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5 Signs a Virgo Man Is in Love (Maybe with You!)

 A girl can drive herself crazy wondering if her Virgo man is truly in love! These 5 signs will clear things up. If any of these rings a bell, your Virgo guy is way into you!

Anna here again, and I’m here to discuss a topic many of my clients bring to me: How to tell if their Virgo men are in love with them

Well, there is most certainly a number of ways that a Virgo man will show his love for you once he actually is in love, which can take time. I’ll clue you in on 5 surefire hints that he’s got it bad!

But first, let me remind you that Astrology is not a game—it is a real science practiced by some of the greatest minds in times ancient and present!

Some of the greatest celebrities also rely on Astrology, including Lady Gaga, Angelina Jolie, the late former president Ronald Reagan, Mae West, Angelina Jolie, Kendall Jenner, and more. I’ve had my fair share of celebrities contact me, but you’ll have to guess which ones!

So, let’s get down to it and find out just how a Virgo man shows he’s in love with you!

5 Signs a Virgo Man Is in Love

1. He Puts Work on the Back Burner—Even for a Short Time

5 Signs a Virgo Man Is in Love (Maybe with You!)

As you know, many men put their work above everything, and this applies twofold to Virgos, who happen to be the hardest workers of all the Zodiac signs. 

Ruled by Mercury, Virgo is always mentally stimulated and cannot stop processing and thinking. Virgo men are honestly like a computer sometimes the way they gather information and processing it!

Work is so important to them that they will wither away if they have nothing to do!

Now, knowing that, if your Virgo man puts work plans on hold to spend time with you, that’s the first sign that he loves you. He’s showing you that you’re more important than his work—and it counts no matter how brief that time is! 

Whether you realize it or not, this is HUGE and a definite way of him subtly saying, “I’m in love with you.”

2. He Cleans Up Your (Literal) Messes

Virgo men are all about neatness, hygiene, and cleanliness. 

Now, in general, if a Virgo man comes to your place and it’s messy, he’s not going to be impressed.

In fact, he may leave early, or he may even harshly criticize the way you live and tell you you’re a slob—which no woman wants to hear!


One of the keys to knowing if your Virgo man is in love with you is if he sees your place is a mess, doesn’t say a word. He may even simply walk over to the sink to do the dishes himself, telling you to relax, or get a broom and sweep the floors for you.

Of course, he is getting joy out of this, as keeping things neat and clean is so part of his Virgoan make-up, but if he does this for you with no questions asked, the man is definitely in love with you!

3. He Compliments You

Virgo Man Compliments You

Virgo men are judgy—it’s just in their nature. It’s very easy for them to look at something and see the wrong in it. Too easy, in fact. 

That is why Virgos make the best teachers, office managers, life-skills coaches, nutritionists, and doctors. They can see problems easily and fix them!

But when a Virgo man is in love with you, he’ll take a break from his critical instincts and start complimenting you.

These guys notice the details, so whether it’s a change in lipstick, a new style of jeans, or different perfume, they’re going to start dishing out the compliments.

Remember, Virgos are introverts. They are shy and keep to themselves. If they actually go out of their way to compliment you, that is HUGE

And it’s definitely a way of saying “I love you.”

4. He Wants to Get—or Give—a Massage

There’s no denying it—most Virgos are born with OCD. 

It’s part of their Mercurial nature (and they share this trait with a lot of Geminis, who are ruled by the planet Mercury, as well).

But Virgo men are obsessed with hygiene and health. They often dislike touching others and really don’t like being touched themselves!

If your Virgo comes to you with a bottle of oil and asks for a massage, or asks if he can massage you, know that this is a big sign of love.

Massages are very intimate, and if he wants to massage you or vice versa, it means he wants to touch every part of your body.

What it really means is that he is being open and vulnerable with you and exposing himself to you.

It is a very intimate sign of love.

Read next: Hot and Cold Virgo Man: Why and What You Can Do

5. He Cooks for You

Virgo Man Cooking For You

A Virgo man who loves you will want to make you feel that you are looked after and cared for. He will do little things for you like prepare home-cooked meals, making sure your favorite hot sauce is spread over your chicken wings.

He will also make sure there are vegetables accompanying every dish, as he wants to make sure your health is taken care of at the same time.

Cooking is a very precise and measured job for him, so know that if he is inviting you over for home-cooked, romantic meals, he is completely and utterly in love with you.

An even bigger sign of love is if he has dessert ready. As you probably know by now, Virgos are dead-set on good health and nutrition, so if he is preparing your favorite chocolate dish, it’s a big indicator of love.

One important piece of advice: Virgo men can be quite traditional, so it’s important to let him be the first one to say, “I love you,” or “I’m in love with you.”

It’s a huge statement for him, and when he says it, he means it with all of his heart. You should feel very special indeed, as Virgo men are exceptionally selective when it comes to matters of the heart!

Take my simple compatibility quiz to see if you and the Virgo man you are crushing on match well! 

What signs do you look for to figure out if your man is in love? Let me know in the comments!

Your friend and favorite relationship astrologer,

Anna Kovach

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