Will a Virgo man come back after ghosting? Does No Contact work on Virgos? If questions like these keep you up at night, you’re not alone.
Virgo men are puzzling in love. Even when a Virgo guy is serious about you, he can be frustratingly distant when feelings are involved. But if you know when and how to practice a No Contact Rule with a man born under this humble sign, you can get him back.
The key is to learn how to make him chase you, and that’s where I come in.
I’m Anna Kovach, a Relationship Astrologer with decades of experience helping intelligent, beautiful, spiritual women like you to find lasting love with their Virgo men.
Experience has taught me a thing or two about not chasing this sign, no matter how tempted you might be. Here are some benefits of following a No Contact Rule with a man born under this sign.
1. He Feels Relief
If you enact a No Contact Rule with a Virgo man, his first reaction might surprise you. Initially, he feels relief, and not for the reasons you might think. He is likely to feel relief because he needs breathing room and feels overwhelmed when he cares about you.
Although at first, he may feel relaxed that you aren’t pursuing him. But when he’s had time to decompress, your Virgo guy will notice the void left by the time he once spent with you. Yet, this reaction illustrates just how much Virgo men do need a break for periodic resets even when they care.
As steady earth signs, a Virgo man always comes back, you don’t have to be afraid to leave him alone for a while.
2. He Gradually Settles Down
When you step back and give a Virgo man a chance to notice what life is like without you, he will have a change of heart. He gradually opens up to commitment and will settle down if you aren’t always available. He needs to see that the relationship will not overwhelm him. When you don’t chase him, he assumes you are busy, and this is heartening.
Wondering when to walk away from a Virgo man? If you’re on the verge of giving up, step back and leave him alone. A Virgo man values productivity and service. If he thinks you are too busy helping others to text him night and day, he will become more attracted to you and will want to settle down.
You’ll see signs a Virgo man still loves you and his affection grows if you stop contacting him for a few days. Give him long enough to realize you are not participating in his routines and missing routine texts or calls.
3. He Becomes Curious About You
You can trigger a Virgo man’s curiosity when you aren’t too available. If you follow a No Contact Rule with a man born under this sign, he becomes more interested in you, not less. He will want to know what you’re doing and may become more obsessed.
You can entice a Virgo man if you give him a chance to take initiative. But if you are too determined, you can push him away without realizing it. Going quiet for a few days and even a week or more can encourage his attraction rather than turning him off.
4. He Starts to Miss You
A No Contact Rule with a Virgo man can make him miss you, something that is not easy to accomplish with a Virgo. Men born under this sign can be aloof and strive to be detached and rational. They avoid sentimentality that interferes with their work or clouds their judgment.
If you want to know how to make a Virgo man miss you badly, it is far better to contact him minimally. He needs ample time to himself before he realizes you haven’t been in touch in a few days. Unlike more sensitive and emotional guys, Virgo men can require more time alone before his nostalgia sets in.
5. He Worries About You
A Virgo man may surprise you by becoming unusually anxious and overprotective when you don’t reach out regularly. If you avoid a Virgo man for a while, he may panic and assume you are unwell or that something has happened.
If you want to make a Virgo man concerned about you, resist the urge to contact him. Give him downtime to work on his favorite hobbies and projects and he will inevitably wonder what you’re doing. He is likely to even worry about you and assume you may be sick and need his attention and nurturing.
6. He Takes Initiative
Virgo men take a slow and steady pace to pursuing their goals, including in love and relationships. But if a Virgo guy thinks he might lose you because you’ve shut down, he will show renewed interest and passion in pursuing you. He seldom acts urgently, but he may become more determined and show through his actions that he takes you seriously.
If he’s procrastinated on taking you out because he’s so busy with work, he will suddenly take initiative when you are less responsive. Taking a break from contacting him can make a Virgo man more energetic and intently focused on you.
7. He Becomes More Consistent
Following a No Contact Rule with a Virgo man makes him more consistent. He may become more attuned to your practical needs and eager to appease you. If he is typically distant and consumed with work and other projects, ignoring him makes him put more effort into being a steady presence in your life.
You can make a Virgo man step up and show up steadily if you are distant. Backing down can clear the path for a Virgo man to chase you again, though he still follows a slow and measured pace.
See how much you can gain from reserving your urge to contact him?
Unlike many men, Virgos won’t become moody or hurt when you ignore them. Absence truly makes his heart grow fonder.
How did ignoring him work for you? I’d like to hear from you.
Ignoring a Virgo man isn’t about playing games… it’s about giving him the time and space to realize what he truly feels for you.
The No Contact Rule can shift the dynamic completely, but only if you know exactly when and how to use it.
The 30-Day Challenge will guide you through each stage so you can rebuild his desire step by step and inspire him to chase you again.
Have you ever tried the No Contact Rule with your Virgo man?
Did it make him step up, or did it backfire?
Do you feel ready to try this approach now?
Share your thoughts and experiences below! I want to hear your story.
With love,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
