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What To Say To a Virgo Man To Get His Attention?

Texting a Virgo man can be a little daunting. This guy is super intelligent and so witty, it can feel like quite a lot of pressure to keep up with him and know what to say to make him intrigued and interested in you.

What is the right way to text a Virgo man? What types of texts will keep him interested in you and help you build a relationship? Here are some methods you may want to consider using to raise your success rate with this sexy Virgo man.

Understanding A Virgo Man’s Texting Style – The Virgo Man’s Texting Habits

Understanding a Virgo Mans Texting Style

A Virgo man tends to be matter of fact and unemotional. He communicates in a very rational and logical way which means he gets straight to the point. This can be quite confusing to contend with because you might wonder: “What do his texts mean?”

It can be hard to gauge if he has true feelings for you through his texts because he is so unemotional. He’s the type of guy that likes to communicate, but he is a lot better at expressing his emotions face-to-face.

He is very practical you see, and he is more likely to text you when he wants to make plans. I wouldn’t expect him to start a long texting thread where he expresses all his feelings. He’s too busy working to do that!

Once in a Blue Moon, he quite enjoys some back-and-forth banter – but this is the exception, not the rule. Learning how to text a man is all about keeping it casual and picking up on his cues. When you see he isn’t in the mood for conversation, then don’t push it and send him a string of texts.

Incessant texting is only going to scare him off and make him run away, and I am sure that is the last thing you would like to achieve. Let us explore more about Virgo men and their texting style. Hopefully, this can help you with any confusion!

A Virgo man’s texting habits in a nutshell: These guys are pretty particular and primarily use texting to make plans and organize their lives. Don’t expect too much back-and-forth banter from this guy!

Do Virgo Men Like Texting?

Virgo men aren’t the biggest texters in the Zodiac, however, they do like communicating in person. A Virgo man is more likely to use texting as a tool to get things done and organize his life. He is a bit too busy to spend his day texting back and forth with his crush.

This is a man who enjoys quality over quantity. He would much rather text once a day and make it meaningful instead of texting nonsense back and forth all day. So, you could say that Virgo men like texting, but only in small quantities.

Should You Text A Virgo Man First?

Should You Text A Virgo Man First

Yes, absolutely! Virgo men are actually incredibly shy and reserved, and they will often not make the first move when it comes to love and romance. This is the type of guy who feels better when he can respond to a woman’s desire than to initiate it.

If you have your eyes on a Virgo man, I think it would be a brilliant idea for you to reach out and text him. This is a fantastic way for you to drop some subtle hints that you are interested in him and want to get to know him better.

Of course, do this in moderation and be cognizant about the way he responds. You need to read the room and see if he takes the bait.

Read also : Do Virgo Men Like To Be Chased? Or Do They Enjoy The Chase?

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What To Say To A Virgo Man To Get His Attention?

What is the Right Way to Text a Virgo Man

There are a myriad of methods you can use to text a Virgo man and to get his attention. It all depends on what type of woman you are and what you feel comfortable with. The most important thing you can do is just to be yourself!

Texting a Virgo man shouldn’t feel unnatural and like you are pretending to be someone you are not.

I know how Virgo men think and what kind of communication suits them the best – I actually wrote an entire guide on that topic – it’s called “Virgo Text Magic” and I’m more than proud that my readers love it. If you would like to explore more on Virgo men and what makes them interested (and hooked) through text, let me know in the comments and I’ll send you the link to the guide.

However, here are some simple and effective tricks on how to text a Virgo man and get his attention:

1. Texting In The Morning

Whether or not he responds, sending your Virgo man that initial text in the morning will make him smile and feel good about where things are going with you. It will inspire him in some way and make him realize that you are a woman worthy of his time.

Make it really light and airy rather than pressuring him. Saying something: “Have a great day, handsome!” will suffice.

It’s simple and doesn’t give way to too much emotion but it will definitely give him a boost of confidence for the rest of his day.

Remember that Virgo men are not emotional. If they are, they just really don’t show it to anyone. That being said, he won’t respond well to emotional types of texts. He won’t know what to say, it will only overwhelm him!

When you wish him well for his day, he’ll feel good about it. Just keep in mind that it’s best not to have expectations on him texting back or WHEN he should text back. He will do so in his own time. Best that you keep busy so that you don’t obsess about his response back.

2. Keep It Fun And Exciting

The right way to text a Virgo man is to make it fun. You can tell him jokes or send him funny memes or photos. He’ll love it. Whether or not you know his mood, keeping it uplifting will be helpful.

It shows him that you like to make sure he smiles and feels good when he associates with you. If he’s having a bad day, it may very well give him a good laugh and relieve some tension.

You can also do some daydreaming with him. He’s really good at it but shares your daydreams with him too. Again, keep it fun though, rather than emotional. Talking about someday going camping or hiking will win the day.

Perhaps there is something you’ve both talked about before that you can bring up again. If it’s something that inspires both of you to be happy, talk about that.

3. Don’t Pressure Him With Texts

If you text a lot, it may start to become overwhelming and make him feel somewhat pressured. Giving him that initial morning post should be sufficient. The right way to text a Virgo man is to let him answer you.

When he does respond, he’ll let you know whether or not he’s in a talkative mood. Go with the flow and let him sort of take the lead. Answer him but let him dictate which direction the conversation will go.

If he seems to stagger and not know what to talk about you may at that point tell him a joke or tell him that you’re working on something and will contact him later.

Just like with any man he may be fickle sometimes and decide that he just isn’t in the mood to text. In fact, many Virgo men prefer to talk on the phone rather than text message anyway.

4. Share Your Success And Fun

If you’re having a great day and things are going really well for you, tell him. He’ll feel good for you. He wants to hear positive and encouraging things from you. So, letting him know you’re doing well will make him feel settled.

He wants you to be happy and to have the very best always. If you complain about work or something else going on, then he may respond with a text telling you to lighten up and not worry so much.

He may also suggest to you that you should treat yourself with something nice. Ultimately, it’s his way of caring and showing that he wants you to feel good about yourself in your life.

If something really great happens to you, text him the good news! He’ll be happy for you. Unlike some other men, the Virgo man is genuinely thrilled for your excitement!

5. Send Him Random Texts

The right way to text a Virgo man is to also randomly send him a flirt. Don’t be vulgar about it — just be really cute and sweet. Don’t have an expectation of when or how he should answer though.

It will catch him off guard for sure, but at the same time, it will get him thinking about you and what the future may hold for the two of you. This will be good for keeping things spicy.

Random texts are fun, exciting, and should keep things fresh between you and your Virgo man. If you don’t want to be sexual, you could just send him a random funny video clip to leave him wondering what that was about.

It may inspire him to text you back with something goofy or sexy. You never know what mood he may be in and so the answers you get could vary. This is why I mention not holding out expectations.

How you can get a Virgo man’s attention over text, summarized: Be sweet, positive, and make an effort! Share with him your genuine self and let your amazing personality shine. This is irresistible to any Virgo man.

Deepening Your Connection With A Virgo Man Over Text

Your Virgo man’s sign is ruled by the planet Mercury, which is all about communication. So, suffice to say, good quality communication is really important to your Virgo man and this is what influences his texting habits.

If you want to deepen your connection with your Virgo man over text then you are going to have to be genuine. Don’t play any games with him by trying to be someone you are not. Speak with him from the heart and let your amazing self shine.

It will mean a lot to him if you show him how considerate, understanding, and kind you are. All a Virgo man really wants is to be with a woman who can be herself and knows how to treat him right.

Your Virgo Man Is Slow To Respond – What Should You Do?

Virgo Man Slow To Respond to Text Messages

Virgo men are sometimes just not in the mood for texting. If that is the case, you’ll have a day or two where you tried texting him and he doesn’t respond. On the days where it feels quiet, revert back to the only morning text.

Many Virgo men just aren’t big texting people. That doesn’t mean he doesn’t care for you or isn’t into you, it just means that he doesn’t like to text that much. You can probably ask him and he’ll tell you.

Try not to hold out expectations on him where texting is concerned. Shoot him that one text and let it go. He’ll either answer you or he won’t. At some point, he’s going to reach out to you to spend some time together.

You may see it as a flaw, but it’s just who he is. As long as you can accept him the way he is, then love is still very much possible. I hope this article helps to give you the proper tips on the right way to text a Virgo man.

I know that sounds really frustrating and sometimes confusing if you don’t really know him.  If him not texting you feels like he is ignoring you and it continues to persist, then it might be a good idea to look at the signs if he is actually into you.

Big No-Nos When Texting A Virgo Man

There are some things you should always avoid when texting a Virgo man. These men are so particular with what they like and dislike that it can be quite easy to turn him off. 

The biggest no-no to avoid when texting a Virgo man is to bombard him with text all day long. This is just way too overwhelming for him to handle and it might give him the thought that you don’t have much going on in your life. 

When texting a Virgo man, you need to be as cool as a cucumber, or else you might get the boot. Here are some more tips to help you avoid any mishaps when texting a Virgo man.

My Final Thoughts

Texting with a Virgo man won’t always be what you expect. There will be times where the two of you really connect, and then others where he is too busy to do much texting. This is much like any relationship and the two of you just need to find your rhythm. 

There is a rush of excitement when you first get to know a Virgo man…

He is just so attentive and makes you feel like you are on top of the world!

This can give you a lot of hope about what the future would be like with your Virgo man.

There is nothing more wonderful than being with a Virgo man…

He is so sweet, kind, caring, supportive, and gentle…

A true gentleman and the type of man you only thought you could make up in your dreams!

If you’ve liked the insights I shared above, I might have something more that might interest you:

The Perfect Flirty Texts for Your Virgo Guy

You surely want to know about The Four-word Flirty Text Message That Makes a Virgo Man Addicted To You!

Make sure you check these three flirty texts that will make him melt!

I wish you so much love and happiness.

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach



71 thoughts on “What To Say To a Virgo Man To Get His Attention?

  1. So I started dating this virgi guy, about 5 years older than me. Everything was going well. Date number was amazing but after that he hasnt really texted much and I have been texting him, and i feel as though he’s ignoring me. So I’ll just stop texting him. Any thoughts?

    1. Don’t text him back soo much ,I noticed it doesn’t work with mine.Give it a couple of days n then text.Virgos can and really do need time on their own.I find it so strange how a man can just stay away from a sexy woman but Virgos really can.Mines just sits home after work doing more work!Smh!! But I’m letting the universe deal w it Cos I’ve rushed all my other relationships n turned out crap!Not this time Im taking my time n finding myself out so I can let someone else in!!

    2. Hi Ruz! Thank you for writing in about your Virgo guy situation. Since you don’t know him very well it is probably hard to tell whether or not he had just as an amazing time with you that you had with him. Virgo men are actually quite reserved and shy when it comes to liking someone. There is a real chance that he’s trying to work up the nerve to talk to you more. If not, he may have found something about you that didn’t sit well with him and has decided to go quiet. I would text him something like “Hey there, hope all is well with you, I’d sure like to hear back from you and perhaps get together again if you’d be up for it”. This lets him know where you are, that you like him and that you’d be up for getting together again. Perhaps he’ll take more initiative then. Learn more about the mysterious Virgo man by checking out my book “Virgo Man Secrets”.

  2. Lol This is so spot on …my Virgos just gets cold .Im a Gemini n wild,emotional.No text n I get angry.Virgo guy wakes up like nothing happened,I’m like ughhhh!!

    1. Hi Lola! Yes, Virgo men are complex. They’re standoffish but at the same time, they’re very relaxed. Sometimes it makes no sense whatsoever. They aren’t too fond of texting a whole lot much like the Taurus man. They’re more into talking in person or on the phone. It takes much patience and effort to be with a Virgo man but his love is like none other and may be worth all the frustration right? You may want to know more about what the Virgo man has to offer. Check out my book “Virgo Man Secrets” as it may help you discover so much more about this mysterious guy who seems so hard to get but so hard to forget at the same time.

    2. My new Virgo man. Kind and very considerate in person. We discussed communication and he acknowledge but got the oddest response tonight from him. Told me about his stuff but didn’t once ask how I am. Yet in person very attentive. Confused Gemini

      1. Hi Rach!

        It sounds like you need more time to get to know each other before forming any conclusions. Try to take it nice and slow. There is no need to rush things along. Relax and talk to him as often as you can. You just may find that he’s a really great person.

      2. I really need help.
        I am a cancer female who likes a Virgo man, even love. We’ve been talking for over 2 years, we met at the gym through a friend group kind of, I’ve met some of his close work friends and I’ve seen some of this family not had a convo with but have seen in person and said hi at least but he has met a lot of my family. We’ve been through some rough patches and overcome them, we have been intimate, we have done “couple like” things, he’s always considerate of me, helping me out, we’ve gone on dates and over all have spent a lot of time together. We aren’t dating though. Off the bat I have a very hard time expressing what’s on my mind and expressing my feelings so one can understand, with that being said sometimes our communication isn’t good because he’s also not in tough with his emotions plus, my trauma and my guard being up from past relationships. I have told him that I liked him which he kind of knew already before me saying it to him face to face but he didn’t reject me nor did he say he liked me back. In the begging there was a lot of things he said he’d never do for example cuddle with someone or hold hands in public but with me he’d do those things. He’s about 3/4 years older than me as well and is a work aholic, goes to the gym etc. he keeps busy..In the past if I asked what he had been doing if I didn’t hear from him for a while usually he straight up tells me which is like a Weight off my shoulders and of course at those times I’ve always been patient and understanding… I think the longest he’s gone without texting me is a week, week and a half but always would reach out or respond back to me. So now here’s the situation. On 4/12 that night I had went to his house and we had a “Netflix and chill”
        Type of night and we had a good time, I hadn’t heard from him all day after I had told him I got home safe because that’s a routine of ours, that night my parents had gotten to me and made me cry and feel awful about my sentimental necklaces that I had accidentally lost, the Virgo man knew and even took me to look in the places where I was the day I lost them which meant a lot to me because it was in the wee hours of the morning, couple weeks prior. Maybe I was annoying because I had mentioned it a few other times before but this night my parents were just being mean and I was PMSing so I was extra sensitive. I contemplated calling him because I didn’t want to bother him or be annoying but I texted him asking if he was busy and he FaceTimed me where I responded In tears ofc he asked what was wrong and I told him It was my parents and I was driving to the place to look for my necklaces because my parents are never going to let this go, he told me they’re just necklaces and are probably gone also, that if I was going to look it needed to be during the day so I could see better. He advised again that it was okay because he’s lost a lot of sentimental jewelry as well. I was already in a mood so I advised I have to look for them and I have to find them because they’re sentimental and that I did understand where he was coming from.(he was working out when I had called) Basically he told me to get ice cream and call him when I got home. I called that night once and he never picked up after that I texted him on 4/22 just a “hey I’m checking on you” type of message then, on 4/27 I sent another hey just checking in I miss you (usually he says he misses me too), I then sent another message same as before just a check up sort of thing on 5/3 and just a “good morning.” On 5/4 and got no response. On Wednesday I FaceTimed him and got no answer it’s 5/11 and still no answer but through all this time he’s been posting how good he’s doing with work on Snapchat and his score has been going up in addition to the posting as well as on Facebook he changed his pfp the day after I had messages him. I have no idea what’s going on I’m trying to be positive and not rush or jump to negative conclusions but aside from the FaceTime about my necklaces, up until that point we were good no issues. Should I reach out again ? I’d I do FaceTime or text ? I want to talk this out with him because even though I’m carrying on doing my own thing, it’s killing me so badly… pls help it’s going to be a month already…

        1. Hi Kay!

          He’s probably busy and also analyzing things as Virgo men do. When he doesn’t talk it’s not because he’s trying to blow you off or be mean toward you. I would flat out ask him and see what he says about FaceTime. It wouldn’t hurt. Yes by all means, you need to talk to him otherwise you’re not going to get any answers and remain frustrated. Now… if he doesn’t answer you then you may have to consider the possibility of moving on. I have more tips that may help you in my books on Virgo Man Secrets. You might want to check those out. I wish you the best.

  3. Hi… I am an Aries girl. I recently went out with a virgo guy. We both like each other and were texting for 2-3 days and then all of a sudden the number of messages we shared started declining. I have been sending morning greeting messages now but for almost 3 days i am not even getting any reply.l don’t know what to do in this case. Should i continue with the morning text or just don’t text him and wait for his message.

    Please do help me. I really need help with this one.

    Bye 🙂

    1. Hi Ava! Thank you for writing in about your confusing Virgo man situation. There is never any way to know what is going on with the Virgo man without actually talking to him via phone or face to face. He could be going through some personal issues or problems that he has to work on thus taking his attention and time away from texting to you. There are a ton of reasons why he hasn’t been texting back but the last thing you should do is stress yourself out over this nor should you just stop reaching out otherwise he’s going to think you gave up on him and then he’ll just move on. My suggestion is perhaps cutting back to every other day but before you do, send a text that says “I’m a little worried I haven’t heard from you in a while, hope you’re alright”. This gives him the opportunity to let you know what is going on if he feels comfortable enough telling you. There is more you can learn if you read my book “Virgo Man Secrets” that may help you.

  4. Hi! I’m an aquarius and i really like this virgo guy. I think he likes me back. We texted for like 4 days straight and now I don’t get ANY texts it makes me soooo confused! Does he still like me or what?!?! A few days ago he called me everynight and now nothing… What do I do?
    Please help….

    1. Hi Marithe! Thank you for writing in. Virgo men prefer face to face typically and are much like Taurus in the way that they’d rather talk on the phone than text or do social messaging. They’re an old fashioned type of men. I wouldn’t panic too much from not hearing from him every single day. 4 days is a very short period of time and shouldn’t dictate whether a relationship is possible or not. Virgo men are slow movers. Be patient and initiate the texts if you need to but don’t freak out if he doesn’t get back to you right away. You probably should learn more about Virgo men and I can help you if you’d like to read my book “Virgo Man Secrets”.

  5. So I met a Virgo man on a dating app. It’s one where women have to make the first move. I did. He responded. We chat back and forth for about a week and a half, and then he finally gives me his number and tells me to text him the next day. So, I did. We talk but not a lot when he’s working or busy. I have a bit more free time than he does. However when we talk it’s because I initiate contact. He does respond, even if it takes him some time, and he will keep the conversation going. A couple of times I thought he was going to ask me out so we could meet in person but he hasn’t yet. I sent him a “good morning text” and he never responded.

    I’m not sure if it matters but there is an age difference. He’s 15 years older than I am. I’ve always been very mature for my age and would actually prefer to talk on the phone or over coffee than to text. I want to convey to him that I would like to meet him but I don’t want to seem too pushy or needy. I actually want him to take the lead because I think men should take the lead in dating and I’m actually very shy and introverted. I guess my question is is he not texting back or initiating contact because he isn’t interested or is it something else? I have always been told that men go after what or who they want. But I think that’s a very simplistic view since men aren’t a monolith. I don’t want to assume the worst. But I do like him so I don’t know what to do or think.

    1. Hi J.J!

      First of all, if you’re going to be with a man, you need to drop expectations or you will be sorely disappointed. Be very careful with that. Virgo men are not traditional in the sense that they act old fashioned where dating is concerned. They are but only to an extent. Making all the first moves and initiating isn’t always important to them. They figure if someone really likes them then THEY will make an effort. If he isn’t responding fast enough or at all sometimes I think he’s probably either really busy or his mind is elsewhere. I’d flat out ask him about it though. It’s often better to ask them what is going on than to speculate. Give it a try!!!

  6. I started talking to this Virgo guy. We haven’t met in person but exchanged message [less than 10 so it is in the VERY early stages]. He seemed to enjoy the little things we talked about and sent me this message, basically asking to do something together [he wasn’t direct. Something similar to “I’ve been thinking of getting ice cream, I don’t know if you’re into that” but longer message than this example. He beat about the bush to finally spit it out and in longest paragraph message he has ever sent].
    When he texts, I don’t reply right away but I do reply within that day. Early in the evening or early in the morning. The days between his texts keep getting longer. When he “asked me out” it had been 3 days since his last message so I was even shocked that he want to do something together [the time between each message gets longer but each message also makes me think he is more interested] . I responded that I wanted to. 3 days later I sent a follower-up. No pressure or anything just casual and almost business-like [kinda like when you are making plans].
    Its been a week now, and its crickets. Is he done?

    1. HI Tania!

      It seems there is some kind of hiccup in communication there. I think the first time he mentioned ice cream, you prob should have said “alright when do you want to go?”. He says it a second time, you say it again. Now that things are the way they are I would text him “Hey you, when we going for that ice cream? I was really getting cravings but waiting on you”. That should motivate him. If it doesn’t then he may either be very busy or has other stuff going on. Either that or he’s afraid of getting close to someone due to the past. Find out if he still will go with you. If he doesn’t and he cools off, ask him what the deal is and if he’s still into you. Be forthright! Virgo prefers it that way.

  7. Hi…I’m a capricorn and I like a virgo guy…I’m really confused about the signals his giving me…some days he can be super talkative and other days very quiet and uninterested…what does this mean??

    1. Hi Diamond!

      That’s pretty normal Virgo man behavior. The honest truth though is that you should ask him what is going on if you are confused about it. He’d rather talk about it and communicate than to second guess him in any way. That being said, tell him you’re a bit baffled by his behavior and want to know if he’s still into you enough to keep talking. He’ll tell you whether or not he is then you’ll know what is next.

  8. I met this virgo guy. hit it off right away, almost like we’ve known each other forever. He started to back off after two weeks saying that he wasnt in a mental state to be in a relationship that he not only has personal stuff going on but also has unresolved feelings for someone. But we are friends, same social circle so we’d always hang out and we are drawn to each other no matter what. we have this connection that ive never felt before in my life with anyone. hard to imagine he doesnt feel it too. he even said it to me before i even said it to him. And he’d always end up saying the same thing, which was that he new he’d be with me if he felt like he was ready. Butthat he was sure he wanted me in his life forever and so he preferred to just be friends becuase he knew he could maintain that relationship. I told him that i wasnt going to wait for him that i cant but that i was happy he was honest with me. I ended up leaving town, he lives in my hometown and i live in NY. hasn’t even been two weeks. we talk on and off. send each other music and what not. I am throwing a big fundraising event and he bought a ticket and was flying in for it. I also managed to get us free tickets to a concert we both love the night after the event. The day he was supposed to fly in he texts saaying there was an issue with his ticket never getting processed and hes trying to figure it out. I havent heard from him in hours though and at this point just assume hes not coming. Now im just confused and dont know what to do.

    1. Hi SH!

      Don’t ever assume anything when it comes to Virgo men. You want to know what is going on, ask him flat out. It’s better to ask than not to and then worry about what he may or may not be thinking. Always ask him flat out what is going on and what he wants. He will tell you if you ask. Otherwise you may be in for a heart break if you don’t be more forthright. Don’t wait to find out anything. Ask!!!

  9. I’m a Taurus girl. I met a Virgo guy about 3 weeks ago online. In one day we chatted online, he asked me out, and exchanged numbers, taking it off the website. We had our first date two days later, a Thursday. Instant connection and chemistry. That night he texted telling me how much he liked me… when can he see me again. We went out Saturday night. Same amazing chemistry, texting at the end of the night how much he liked me, when can he see me again. We went out again on Monday. He texted me good morning every day. Texting here and there throughout the day. At the end of the day, he would text asking how was my day, but didn’t ask me out for another date that week. Wednesday he said he was going out of town for the weekend and wanted to see me Thursday night after he got a tattoo. It was super late when he got to my place so we just hung out and he spent the night but I wouldn’t let anything happen. He texted her and there throughout the weekend but on that Saturday it took him 8 hours to respond to me. And he initiated the texting with a good morning!? 8 hours to respond? Then he wanted to see me when he got back in town Sunday night, so he came over and stayed the night. I have a son so it makes it difficult for us to date. My son goes to bed at 8 so I can’t go out, he has to come over. But they haven’t met yet. He came over again Monday night and again Wednesday. Then we had an actual dinner date scheduled for Thursday, but he said he got kicked in the face by a student, so we rescheduled for Friday night. Friday morning he texted saying a stomach bug had been going around at work and he was starting to feel sick. So I didn’t see him all weekend. Now it’s Monday. He texted me at 7:30 am on Saturday to say hello but Sunday was pretty quiet. So I resolved to not text him again. Wait. He texted me today apologizing for being MIA bc he was sick. I said I understood and asked how he was feeling and it’s been 4 hours and he hadn’t responded! WTF?! I’ve never dealt with a guy not texting me back in a reasonable amount of time! What the hell is he doing? He had told me over text and to my face that he really likes me. Why is he so distant at times? It’s infuriating.

    1. Hi Confused!

      Virgo men are rather old school. Many of them would prefer a phone call over texting. They prefer face to face even more. If it really bothers you then you need to talk to him about it otherwise you will have to accept that this is who he is and let it go. It’s in your hands whether you think he’s worth it or not. Trust your own gut and do what is best for you.

  10. So yeah sit down for this one. Capricorn here, 11th ‘82. Even though my age shows I should be somewhat of an expert, I am not. For the last 15 years I have taken myself out of any kind of situation of the heart. Like a nun. Now I decide to venture beyond the curtain and on 1st attempt I find an amazing Virgo😏 what luck. I am not strangers to them. I live with 3- brother, sisters-in-law, and Nephew (Long story short, I am living with them to help take care of my nephew ,or I tell myself that to make myself feel better, who knows). Virgo are not joke- the females included. If you want to see a reaction- poke them and poke them good. Which is where I am heading with this new little Virgo. Like everyone else yes they terse, but I am ok with that. I love so many different kinds of personality, and I am a bit odd at time. I can be quiet excitable and energetic. And then be a log. Not a typical Capricorn so to speak. He seemed to be fine with me and handled me amazingly, I usually run so fast they don’t even remember what I look like. So I think I Messed up in the beginning by trying to be too honest and explained kind of how my personality work. I forgot the judges side of the Virgo. I also have anxiety/panic attacks/unsure what the hell they are. But you find a healthy way to shut your heart down for 15 years and stay happy. Definitely seen a few areas I messed up and with myself not with him or both. Mind you the duration of this dating relationship Is only since mid January and there have only been I handful of dates. Two phone calls and everything else text. again I’m OK with I’m truly not that talkative person I am much rather get my information from actions and words. That being said I found out that statement is not fully accurate I need words and he gives no words. But I don’t feel it’s out of cruelty but something. Oh and a part of the anxiety is if I get nervous in front of them I can’t talk, l am talking full brain dump. And of course the longer the silence the more nervous I get and ooh it is a vicious cycle (a few more steps here but you get the picture). Lol so I have don’t the “hey what’s going questions via text”. My text were long and his were so short lol. But they were thoughtful, precise, and vaguely informative lol. —-Story time—— my text——“😏wasn’t sure if there was a limit on “call outs/inquires”. But, one has to address an elephant, just to make sure it is real. If my question on “what your opinion of me was”, caused any/all the side effects of this last week, not my intent, I am sorry.
    If your hesitant on your tomorrow’s plans also, fall into that category, try talking to me about it, please. If I have made a mistaken elephant sighting, I hope you can see how I came to that conclusion- more like a worry, aware I could be way off. Just feeling confused. Sorry late. Will be up till about 11. And open tomorrow anytime.“
    —— don’t judge me to harshly, remember 15yrs out of the game.
    —— his response—-
    “For the most part I’ve just been very busy this week and not feeling 100 percent. You should worry less and if you want to talk to me then just send me a message.”
    ——me——
    “And I feel sheepish. You are a unique individual. Thank you 😊.”
    —————————————
    Seems fine, well close. And I love his response just still lacking in some info. But you don’t push Virgos. He was doing good and not pushing me. I am also not the best at opening up and hope he does have the ability to see me before he make his final decision. But I am currently trying to figure out if he is interested or is too nice and doing a slow ghost. Cause we are at two weeks with little to no contact.

    1. Hi Anastasia!

      Thanks for sharing your story. It seems to me as though he’s interested based on what you shared with me. If you know anything about Virgo is that they like to move slow and take their time just to be sure with what they’re doing and who they are with. He did tell you to reach out to him if you wanted to so why the silence for two weeks? Remember, he’s busy and has other things going on and so he’s not doing well on the upkeep of texting. Message him if you want to hear from him. Keep up the vibe!

  11. Hi, I am a gay Sagittarius and i have been dating a bisexual Virgo for 5 months, I am 25 and he is 38. we met on a website called adam4adam and it’s a free gay dating site. i am a shy introvert so it’s hard for me to make the first move on people but i pushed myself to text first and see what happens from there. one day i found his profile and i thought he was so handsome and i couldn’t believe he was real, so i read his bio and i loved everything about him and then i took the chance to message him and to my surprise he messaged back to me and interested in knowing more about me. honestly i wasn’t sure he would respond because I’m an average looking guy and he is so handsome that i wouldn’t believe he would want to talk to me. he is currently in the Millitary serving his term in the medical corp and we have been texting everyday without fail and he always sends me sweet messages. my only problem is the time zone is so different like if it’s day time here its night time over there and it makes it difficult for to have long conversation and especially when Virgo men likes to take their time on responding back and it can sometimes frustrate me to the point where i start arguing about it. he is a very sweet man and i love him dearly it’s just the none communication makes me feel lonely and he will be back from service in may, so my question is how should i calm myself to be patient enough to wait. i need something to keep my mind off him whenever I’m not busy because during those times that’s when i miss him the most and want to talk with him but he has no time for me. and every time i doubt his love or loyalty he shows me that he loves me with all his heart with sweet messages and pictures of himself just to calm my nerves. at the end of the day i look like the bad guy because i get angry and take my anger out on him and makes me feel so guilty afterwords because he never gets mad or yell at me, he is honestly a sweet loving person who want’s nothing but the best for me. how can i endure the silence when all i want is to talk with him.

    1. Hi Juan!

      It seems you’ve figured out your weakness when it comes to Virgo man. They can be frustrating because they’re on a different time table than everyone else. What is 2 days to you is 2 hours to him. So 2 hours to you is 2 minutes to him. See the problem? That’s how they are and it’s not something you can change so if you really like him, you’re going to have to work on your own impatience. I would suggest meditation that helps you focus on the present and not worry about anything else. If you need more help, check out my book “Virgo Man Secrets”.

  12. Hi! I’m a cancer female, and I’m not actually dating anyone; But I’m very much interested in a virgo male. However, I continuously lose hope on looking to sweep this guy off his feet. Hahah. You see, we are not in a situation where we see each other in person. Frankly, we just don’t know each other at all, but I’m working towards that. I don’t know if it’s possible but I’ve become attracted to a virgo whom I made friends with online recently. We didn’t meet in a dating app. We had a similar hobby (literature) and met through a server that lets people participate in that, and we ended up being partners in it. Through that, I’ve met and been suddenly pulled to his circle of friends (not by him, but a close friend of his) and tried to talk to him by starting with what I guessed would have been a common interest of ours. It worked. And well, like I said, It escapes my comprehension as to how I suddenly got attracted to him; But I know he has issues that he wouldn’t tell me, and that for some reason, his friends let me know because I was a friend he actually made on his own and they didn’t want me to leave them. So present situation says that, I want to talk to him, but we only ever talk because he and I had a common interest. Now, our conversations have died a bit.. However hopeless the situation has been looking, I still wanted to try some more. Do you have any advice in which I could do so I can talk to him more but not seem all too flirty? I’m honestly looking to be more patient with him. Find both friendship and love in what my attraction could bloom into, because from how his issues look, i think pushing him into dating with me so suddenly seems forceful. How should I approach him?

    1. Hi Lumi!

      To talk to a Virgo man takes knowledge of things he likes. If you don’t know what that is, ask him. Ask him silly little questions like “what type of food do you like?”, “what is your favorite band?”, “what do you like to do for fun?”, etc. These help you get to know him enough to make good conversation that he’ll be into. If you need more help, check out my book “Virgo Man Secrets”.

    2. Trying to reply to Lumi, hope it works.. I’m a cancer female and I loved reading your comment. Use your natural charm and don’t worry about whether he is into you or not. Let him do the thinking;) but you have to kick up the flirting a bit. I would send a cute selfie with a book- or whatever you guys are into the most. Always be a little flirty – keep messages short—- he will eventually call I promise:) virgos like cancers

      1. Hi KLay!

        Thank you for chiming in for Lumi. I’m always happy to hear when clients identify with what I’ve written. If you ever need more information on the Virgo man, check out my books on Virgo Man Secrets.

  13. Hi I’m Ella
    My Virgo man is distant from me lately. I brought it up and it turns out I’m the one at fault. I have not been affectionate, attentive etc. I realized that I’ve done him wrong and I would like to fix things. How do I prove to him that I love him and I want things to work out.

    1. Hi Ella!

      Sorry to hear your Virgo guy has been distant with you and you’ve figured out you’re at fault. All need do is show him more of what he’s been missing and it should clear things up between you two. He’d rather have you show him than to tell him as actions mean more than words with a Virgo. I have a feeling things will be fine with you two. If you need more help though, you can check out my book “Virgo Man Secrets”.

  14. I’ve been reading all these stories and I can seriously relate! I’ve been talking to this awesome Virgo for about 3 weeks now and we still haven’t met in person. A week ago we had an amazing FaceTime date, and it seemed like he was interested in meeting in person. We’ve been talking almost every day but anytime I’ve brought up us hanging out he doesn’t give me an option that works for him. I realize they like to take things slow, but my Venus is in Cancer and I like to feel validated from in-person connections, and strong communication. I also don’t want to continue to talk to someone if we don’t end up vibing in person. How do I bring this up? I know it’s a tough time with covid, and maybe people are more hesitant about doing things.

    1. Hi Al!

      Oh good! I’m glad you can relate to the stores I’ve shared. Virgo men can be slow movers. Their time frame is not the same as most other people. What 2 weeks to you is 2 hours for him. Just like 2 months for you is like 2 days to him. Seriously, he doesn’t think like everyone else. This makes him move a bit slower. Also the pandemic does play a role in people’s psyche right now, yes. Just keep telling him “I really look forward to a time where we can get together live and in person”. That way it’s no pressuring him but letting him know you’re up for it. If you need more help though, you can check out my book “Virgo Man Secrets”.

  15. Hi,

    I’ve met this Virgo guy through a temporary job. We get along well, he’s quite flirty and I think he likes me. I needed help with my car and he texted me last week to offer some advice. I was going to see him for the last time this Saturday but my shift got cancelled, so I won’t see him again, unless I text him, but I don’t want to mess this up.

    I was thinking about sending this text to him:

    ”I got an email from the company today that they’re cutting down activations for the weekend,so I won’t be back on Saturday.

    If I don’t see you, good luck with your new business! You guys are so hard working, I’m sure you’ll be successful in whatever you decide to do.

    Thanks for all your help!”

    Should I add that I want to go out with him or will that scare him away?

    Many thanks x

    1. Hi evp!

      You’re on a texting basis? That’s good! That means he probably does like you. He doesn’t give out his number to everyone. Virgo men are pretty private. What you want to say to him is good but you also want to say “don’t be a stranger, keep in touch. Maybe we can get a coffee together sometime if you’d be up for it”. That lets him know you don’t want to lose touch and lets him know that if he wants to ask you out, you’re open to it. Hope this helps!

  16. Hi!
    Im a pisces woman and i’ve been dating this amazing virgo man for a month now. For the first two weeks, he has been very expressive with how he felt and he sometimes told me he misses me. But now, we rarely text and he somehow don’t really show his emotion to me. But when i ask his friends, they said that he really likes me and would love to take things slow and maybe marry me in the future. He also did told about me to his friends and family but when he’s with me, he looks like he’s not that excited and acting kinda cool. He sometimes don’t really contact me but i tried to be understanding by always giving him space and time for himself. And when i brought this up in our conversation, he said that “nooo!!! i must just has been tired due to work”. But as a pisces i am very emotional and sometimes i overthinking that “is he still into me or not?”. So what do you think about my situation and what should i do?

    1. Hi Batrisya,

      I actually have to agree with your friends on this. Virgo isn’t the best at expressing his feelings verbally. He’s more the type to show you how he feels. I have no doubt he really cares for you otherwise he wouldn’t still be talking to you and would have already given up. Be patient with him as it takes awhile to cultivate the permanent bond and open emotions. You may want to read my book “Virgo Man Secrets” as it may help you better.

  17. Please help… I’m overthinking and it’s driving me crazy.

    I met a Virgo on a dating app, we started chatted and grabbed a coffee the following week. He gave me a kiss when he dropped me off and within 20 minutes he messaged me confirming a date for the following week.

    Our texts between date 1 and 2 were short, he would reply but never really initiate a conversation or keep it going.

    Our 2nd date came, we went to his place and he was getting really touchy. Having bad dating experiences in the past I asked him why he was online dating and he said he was looking for someone he connects with and to build a future with. I tried to slow things down but I felt we had great chemistry and we ended up sleeping together. Afterwards he asked me to spend the night. We stayed up late and joked around. We had what I thought was a great night. He dropped me off at home and he said we’ll plan a day to hangout this coming week.

    I texted him letting him know I liked him, the next day he texted back saying he liked me too. I replied him with a little joke, 2 days later he replied and said he was sorry that it’s been a hectic week and that he hopes I’m doing well. I sent him a small reply and now he hasn’t replied in almost 3 days or asked about meeting up.

    I checked his online dating app and he’s been active every day, his location has updated from different distances. I originally thought maybe he’s just opening the app and not actually swiping and looking but then I noticed he has updated his profile picture.

    I don’t know what I did wrong, I always gave him space and time to reply my messages (I don’t want to come across as clingy) but I don’t know why he’s actively looking (I’m assuming since he’s still active on the app) for someone else. We aren’t in a place yet where I can ask him about it because we’ve only met twice and I don’t want to come across as needy.

    I just keep having negative thoughts and overthinking everything I did, wondering if he’s even received my my messages or if somehow they never got delivered and if he thinks I’m not interested. I don’t know.

    I sent him a message today wishing him a happy birthday and told him if he was free this week I’d love to hang out but I feel like I’m not going to get a reply.

    1. Hi Mariah!

      I think he does like you but he’s being cautious before he removes himself from the dating site. You’re not doing anything wrong. He has to figure himself out and what he wants. Once he does that and feels confident in you then he will gravitate to you only and this will no longer be a question. Be patient and wait for him to figure it out. You may want to read my book for more insight “Virgo Man Secrets”.

      1. From my experience, if u make things easy for a virgo man then he ll loose interest n he ll give you the silent treatment n he ll ignore u.. Make everything hard for him .. Dont always be available , show him u r busy, u ve a life going on without him, go out with ur friends, take photos n post it in ur social media.. live ur life without him, n he ll go crazy looking for u. Show him u have ur own future plans. Dont stick with him n dont send him many messages so u r not frustrated why he doesnt answer u, once in a while. That s how I deal with my virgo soulmate … he loves me when I make fun n he laughs like crazy, he laughs on any silly jokes. I m a cancer leo cusp n he s virgo libra cusp.. i see everything through his eyes n body. I can see love in his eyes…When I send him i miss u once in 6 months the next day he s so happy , he changes his profile fotos, he goes crazy happy…but dont expect answers… Live ur life independent n dont stick n follow him coz he ll drive u crazy. My virgo soulmate is very jealous when I send him my fotos with a bunch of boys… let a virgo man follow u,…. They love hard complicated things.

        1. Hi Sara!

          Thank you for sharing your experience. That sounds a bit off so I’m thinking that your Virgo man is different than the standard Virgo. If you make everything hard for most Virgo men, they will shut you out and walk away. They do not like stress or drama. Independence is nice but if you are always blowing him off, he will figure you don’t want to be with him and will move on. Virgo is the one sign in the zodiac that doesn’t need a partner. They can live alone and be totally alright. You mentioned he is on the cusp of Libra which explains a lot actually. They are indecisive and are never fully sure. If this works for you then I’m not knocking it but most Virgo men are not this way at all.

  18. I am so happy I stumbled on this page! I am trying to understand my virgo interest and I am a cancer and of course I over think and am sensitive to everything!
    I met him through his sister in law at one of her parties, we hit it off RIGHT AWAY!
    Great chemistry, attraction, it was as if we were magnetic.
    He does have a son with someone who he says he is no longer interested in but still is very much apart of her life since he takes care of her financially and wants to be with his son all the time that he can be .. she is always around. I know she is still very interested in him but he as well as his sister in law has confirmed he doesn’t want anything to do with her other than take care of his son. He told me he will tell me more of about his situation with his sons mother as time goes on.. but I feel that he fears her knowing he is with someone else and will take his son away.

    He does work a lot and tells me after work he goes to the gym and then to his son.
    We have gone out to lunch, he has come over to my place two times during lunch hours.
    I must mention the second and third time we hung out, I know it was soon, but we did have sex. he was very aggressive and I wanted it as well since the attraction is CRAZY.. I hope I didn’t make the mistake in giving it up too fast.
    He has expressed to me that he does want more than just sex with me, but I feel his actions have proven differently.
    first off, he knows I hate how little he texts.. some days are better than others.. the longest I haven’t heard from him is 2 days.
    Second, he knows I want him to take me out to dinner and spend more time with me, he told me to be patient with his situation and his work will soon not be as busy.
    Sometimes I feel like he is interested and other times I feel like he is caught up with his own life and doesn’t want a relationship. sometimes he asks questions about me and other times its whatever he wants to talk about and doesn’t ask how I am doing or how MY day was. I do most of the question asking.

    What are your thoughts on my situation? Do you think I gave it up to fast to this virgo man and I ruined everything that could have been?
    I am looking forward to your answer!

    1. HI TT!

      I think your Virgo man is just busy and not finding the time you’d like him to invest with the texting. Virgo men are old fashioned types and so they just aren’t really into talking via text. You might try to call him instead. Virgo men aren’t fast movers either so this could be a problem if you’re holding expectations out for him to act a certain way. They are pretty solid on who they are and so if you try to change him because of what you expect, you could be disappointed. Virgo men want to be loved “as is”. Try letting go a little bit and relax. Patience will win him! You may want to also read my book “Virgo Man Secrets”.

  19. Hi! Pisces here, was contacted on social media by a guy I went to school with but never really got to know. We’ve been texting for a few days now and he seems like a really good guy. He asks good questions, we make each other laugh, he responds to my texts and we flirt just a bit, but not enough for me to tell if he’s interested or not. He also asked for my number and I gave it to him but he hasn’t given me his or texted me, so why is that? How can I tell if he just wants to be friends within the next couple of weeks? Is there anything, as a Pisces, that I could say or do that may work for me as opposed to other signs? I’m impatient and impulsive and the waiting game is hard. Thanks for your column and and advice you could give me!

    1. Hi MI!

      You need to take a bit more initiative with him. He needs to see and feel you’re making an effort toward him. If you sit and wait for him to reach out then he knows you’re not the one for him. He wants a woman that is sure that she wants him and will do what it takes to prove it to him. Don’t be afraid to text or call him first. It’s totally alright to do that. If you need to learn more, please read my book “Virgo Man Secrets”.

  20. I made a virgo friend who texts less , used to call me but now doesn’t. Gives me subtle hints that seems like he loves me. Like you would know in 2 years what you’re to me , really random texts while conversation which seems like he likes me. Some face touching. Gave me a meaningful present. But he doesn’t talk much on texts and replies late too , doesn’t call as much now. He is always late for our plans and not responsible towards them. He is 10 years older than me. Is he playing? He just wants me to open up and send him pictures of what i have been doing in my day ( more interested in not my personal pictures or selfies ) . He seems on and off with these things.

    1. HI Melony!

      Virgo men aren’t the best at keeping up with texts. They are old school and prefer to actually talk face to face and via call when face to face isn’t possible. He also likes when a woman reaches out for what she wants. If he’s not contacting you then you need to contact him. Show him how much you care about him. Go ahead and open up like he wants you to. It’s not a bad thing. If you would like to know more about him, please read my book “Virgo Man Secrets”.

  21. I really dislike that this blog is skewed to cater to a man’s needs. I think women should address men according to their own personality, beliefs, wants, needs, and desires. Women should be and do themselves. If any man whether it be a virgo, pisces, or sags etc doesn’t respond well in a manner that is acceptable to her then she should move on. No need on waiting for a man and tiptoeing around your own needs; it just creates an unhealthy imbalance in a relationship. It perpetuates the belief that women are always waiting around on men! FALSE. Change the narrative.

    1. Hi Jae!

      If you don’t want to take care of a man then Virgo may not be for you. They are complicated and they do want someone who will accept them the way they are. Changing him is not an option. Yes women should stay who they are but you’ll be surprised to know that there are women that don’t mind pleasing their Virgo man because he’s very good to her. Everyone has their own style and preference. If you want to do as you want and not have a thought for your guy then you’re probably looking for a more easy going type of guy such as Gemini, Capricorn, or Sagittarius.

  22. Hi Anna,

    I need some advice. I’ve been really trying to watch how much I text this Virgo guy I like. It’s very new and I’m still getting to know him. He just left the country last Friday and his last text to me included wishing he was able to see me. I replied with a short and sweet text.

    I had originally planned to either wait until he texted me and if he didn’t my next text would be a happy new year text, but I impulsively texted last night (Monday night) saying I was thinking of him and hoping he’s doing well. I think it was short and sweet and doesn’t require a response, my only worry is that if he doesn’t reply, is it still appropriate to text him happy new year next week or is that too much?

    Though the first unanswered text was just me replying to him, if he doesn’t get back to me this or next week before New Years that will look like three unanswered text. What do you think? I would like to wish him a happy new year even if I don’t hear from him before then but don’t want to come off too strong. Hopefully these texts are short enough that it’s not a big deal or he just texts me before then.

    1. Hi Timid texted!

      I think you can totally text him Happy New Year. Why not?! It’s a celebration and I don’t think he’d think otherwise honestly. Virgo hates technology like cell phones and texting. So it’s not surprising if he’s not answering when there isn’t a question. You can try to ask him some questions though. Ask him what his New Years plans are. I think it will be just fine. If you need more help, check out my series “Virgo Man Secrets”.

      1. Hi Anna,

        I opted out of sending a nye text because I sent him a picture of my art a couple days before. Still no reply.

        I’ve now sent him two sets of text with no response – it’s been over a week since he’s texted me. He is still out of the country visiting family. Is it possible he is just busy? Is it within the realm of normal for a Virgo man to go silent for a couple weeks esp while seeing family?

        Also, if he gets back and a week passes as he settles in and I still get no response should I reach out and say hi or just drop it and assume he’s not interested? I thought we really connected and he said he wanted to see me, I’m so confused.

        Thank you for your help – I think I def need to get your book.

        1. Hi Timid Texted!

          It is possible he is busy yes but it’s also possible he has lost interest. You won’t know unless you check in with him. Virgo men aren’t natural text messengers, they are old fashioned and don’t particularly like texting. They would prefer to talk face to face or at least a phone call. If you wait around for him to text you back and he doesn’t, you won’t get a response. Unless you ask him “what do you think” he may also think there is no question so why answer. Seriously, Virgo men think differently. Text him and say “hey, hope you’re well, thinking of you”. He should respond to that unless he’s no longer into it. You can also definitely get my series “Virgo Man Secrets”.

  23. Oh my god yes you did help me so much with this article. A few things I already know because my best girlfriend is a Virgo and she know what I’m talking about. He is just not texting he doesn’t like it he prefers face to face he said but it’s so frustrating I don’t know how to deal with it. I left him the first time because of this and he came back after 2 months and I had this conversation with him because Virgo men are cold, no emotions nothing. I don’t know how long I will last but at least I know that’s how he is because he said that’s how I am and you should accept me like this.

    1. Hi Elena!

      Wonderful! I’m so glad to hear that my article helped you in some way. I love hearing that! Yes, Virgo men are not texters. It really does seem to be that way across the board. Face to face or via telephone call is their thing. It’s an old fashioned thing. Yes, they don’t want to be changed. If they do change it’s because they know they need to or feel it would be better. If you would like to know more then check out my book “Virgo Man Secrets”.

    2. My virgo boyfriend sometimes responds and sometimes doesn’t. He’s very affectionate when we are together at home but not in public and says he doesn’t do PBA. He sometimes express himself only after I express myself. We’ve been together almost a year. Sometimes I get a good morning babe text sometimes I don’t. Ieft him once and he came back to be with me after 3 months and told me to get rid of everyone else that I was seeing while we had broken up. He says things like he can’t imagine being with someone else other than me after I say it first or he doesn’t want nobody but me after I say it first. I honestly believe he’s in love but afraid to show it. I have noticed when I don’t text or text back right away he text me first.

      1. HI Jake!

        Virgo men can very much seem like the strong silent type as in not being open. Tell him how you feel about all of this. He needs to know otherwise he’s going to be oblivious and you’ll continue to be frustrated. Yes if he doesn’t hear from you he fears losing you. That’s because he does care. Learn more about this behavior in my books on Virgo Man Secrets! I wish you the best.

  24. Hi,
    I’m taurus woman dating with virgo from many miles away. Everything run well at beginning. By the time he shows differently, not sweet as much as the first month we met. We often argue but always back in return. We blocked and open it again. Just feel confuse how deal in LDR with him. Your articles quite help me alot

    1. Hi Monika!

      Virgo and Taurus are supposed to be a pretty good match. LDR is difficult for Taurus because they like to have their partner there and up close. They can do LDR for awhile but if there is no physical connection and time together then he starts to lose interest and tries to look more local. That may be happening with him. You should ask him directly what is up with him. He should tell you but if you’d like more help from me, check out my books Virgo Man Secrets. It just may give you more important insight.

  25. Hi Anna,

    So I have been hanging out with a Virgo man. The other night he stayed over and before he left he asked if I wanted to hang that evening. I said yes and we said we’d both be done with work around the same time. I know he’d have a lot to do before seeing me and was going to be helping someone out so I waited until the evening about the time I was finishing up and he thought he would be done and texted him. And now I’ve got no response and it’s the next afternoon.

    Should I be offended or is it typical for a Virgo man to become busy and forget? He isn’t much of a texted usually I realize but I feel like a follow up text would have been nice even though our plans weren’t set in stone. How should I go about saying something to him about it or should I just let it go and give him some space because maybe something came up?

    1. Hi TJ!

      Personally I would say something. Something you may not realize is that Virgo men can be very unpredictable. Having expectations can definitely disappoint you. I have a friend that is married to one and she still hates that he’s this way but she’s also realizes that things go a lot better for her if she doesn’t expect him to do things. Now, when it comes to things like necessities, he will be on it but things like texting…. Virgo men are old fashioned and don’t like texting very much. I would reach out to him and say “hey, what are you doing? I thought I would hear from you again but I was surprised when I didn’t. Everything alright?”… See how you’re letting him know that you weren’t happy about this but are still interested in hanging out. There is much more you might want to know so it might be helpful for you to check out “Virgo Man Secrets”.

      1. I reached out and said something similar to what you suggested and he apologized and said he’s been busy which I understand.

        Then we made unofficial plans and when I checked in the day before nada, I haven’t heard from him. A week later I was like hey are you still alive? And nothing. Is he ghosting me, I don’t understand. Or are Virgo man really like this, a little unreliable and uncommunicative.

        I don’t know how else to tell him I’m interested without seeming to needy and texting in for the fourth time in a row or something. He still follows me on social media and looks at my stuff. Should I just play it cool and let him come to me if he’s still interested?

      2. He replied! Vaguely apologized and said he’s been doing his own thing.

        Is he trying to blow me off or is he really in his own world?

  26. I can tell you from my experience, if u make things easy for a virgo man then he ll loose interest n he ll give you the silent treatment n he ll ignore u.. make everything hard for him .. dont always be available , show him u r busy, u ve life going on without him, go out with ur friends, take photos.. live ur life without him, n he ll go crazy looking for u. Show him u have ur own plans. Dont stick with him n dont send him many messages, once in a while. That s how u deal with a virgo … he loves me when I make fun n he laughs like crazy. I m a cancer leo cusp n he s virgo libra cusp.. When I send him i miss u once in 6 months the next day he s so happy , he changes his profile fotos, he goes crazy happy…but dont expect answers… Live ur life independent n dont stick n follow him coz he ll drive u crazy. The one i know is very jealous when I send him my fotos with a bunch of boys… let a virgo man love u n follow u,…. They love hard complicated things not easy things….

  27. Hi there! My Virgo Guy was my co-worker I met him 6 months ago in my new job. We worked a lot together and day by day was more opened up to me, kind, he was teasing me, telling me jokes and he liked in any situation to come close to me (sometimes too close). It was obviously that he was treating different from others and he was always keeping my back. One week ago he quit from our work. We were already followed each other in social media. I can see he watches daily my stories, but he doesn’t like any of my posts. I tried twice to three times to open conversation with him through text, but it was short. He was answering, but he didn’t help to extend our conversation.
    I miss him a lot and I’m not gonna see him again. I miss the way he made me laugh and his scent.

    1. Hi HG!

      Virgo men really aren’t into social media much. They like to see what they’re friends are up to and they like to watch videos but as far as being social, they just really don’t do much of it. They’re old fashioned that way. They are repelled by technology. If you want to talk to him you two need to talk on the phone. Get his number and call him up. He’ll like that. Texting is not a form of communication in a Virgo man’s mind. Be brave! You can talk to him but you need to be gold enough to call him. I wish you all the best!

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