Texting a Virgo man can be a little daunting. This guy is super intelligent and so witty, it can feel like quite a lot of pressure to keep up with him and know what to say to make him intrigued and interested in you.
What is the right way to text a Virgo man? What types of texts will keep him interested in you and help you build a relationship? Here are some methods you may want to consider using to raise your success rate with this sexy Virgo man.
Understanding A Virgo Man’s Texting Style – The Virgo Man’s Texting Habits
A Virgo man tends to be matter of fact and unemotional. He communicates in a very rational and logical way which means he gets straight to the point. This can be quite confusing to contend with because you might wonder: “What do his texts mean?”
It can be hard to gauge if he has true feelings for you through his texts because he is so unemotional. He’s the type of guy that likes to communicate, but he is a lot better at expressing his emotions face-to-face.
He is very practical you see, and he is more likely to text you when he wants to make plans. I wouldn’t expect him to start a long texting thread where he expresses all his feelings. He’s too busy working to do that!
Once in a Blue Moon, he quite enjoys some back-and-forth banter – but this is the exception, not the rule. Learning how to text a man is all about keeping it casual and picking up on his cues. When you see he isn’t in the mood for conversation, then don’t push it and send him a string of texts.
Incessant texting is only going to scare him off and make him run away, and I am sure that is the last thing you would like to achieve. Let us explore more about Virgo men and their texting style. Hopefully, this can help you with any confusion!
A Virgo man’s texting habits in a nutshell: These guys are pretty particular and primarily use texting to make plans and organize their lives. Don’t expect too much back-and-forth banter from this guy!
Do Virgo Men Like Texting?
Virgo men aren’t the biggest texters in the Zodiac, however, they do like communicating in person. A Virgo man is more likely to use texting as a tool to get things done and organize his life. He is a bit too busy to spend his day texting back and forth with his crush.
This is a man who enjoys quality over quantity. He would much rather text once a day and make it meaningful instead of texting nonsense back and forth all day. So, you could say that Virgo men like texting, but only in small quantities.
Should You Text A Virgo Man First?
Yes, absolutely! Virgo men are actually incredibly shy and reserved, and they will often not make the first move when it comes to love and romance. This is the type of guy who feels better when he can respond to a woman’s desire than to initiate it.
If you have your eyes on a Virgo man, I think it would be a brilliant idea for you to reach out and text him. This is a fantastic way for you to drop some subtle hints that you are interested in him and want to get to know him better.
Of course, do this in moderation and be cognizant about the way he responds. You need to read the room and see if he takes the bait.
Flirting With A Virgo Man Over Text – Tips And Things To Look Out For
What To Say To A Virgo Man To Get His Attention?
There are a myriad of methods you can use to text a Virgo man and to get his attention. It all depends on what type of woman you are and what you feel comfortable with. The most important thing you can do is just to be yourself!
Texting a Virgo man shouldn’t feel unnatural and like you are pretending to be someone you are not.
I know how Virgo men think and what kind of communication suits them the best – I actually wrote an entire guide on that topic – it’s called “Virgo Text Magic” and I’m more than proud that my readers love it. If you would like to explore more on Virgo men and what makes them interested (and hooked) through text, let me know in the comments and I’ll send you the link to the guide.
However, here are some simple and effective tricks on how to text a Virgo man and get his attention:
1. Texting In The Morning
Whether or not he responds, sending your Virgo man that initial text in the morning will make him smile and feel good about where things are going with you. It will inspire him in some way and make him realize that you are a woman worthy of his time.
Make it really light and airy rather than pressuring him. Saying something: “Have a great day, handsome!” will suffice.
It’s simple and doesn’t give way to too much emotion but it will definitely give him a boost of confidence for the rest of his day.
Remember that Virgo men are not emotional. If they are, they just really don’t show it to anyone. That being said, he won’t respond well to emotional types of texts. He won’t know what to say, it will only overwhelm him!
When you wish him well for his day, he’ll feel good about it. Just keep in mind that it’s best not to have expectations on him texting back or WHEN he should text back. He will do so in his own time. Best that you keep busy so that you don’t obsess about his response back.
2. Keep It Fun And Exciting
The right way to text a Virgo man is to make it fun. You can tell him jokes or send him funny memes or photos. He’ll love it. Whether or not you know his mood, keeping it uplifting will be helpful.
It shows him that you like to make sure he smiles and feels good when he associates with you. If he’s having a bad day, it may very well give him a good laugh and relieve some tension.
You can also do some daydreaming with him. He’s really good at it but shares your daydreams with him too. Again, keep it fun though, rather than emotional. Talking about someday going camping or hiking will win the day.
Perhaps there is something you’ve both talked about before that you can bring up again. If it’s something that inspires both of you to be happy, talk about that.
3. Don’t Pressure Him With Texts
If you text a lot, it may start to become overwhelming and make him feel somewhat pressured. Giving him that initial morning post should be sufficient. The right way to text a Virgo man is to let him answer you.
When he does respond, he’ll let you know whether or not he’s in a talkative mood. Go with the flow and let him sort of take the lead. Answer him but let him dictate which direction the conversation will go.
If he seems to stagger and not know what to talk about you may at that point tell him a joke or tell him that you’re working on something and will contact him later.
Just like with any man he may be fickle sometimes and decide that he just isn’t in the mood to text. In fact, many Virgo men prefer to talk on the phone rather than text message anyway.
4. Share Your Success And Fun
If you’re having a great day and things are going really well for you, tell him. He’ll feel good for you. He wants to hear positive and encouraging things from you. So, letting him know you’re doing well will make him feel settled.
He wants you to be happy and to have the very best always. If you complain about work or something else going on, then he may respond with a text telling you to lighten up and not worry so much.
He may also suggest to you that you should treat yourself with something nice. Ultimately, it’s his way of caring and showing that he wants you to feel good about yourself in your life.
If something really great happens to you, text him the good news! He’ll be happy for you. Unlike some other men, the Virgo man is genuinely thrilled for your excitement!
5. Send Him Random Texts
The right way to text a Virgo man is to also randomly send him a flirt. Don’t be vulgar about it — just be really cute and sweet. Don’t have an expectation of when or how he should answer though.
It will catch him off guard for sure, but at the same time, it will get him thinking about you and what the future may hold for the two of you. This will be good for keeping things spicy.
Random texts are fun, exciting, and should keep things fresh between you and your Virgo man. If you don’t want to be sexual, you could just send him a random funny video clip to leave him wondering what that was about.
It may inspire him to text you back with something goofy or sexy. You never know what mood he may be in and so the answers you get could vary. This is why I mention not holding out expectations.
How you can get a Virgo man’s attention over text, summarized: Be sweet, positive, and make an effort! Share with him your genuine self and let your amazing personality shine. This is irresistible to any Virgo man.
Deepening Your Connection With A Virgo Man Over Text
Your Virgo man’s sign is ruled by the planet Mercury, which is all about communication. So, suffice to say, good quality communication is really important to your Virgo man and this is what influences his texting habits.
If you want to deepen your connection with your Virgo man over text then you are going to have to be genuine. Don’t play any games with him by trying to be someone you are not. Speak with him from the heart and let your amazing self shine.
It will mean a lot to him if you show him how considerate, understanding, and kind you are. All a Virgo man really wants is to be with a woman who can be herself and knows how to treat him right.
Your Virgo Man Is Slow To Respond – What Should You Do?
Virgo men are sometimes just not in the mood for texting. If that is the case, you’ll have a day or two where you tried texting him and he doesn’t respond. On the days where it feels quiet, revert back to the only morning text.
Many Virgo men just aren’t big texting people. That doesn’t mean he doesn’t care for you or isn’t into you, it just means that he doesn’t like to text that much. You can probably ask him and he’ll tell you.
Try not to hold out expectations on him where texting is concerned. Shoot him that one text and let it go. He’ll either answer you or he won’t. At some point, he’s going to reach out to you to spend some time together.
You may see it as a flaw, but it’s just who he is. As long as you can accept him the way he is, then love is still very much possible. I hope this article helps to give you the proper tips on the right way to text a Virgo man.
I know that sounds really frustrating and sometimes confusing if you don’t really know him. If him not texting you feels like he is ignoring you and it continues to persist, then it might be a good idea to look at the signs if he is actually into you.
Big No-Nos When Texting A Virgo Man
There are some things you should always avoid when texting a Virgo man. These men are so particular with what they like and dislike that it can be quite easy to turn him off.
The biggest no-no to avoid when texting a Virgo man is to bombard him with text all day long. This is just way too overwhelming for him to handle and it might give him the thought that you don’t have much going on in your life.
When texting a Virgo man, you need to be as cool as a cucumber, or else you might get the boot. Here are some more tips to help you avoid any mishaps when texting a Virgo man.
My Final Thoughts
Texting with a Virgo man won’t always be what you expect. There will be times where the two of you really connect, and then others where he is too busy to do much texting. This is much like any relationship and the two of you just need to find your rhythm.
There is a rush of excitement when you first get to know a Virgo man…
He is just so attentive and makes you feel like you are on top of the world!
This can give you a lot of hope about what the future would be like with your Virgo man.
There is nothing more wonderful than being with a Virgo man…
He is so sweet, kind, caring, supportive, and gentle…
A true gentleman and the type of man you only thought you could make up in your dreams!
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I wish you so much love and happiness.
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,