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5 Ways to Respond When a Virgo Man Ignores You

Virgo men are great at so many things. Unfortunately, one of them is ignoring you! Find out what to do when your Virgo guy falls off the face of the earth.

As a relationship astrologer, I meet a lot of women who have one major problem weighing on their hearts—they’re being ignored by their Virgo men!

Now, being with a Virgo can be a really lovely experience. They always look and smell good without a hair out of place. They always show up on time, their homes never smell funky, and everything is neat and perfectly in place.

Unfortunately, your Virgo man might excel at another skill—ignoring you.

The planet Mercury rules Virgo, and Mercury moves at an incredibly fast pace, but it can also seem to go backwards. Ever heard of a Mercury retrograde, where everything, especially communication, seems to go wrong?

Well, Virgo men can seem odd at times, acting out of character without communicating with you.

There are a few things you can do when a Virgo man ignores you, but first, let’s look at how Astrology can serve you.

Astrology is an ancient practice used to predict events, break down people’s personalities, and even make financial decisions. Where Astrology really comes in handy, though, is predicting love and the destiny of a couple!

So, let’s look at what to do when a Virgo man ignores you…

5 Ways to Respond When a Virgo Man Ignores You

1. The “Cave” Method

This is all about giving the Virgo man in your life space. Virgo men often have an empath energy where they absorb too much of what is going on around them, and they may just need a break from it all. 

It’s likely he’s ignoring you simply because he’s busy in his “cave” doing his own thing.

If you think this could be the case, it’s best just to give him his space—your own personal “cave” method. Give the man some room, and he should come running back to you after a few days or weeks.

However, if you haven’t heard from him at all after a few weeks, you need to drop him a simple message like, “Hey, I haven’t heard from you for a while, is everything ok 🙂?”

That’s simple and easy and should warrant an answer. 

2. The “Doll-Me-Up” Method

The Doll Me up Method when a Virgo Man ignores you

There’s a sad truth about Virgos (one they share with Libras), and that is if you don’t look good, they will often lose interest.

It does not mean you have to be tall and thin a la Kendall Jenner or have flawless curves like J-Lo. However, your Virgo man needs to see you put some effort into the way you look, especially when you are with him, otherwise he may start ignoring you in favor of finding someone who looks after herself better.

I know, that’s a hard pill to swallow, but you have to make the effort. If you can’t get your hair and nails done, that’s okay! Give yourself an at-home mani-pedi, and wash and condition your hair with something sweet-smelling that leaves it soft and tangle-free.

Your clothes don’t need to be expensive—they just have to fit well and look good. A little bit of aerobic exercise every morning won’t hurt either. Buy a perfume that you love and is affordable, and spray on just a touch before you see him. 

Taking care of yourself will feel great, and your Virgo man will start noticing the difference, too—even if he doesn’t say anything. 

3. The “Humble” Method

Humble When A Virgo Man Ignores You

Perhaps your Virgo man is ignoring you because you had a big fight and you went a bit over the top and said or did something particularly cruel.

If this happens, it’s almost like a lightning bolt has just struck the relationship, and you both need time to recover.

However, it’s really important to let go of your ego, become humble, and call him. You need to apologize and let him know that you were in the wrong (if you were) and explain that you won’t let it happen again.

BUT, if you cheated on him, not only did you hurt his pride, but he now looks at you differently—like you’re promiscuous—and that’s a big deal to a Virgo. In order to patch that one up, you need to give him a few weeks of alone time, and then sincerely apologize. 

If he is in love with you, he should forgive you, but a part of his heart will always be broken, so hopefully you never end up in this situation! 

4. The “Social Media Fun” Method

Ways To Respond When A Virgo Man Ignores You

If you find that your Virgo man is ignoring you, simply go out and “get a life” and show what you are doing the best way you know how—through social media.

If he is connected to you through Instagram and Facebook, that’s great! 

You need to look your best, get together with friends, go to the gym, go dancing, read a fantastic book, watch a fabulous Netflix series, start cooking—and post ALL of this.

When he sees you having a lot of fun, he is going to feel like he is missing out, and you’ll probably hear from him shortly.

Two tips, though: don’t overdo it by posting multiple times a day, and be careful when posting pictures of you with other guys (make sure the pictures don’t look sexual in any way). 

If it’s just you and a good-looking male friend laughing over an innocent lunch, your Virgo man is going to feel a twang of jealousy and will probably contact you very soon!

Read next: The Top 5 Negative Traits of a Virgo Man (and How to Neutralize Them!)

5. The “Good Communication” Method

Sure, if your Virgo man is ignoring you, it can really hurt. But sometimes, the best thing to do is just have an open conversation with him about it.

However, don’t do this straight away; wait at least seven days before reaching out to him.

DON’T lay it all out over text or give him the ominous “We need to talk.” This is one phrase that will make him run a million miles away—FAST!

Instead, send him a gentle message like, “Hey, I haven’t seen you in a while, and I would love to catch up. Can I come over?”

If he says yes, go over there and settle down and relax. Once relaxed, you can just mention to him that you have noticed that he’s gone really quiet, and you would just like to know what’s going on.

Let him speak without interrupting, and listen to everything he has to say. Hopefully everything is good and he just needed time. 

Communication is key in any relationship, especially with Virgos, who are known for sometimes thinking the worst or dealing with anxiety. 

Maybe he just needed to hear that you really care for him and missed him. If so, he’ll be back in your arms in no time!

Well, there you have it—the best ways to respond when a Virgo man ignores you. Your relationship should be back on track any day now!

Wondering how well you and your Virgo fit together? Take my simple and fun compatibility quiz to see how you match up!

Have you ever had a guy start ignoring you out of nowhere? How did you deal? I’d love to hear about it in the comments!

Your friend and favorite relationship astrologer,

Anna Kovach



2 thoughts on “5 Ways to Respond When a Virgo Man Ignores You

  1. Hi Anna, I just wanted to thank you for your help. I am truly feeling this virgo man. But they are different. Lol the minute I saw him it was just different. I have really never thought of forever , I have never been married before and he’s a widower with 3 adult children and I have 1adult child. We are not dating yet but I really want to. I am not working now so I can’t buy your book. But you are so kind to give little tips and I thank you for that. God bless you.

    1. Hi Bea m.Leonard!

      It’s my pleasure to help you where I can sweetheart. Virgo is definitely a good man to fall in love with and spend forever with. He has his flaws like any other but he’s the most hard loving man you could ever encounter. I’m happy for you darling! You may want to read my book “Virgo Man Secrets” to reveal even more information.

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