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Sex With A Virgo Man: What Is He Really Like In Bed?

Are you having sex with a Virgo man or thinking of having? Are you dating that gorgeous Virgo guy and contemplating what it might be like to have sex with him? Is he really a prude or is he giving?

Here are some things that you may want to know in regards to sex with a Virgo man.

Sex With a Virgo Man Might Seem Shy at First

When a Virgo man starts to get to know someone or date them, he’s cautious. His sexual appetite is closely tied to his heartstrings. There are some Virgo men who may stray from the norm and be promiscuous. Most, however, are not like that.

In fact, most of them do not even want to have sex with someone unless they really believe it’s going to go somewhere for the future. That being said, he’s fantastic at holding out.

He’ll hold out for as long as he deems necessary. Necessary would be when he feels that things are progressing and a bond is being formed. He also wants to feel comfortable.

While all of this is going on, he won’t be busting too many moves. He is rather shy in the beginning and doesn’t really know what to do or say. This makes him awkward at times and reserved.

It can make him seem like a bit of a prude but nothing could be further than the truth. He just reserves his body for someone with whom he feels that he has a deep connection with.

When He Opens Up...

This may take a bit of time for him to figure out but once he does, things will shift and he will go from shy to hubba hubba. That means he’ll go from doing nothing to wanting to keep his hands all over you.

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If you’ve been dating for a while and he finally starts to initiate some physical contact, you’ll find that he is rather sensual. He will like to kiss your lips, your forehead, your cheeks, your neck and perhaps even your shoulder.

This eventually leads to touching you in other places. He takes it slowly though because, again, he’s still trying to get to know you and doesn’t want to rush the process.

He DOES want sex. Make no mistake about that. He just wants to make sure that the person he’s having sex with is someone he can also have a future relationship with. He’s not really much into one night stands or temporary situations.

This is why a Virgo man can go years without having sexual contact with another person or even a relationship. He doesn’t need to and isn’t ready to settle for just anyone. So, sex with a Virgo Man isn’t like any other.

He’ll Show You What He’s Made Of

When he’s young, he may settle a bit easier but when he figures out that it’s a mistake to do that, he’ll grow up and learn that something worth waiting for is far better.

It will take him some time but when he starts opening up more, he becomes affectionate and endearing. He will like to hold your hand, kiss your hand, and stare into your eyes.

It’s important for him to read you by looking into your eyes. So if he starts to stare at you when you talk, he’s trying to read your body language to make sure you’re being authentic. This is why it’s important to never lie to him.

He’ll pick up on it and he’ll know when you’re not being honest. Honesty will earn you far more brownie points and will help build a tighter bond with your loving Virgo man. Sex with a Virgo man can be mind-blowing.

Getting it Going

Once the Virgo man is ready to lay it down with the lady of his dreams, he will start to slowly uncover who he really is when it comes to sex. If he’s comfortable with his lady, he will shower her with ecstasy.

He will find out what she likes and he’ll start doing it more and more. He will expect her to speak up and tell him what she wants otherwise he’s going in blind. Once she does tell him though, he’ll try to give her as much of it as he can.

He Loves to Pleasure His Partner

The Virgo man finds so much more pleasure in sex when he’s able to pleasure his partner. It turns him on to watch her writhing in complete surrender in sexual activity.

Watching her being turned on and even orgasming, will make him feel the deepest form of satisfaction than you can ever imagine. A big turn on for him is when she masturbates in front of him.

He will just about orgasm himself just by watching her. He thinks it’s the sexiest thing he’s ever witnessed. He’ll want to ravage her and make her have another one if he can help it.

The truth is, as much as Virgo is known as a “virgin”, he’s actually a bit of an undercover freak. He likes to push it to the limit, he likes handcuffing, sensuality at the highest, and lots of oral play.

This Guy is Naturally Gifted

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Now, if you’ve been waiting for your Virgo guy to open up to you. Let me assure that when he does, you’ll never want for more. Truly he will be the best sex you’ve ever had in your life.

There are exceptions to the rule but most Virgo men know how to satisfy a woman even if he thinks he doesn’t. Some have low self-esteem and think they aren’t that great at it when they are naturally gifted.

They are attentive, they want to see you fulfilled, and they will feel much more satisfied when you are fully satisfied. They are givers and they are grateful for what they receive.

Virgo man is one of the hottest men in the sack. That is no line. Unless he has a rising sign that points him elsewhere, he is what you look for in loyalty, love, and sex. He’s the full package!

If you’re ready to understand more about Virgo man click here to learn more about Virgo Man Secrets.

Have you ever had sex with a Virgo man?

Let me know in the comment section below!


Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

31 thoughts on “Sex With A Virgo Man: What Is He Really Like In Bed?

  1. Yes I have. Its was the best sensual, emotions running wild feeling I’ve ever had. The best are his strokes he knows to hit the spot. After our sexual interaction he hugged and kiss me so till he fell asleep.❣❣❣

  2. Yes my virgo man is exactly what you said.He took things very slow at first and now he does everything to make sure that I am pleased.Thank you!

    1. My Virgo and I have been intimate maybe 6 or 7 times over 2-3 months but we still haven’t kissed or he hasn’t performed oral sex on me. Should I mention it to him or just continue being patient?

      1. Hi Bri32!

        Ok so you have to be totally honest and speak up to your Virgo. Tell him it’s something you really enjoy. Sometimes men think they aren’t any good at it because exes have told them they aren’t or they just have little to no experience with it. Virgo men can be rather kinky but sometimes they need some guidance. Tell him what you want! You might want to read up more on Virgo with my series “Virgo Man Secrets”.

  3. Yes I am having sex with a Virgo man and BOY I TELL YOU its nothing like I’ve ever had he’s slow, orally fantastic, and hits all the right spots when deep inside!! He’s kisses leave me WEAK the constant touching when MEET sends me crazy before sex. Is it ok to say he wants me forever he’s said he wants to wake up with me everyday and that he loves me but sometimes I feel I just can’t reach him? I’m a TAURUS women nd going Bunkers over this? He does so much to me Mentally Physically and Emotionally!!

  4. I cried laughing when I read that Virgo men like when you masturbate in front of them. I did it before it’s the truth he loved every second of it

  5. Yes, best sex of my life, he loves doing oral play on me, and just making great sex, I’m currently dating a virgo I’m so deeply in love with this man, he’s so affectionate and loves kissing and showing gratitude as if he is so proud of being with me❤️

    1. Hi Shacara!

      I’m glad that you have it so well with your Virgo man. It sounds like he really loves you and of course, that only makes the sex that much better. They tend to do anything and everything they can to please the one they love. You’re a very lucky lady and I wish you all the very best!

  6. Yes best sex ever with Virgo and cancer!! Literally mind blowing!! The virgo guy knows how to work your entire body and sometimes read your mind. Truly amazing conversations and while sleeping you can communicate with each other. Virgo are wonderful with Cancer sign and work very well together.

    1. Hi je!

      The two of you have a very good connection. Once he falls for you and gets to know you enough, he will know exactly what to do to please you and it sounds like you got the best of his abilities. I’m happy to hear it and thank you for sharing your experience with me. Your two signs should work very well for the long run. Enjoy it!

  7. Yes mind blowing love making, it’s new and we haven’t tried oral yet but his sexual skills are so amazing I barely noticed. Loves to watch me masturbate. Taurus women!

    1. Hi M!

      You haven’t tried oral? You need to! You’ll be pretty floored at how amazing that works. Yes, he loves to watch his partner get off. It’s one of his favorite things to do actually. Your pleasure turns him on more than anything else in this world. He may even retain the visual in his mind to use for a later date with his hand.

  8. This is 100% factual, my Virgo fwb is the best I have ever had he always knows exactly what to do never disappoints. Too bad he isn’t interested in more than sex with me but I’ll take the most amazing sex I’ve ever had over nothing any day!!

    1. Hi Michelle!

      Ah the rare FWB! They don’t do that sort of thing often because they like to reserve themselves for their loving partner. The fact that he won’t give you more is telling. It means it will likely never be more than that. It is amazing sex but amazing sex doesn’t fill your heart. At some point you’re going to have to decide if this is what you want to stick with or if you want to hold out for someone else who will give you the full package. I hope you find it!

  9. I’m a Pisces and it says,Pisces and Virgo sexual chemistry is compatible..Well they wasnt lying!! Everytime we have sex I have the most explosive orgasm all over my body..Omg!!!!

    1. I am a Pisces too and my Virgo man drives me crazy in the best way! Maybe not so much in how slow it is taking to form a relationship yet but he is very attentive in and out of bed. The oral everything is the best I have ever had!! Omg I am going to masturbate in front of him he has been wanting me to!

  10. AM I the only one who doesn’t think that Virgo men are good in bed at all? My last ex was a Virgo and we only had sex a few times in or entire 1.5 yrs of relationship. Those few times were great but he wasn’t sexual at all. I had to do all the work to make it happen and most times I was rejected so that’s that. Now I met another Virgo a yr ago, he didn’t want a relationship at the time, we did get involved sexually though, the sex was great only because I fell in love with him. No oral ever or any affection, no foreplay at all. I walked away from him. Now he is back, after him being so persistent of wanting me back, wanting a relationship now and had sex with him very recently but again, no oral, no foreplay, just shoving it in there, no hugging or anything after sex, it sucks. In my experience, Virgo men are ice cold or it takes forever for them to open up that I waited long enough for with this man. Not a fan at all. They are impossible.

    1. Hi Kat!

      Well, it could be that your sign simply doesn’t work well with his. Some Virgo men are so chaste and loyal that they have only been with one or two partners therefore are a bit inexperienced. They need a woman that will experiment with him and teach him how to do things right. There are also Virgo men who are very well experienced and will knock your socks off along with your bra. They’re all different. Don’t write them off Kat! If you need more help though, you can check out my book “Virgo Man Secrets”.

    1. Hi Allison!

      That is fantastic to hear sweetheart. I do hope there is plenty of other amazing qualities of your guy as well. You really should check out my book sometime and see if there is any more information that will help you to get closer to him and really KNOW the way he thinks so you can keep what you have with him successful.

  11. My male best friend is a virgo we have started a fwb and hes amazing in bed but now if I mention another man showing interest in me he finds fault with them so it puts me off them but at the same time says he dosent care about them and he messages me every day through out the day sometimes calling me is there something I’m missing. I’m a virgo too .

    1. Hi Tikka!

      Finding faults is a Virgo man’s expertise. This is no surprise at all if he found out about the other guy. If he’s messaging you often and calling then it’s very possible that he wants more than just friendship. You should talk to him and figure it out. Virgo men don’t hold well with fwb relationships. They end up caring more than they thought they would. If you would like to know more about the male aspects of Virgo, check out my books about Virgo Man Secrets. It could help you get why he’s doing this.

    1. Hi QuaP!

      Thank you so much. One of my very best friends is a Sagittarius who is married to a Virgo man and she’s given me a whole lot of information due to her own experiences with her guy. They are pretty amazing but hey, if you want to learn even more about Virgo men, check out my books on Virgo Man Secrets. It may give you some more facts that would really surprise you!

      1. I’m an Aries woman and I’m in relationship with my virgo man over a past 3 years and its a pure blessing for me. He makes me feel so comfortable when he is with me.. As an fire sign I do believe that we love wild and passionate sex but he loves equally as well. He is sensual but more wild in bed but I’m more dominant though. Talking about our emotional bonding I always make sure that he is comfortable and happy with my decisions and we both argue a lot especially im the initiator of our fights but we both forgive each other and forget about that.. He loves me so much that I always find peace around his arms.. I have seen so many articles that fire signs tends to fit with fire signs only but trust me the way virgo man will give you love, affection, peacefulness, romance, attention and lot more I have huge doubt that no fire or air or any other sings are going to provide u that.. They protects their partner very much and hell yes in return they want the same affection and love. They will make sure you also love them equally otherwise they will end the relationship.
        So girls those who are interested to make their Virgo man fall in love hard for u love them equally u r going to get that pleasurable love for lifetime i’m damn sure

        1. Hi Pooja!

          Thank you for your beautiful feedback! I love success stories. It sounds like you’ve figured out the right formula when it comes to your own Virgo man. If you ever need any other information on him then I suggest you check out my books on Virgo Man Secrets!

  12. Definitely an undercover freak!! I’m a Taurus and I met a Virgo man at a mutual friend’s party about a year ago. I was instantly attracted to him, and there was a little flirting. Then a lot of texting, and we would see each other at group events. He is 49, really smart…even seemed to be a little on the shy and nerdy side. It only took him 10 months to ask me out, but once we finally went out, I saw a side of him I never saw coming. The date started nice. Dinner, wine, good conversation. Then all of a sudden, he grabbed me my the hair… and let’s just say there was suddenly not a shy bone in his body. He is a FREAK. Now I’m trying to figure out if I need to be calling him daddy, or Sir…? It was awesome. This was two days ago. He’s still messaging me but no mention of another date. How long should I expect to wait? Or should I just ask him?

    1. Hi Kris!

      Oh my goodness! What an experience. Thank you for sharing that with me. Virgo men are certainly mysterious. They seem proper and almost prude like but the truth is, they are really freaky when it comes to sex. I would ask him flat out when you’re going to see him again if he hasn’t asked you. Two days isn’t a long time to wait though. They are slow moving and don’t’ want to rush into anything. Give him a week or so before you ask him when you’ll get to see him again. Good luck girlfriend!

  13. My virgo man is amazing at oral. And the sex is like nothing I’ve ever had. He was so in tune with my body, every touch just sent me crazy even before the sex. He’s very affectionate and does the smallest things for me. If I say “I’m thirsty” he’s up getting my bottle of water.

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