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Dating A Virgo Man? Here Are 8 Facts You Need To Know

Virgo men are quite unique and different in their approach to relationships. On the surface, they can appear to be cold, detached and uninterested, but deep down they can be extremely loving.

They make wonderful partners to women who are able to let go of their traditional expectations of how romance unfolds.

Here’s all you need to know about dating a Virgo man:

The virgin archetype that symbolizes this sign stands for self-sufficiency, so don’t make the mistake of thinking these men are prudish or uninterested. As an earth sign, sex and love are natural and healthy ways for Virgo men to express the body and soul.

Emotional attachment is not as simple for Virgos. They tend to question the validity of their emotions and give more weight to their intellect at the expense of “going with it”.

Many women misinterpret the emotional minimalism of Virgo man as a lack of interest when it is simply a different approach.

Patience and an open mind are what you need if you want to explore intimacy with a Virgo man.

1. He Gives Mixed Signals

Getting mixed signals, or getting what you interpret as mixed signals, is a common experience when dating a Virgo man. He will call when he wants to, so he won’t keep a mysterious silence for two or three days just to be cool or not appear too eager.

He may call you the day after a date, just to chat, but that doesn’t mean he is head over heels in love.

2. He Doesn’t do Hearts and Flowers


Falling in love and opening up his sensitive soul to the possibility of pain is not something Virgo does easily. He wears his heart on his sleeve but you may not see what color shirt he is wearing for many months or even years.

If you need instant results and traditional signals of romance, like flowers and sentimental text messages, or public displays of affection to feel loved, you might be better off with one of the more sentimental signs.

3. He Loves to Talk

Mercury, the planet of the intellect and communication rules over Virgo and this man loves to talk things through. He lives in his head and his world is made of ideas and thoughts.

Foreplay for him is a rousing debate, so if you are shallow or quiet you either need to read more or come out of your shell.

4. He Loves Being Alone

Virgo men need their time alone. They have very firm boundaries and they won’t appreciate anyone who intrudes on their space or their privacy. You need to be OK with letting him spend nights alone.

They very rarely cheat on lovers, so you need to stop feeling insecure.

5. He Loves to Work

Virgo is the workaholic of the zodiac and this guy puts his professional life before everything else. If you want a date who is nothing but fun, then look elsewhere. Talking to a Virgo man about his work will charm the pants off him, and he makes a great partner for someone who is ambitious or career-minded.

6. He is Brutally Honest


Virgo men secretly worship integrity and honesty. They don’t do tact or flowery compliments but they do tell you, if asked, exactly where they stand.

If you can be honest and open, a Virgo man is a refreshing and supportive partner for life.

7. His Emotions Scare Him

Virgo men are not comfortable with emotional expression. They show love in everyday actions and are capable of deep commitment, but emotions are things they tend to disregard or avoid. Being calm and confident is the best way to make a Virgo man feel comfortable with being around you.

8. He Is a Healer

Virgo is the healer of the zodiac and this earth sign is a great person to be around when you are going through a crisis. He values health, the earth and practicality above luxury so he’s not big on expensive restaurants although he loves good food.

If you have bad habits, he will try to help you lose them and he is not judgmental so don’t try to hide your weaknesses.

He can and wants to help you work through your issues.


Dating a Virgo man may be confusing, but it doesn’t have to be. If you want to make your relationship work, then you need to learn to speak his language and communicate on the same level.

That’s exactly what I teach you in my Virgo Man Secrets step-by-step guide. Click here to learn all about how you can get and KEEP a Virgo man’s interest.

Are you dating a Virgo man? Share your story!

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

2 thoughts on “Dating A Virgo Man? Here Are 8 Facts You Need To Know

  1. To expand on #1 basically he doesn’t play games. There’s no pride or stubbornness. He’ll call when he wants and won’t wait like people who play games with their one and two day rules. On #2 it’s about trust and being cautious. He doesn’t go overboard right away and a month later it’s over. He’ll wait until the feelings are true before he starts with the gifts. And he wants the feelings to be true, he just doesn’t act on them right away until he’s certain.

    1. Thank you! This has helped!! So here’s the run down-we are both in our 50’s, I’ve been dating a Virgo man – been dating a little over two months, we see each other 1 – 2 x’s a week, he texts me every morning and we text throughout the day & call once or twice a day. He seems to make plans for every other weekend. What confuses me is, he is always kind I.e. asks how I am, says thank you, holds my hand, gives me a kiss, he invited to his home several times, we had 4 intimate times – he still does all the same but doesn’t ask me to his home anymore- I broke it off thinking he just wasn’t into me, however, he asked if I was still mad, I said I’m not mad at you, I’m confused with you. He said he really likes me, We started all the same communication as before except he never asks me over. & he won’t always ask me out even if I say I’m doing nothing- Any idea’s? Is this his shyness, he’s not interested, is he back burnering me? (When I initially broke it off I told him don’t back burner me & waste my time, he said he wasn’t) I’m so confused could it be that he is a Virgo? (I’m an Aquarius)

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