sitting you down and telling you exactly what you need to do in any given situation. 

It’s important to keep this in mind, and interpret it as a signal that he truly cares about you and your wellbeing. He does think he has all the answers, so from time to time you may need to just put him back in his place! 

7. He Buys You (Practical) Things

All earth signs like to shop. They like to collect material things – it makes them very happy, and makes them feel as if their hard work is paying off. 

One of the ways that a Virgo man will secretly express his love for you is by bringing home little and large gifts. Maybe it’s just a pastry from the local shop, or something bigger like a microwave or dishwasher. 

Yes, you heard that right. He will never bring you an impractical gift, so don’t expect something that will just lie around uselessly. It’s not always romantic, but it is an assurance of his feelings for you! 

Read next: 7 Perfect Gifts to Give Your Virgo Man

8. He Can’t Keep His Hands Off You

Finally, the last, very clear way he will show his love for you is by being all over you, physically. This is a man that may be shy in the street, but as they say, he’s a wildcat in the sheets! When he’s really into you, you will be his Goddess, his queen, the object of his lust! 

So, when words fail, actions show it all! 

Are you in love with a Virgo man? I’d love to know your story. Feel free to share in the comments box below! And check out my Virgo Man Secrets for more insight on the sexy Virgo man:

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach



14 thoughts on “8 Secret Ways A Virgo Man Expresses His Love

  1. I was dating a Virgo and we are still friends .He said I broke trust by doing something that I told him I would but I didn’t tell my daughter the whole thing about us and he was mad and broke it off but we remained friends with benefits .I still love him and he said he still loves me .but when we were together we would talk during the week but on the weekends I would barely talk to him at all on some occasions I would not talk to him at all .

    1. Hi Stacee Marshall!

      Oops so you told your daughter something he didn’t want you to tell. Yep, he sees that as betrayal and now he isn’t sure if he cant trust you to be in a committed relationship. Him agreeing to friends with benefits is rare. They normally won’t do that. Maybe in his mind it’s a probationary type of thing to see if he can learn to trust you again over time. I would tell him that you’re sorry for betraying his trust and that you won’t ever do that again. I don’t know if you did that yet or not but it’s a great start. Check out my books on Virgo Man Secrets for more information that can help you.

  2. Ciao Anna, la mia storia è un po’ particolare. Io e questo ragazzo Vergine ci siamo conosciuti e piaciuti da piccoli e a Gennaio ci siamo sentiti e visti dopo 10 anni. Abbiamo iniziato un’amicizia particolare. Nessuno dei due voleva una storia inizialmente e abbiamo impostato tutto sul sesso. Ci troviamo benissimo a letto, ma ci troviamo molto bene anche a parlare tra noi. Mi racconta sempre ciò che gli succede, cosa lo stressa e cosa gli piace. Mi dà consigli e apprezza ciò che faccio. Però sono sempre io a chiamarlo o a volte a mandargli messaggi.

    1. Ciao Giuliana Grillo!

      Penso che le cose suonino alla grande tra voi due. Non è male che voglia che tu inizi l’interazione. Vuole la prova che sarai lì per lui e gli darai le spalle. A meno che non sia scomodo, non me ne preoccuperei. Se ti preoccupa, parlagliene. Sii onesto e aperto. Lo apprezzerà. Se vuoi saperne di più, dai un’occhiata ai miei libri su Virgo Man Secrets!

  3. My virgo man is in a bad relation ship and wants out. this man was with me off and on due to working away for long periods but we always talked almost every day Right now I get a message from him everyday and calls 4-5 times a week.

    1. Hi Geraldine Cartier!

      If he wants out of a bad relationship then he needs to go ahead and end that relationship. Why is he dragging you into it? He shouldn’t. He needs to handle his business and then call you to pursue you. Basically the way he’s doing it now is trying to establish something with you but still holding on to her. That’s not fair to anyone. Tell him to go ahead and end it with her if he wants to go forward with you or anyone else. He knows that’s the truth. He may appreciate it too! I wish you luck sweetheart!

    1. Hi Lori!

      I’m sorry that he’s not showing you he loves you buy these efforts. Here’s the thing, not all Virgo men are exactly the same. They have different aspects in their charts thus making their personalities unique. That being said, your Virgo man may be showing you a very different way OR he’s afraid to open up to you enough to show you how he cares. Talk to him and ask him why he never shows how he feels. The answer may surprise you. Blessings sweetheart!

  4. OMG my Virgo man just made me a spread sheet! I was laughing reading this! and has been advising me on my finances. This is all so true even though I’d like him to be able to share his feelings more. I’m finally understanding it’s just his way. I do feel loved, and that’s the most important thing.

    1. Hi Susan!

      Haha a spreadsheet… oh yes. That sounds about right. I’m glad you’re understanding how he operates and sometimes they do teach you some really valuable lessons for success. Hold onto that guy! I wish you all the very best!

    1. Hi Anonymous!

      Well, he’s a good guy and I wouldn’t read too far into it unless he’s giving you some other signs that he cares for you. Sometimes they are just nice and will sign a card this way. Keep your eyes out for other signs sweetheart. There may be something there but don’t hurt yourself if he was only being nice. I wish you all the very best!

  5. The Virgo man told me that he will concentrate on himself and his career. But, he is sending me mixed signals. Am I going to pursue or wait for him?

    1. Hi Rocel!

      Lots of patience is needed with Virgo. If he’s a busy guy then he’s letting you know he wants to be friends and maybe more later on when he has more time. He’s trying to keep you interested in him so that when he’s ready, you will be there for him. You need to decide if that’s something you are alright with doing or if you should just move on. That’s a choice only you can make sweetheart. I wish you all the luck of the stars!

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