Do Virgo Men Like Being Friends With Benefits: Will He Want More?
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Do Virgo Men Like Being “Friends With Benefits”: Will He Want More?

Do Virgo Men Like Being Friends With Benefits

I’ve had clients write in to me before asking these types of questions. If a Virgo man only wants a committed relationship or can he have a “friends with benefits” situation. I’ve also had women ask if their Virgo “FWB” will ever commit. Here is some important information for you to consider.

Friends with Benefits Rare

Most Virgo men do not like these types of relationships. However; some will commit to this type of relationship with a partner who understands of his lack of desire in a serious relationship.

The woman he chooses must absolutely know that she isn’t in it for anything more than it is. She also needs to make it perfectly clear from the get go that it will never cross the line of being something more.

This isn’t for his benefit but rather; for her own. If she starts having more feelings for him than he has for her; this could create a rift. The guidelines of what the two agree on will have to be upheld.

You can never assume that the Virgo man is emotionally committed to you simply because he’s committed to you physically. In his mind; you are a friend that he has sex with and good times.

Don’t Assume

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Trust me when I tell you; if he doesn’t call you his girlfriend; you are NOT his girlfriend. You may be exclusively sleeping together but you are NOT in a committed relationship. There is a big difference between the two.

It may not seem that way to you but it IS that way with him. Virgo men are truthful with their intent. They mean what they say to you. It’s a dangerous game to ever assume they’re feeling something that they aren’t.

If you are having a “FWB” relationship with a Virgo man and are feeling more for him; you’re going to have to ask him if he’s feeling anything more for you. He will likely be truthful with you.

In the event you asked him and he says he just wants to remain “FWB” then you’ll have your answer. It will then be up to you whether you want to continue with it or if you have more feelings and need more thus walking away.

Again; it’s rare for a Virgo man to even engage in this type of relationship in the first place. It will likely depend on their Moon as far as where their integrity is at. Most Virgo men want a fully committed relationship.

He will not typically start a lifelong relationship with someone he’s having a “friends with benefit” relationship with. It goes against his beliefs and moral code.

No Jealousy

If you get a Virgo man to agree to a “friends with benefit” situation; you’ll not be able to express jealously in any form. You both have to agree at the beginning that this is not allowed.

You will not be able to get angry or upset by other women he spends his time with nor can he get upset about men you are spending time with. You will also need to establish if you’ll be exclusive when it comes to sex.

He at least wants to have loyalty in the form of your friendship if all you are going to be are friends that occasionally sleep together by not sleeping with other people.

Gemini women and Sagittarius women are fantastic matches for the Virgo man that IS interested in a sexually beneficial friendship. Gemini isn’t opposed to this arrangement as they aren’t looking for a serious relationship.

I cannot claim that for all Gemini women; however. Again; just like the guys… it depends on what their moon is. Sagittarius women are free and open minded much of the time; unless she has a Scorpio moon which makes her jealous.

No Expectations

If you are sleeping with your Virgo male friend; you cannot expect it to ever become more. As I mentioned before; it should be clear at the beginning that feelings shouldn’t get involved.

Sadly many women do not abide by this and develop more feelings than they should and ultimately end up hurt. They assume that their Virgo man has more feelings than what he says and that there is potential.

It’s very unlikely he’ll go from FWB to Girlfriend. The woman he wants to fall in love with and spend the rest of his life with will probably not be the woman he’s been sleeping with without commitment.

In fact; he’s more turned on to a woman who will not give herself away right away upon dating him. This will appeal to his moral code better. If you’re trying to get through some back door system of getting a Virgo man to commit; this is not the way to do it.

Translation Problems

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Unless your Virgo comes out and confesses his undying love to you; you are NOT his girlfriend. This applies to almost all the signs in the zodiac. If you agreed to be friends that occasionally share naughty time; that’s what he’ll expect.

You will catch him off guard if you profess your feelings when he hasn’t done the same and it will result in him probably ending what friendship you have. It’s rare for a man like this to go from intimate friends to serious relationship.

All in all ladies; I’m telling you that unless he says otherwise to you verbally; you should never have any reason to think anything other than you are not his serious girlfriend. You are not dating.

A “friend with benefits” are two friends that are close, spend time together, and occasionally have intimacy. It can be exclusive as in not sleeping with other people but its open for you both to date others.

If you want more from your Virgo man; you’ll have to do it the old fashioned way of trying to actually date him and let him get to know you. Click here to learn more about the Virgo man’s desires.

I hope this helps you figure out what type of situation you’d like to have versus what the situation actually is. Be careful ladies!

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Wishing you all the luck of the universe

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach


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6 thoughts on “Do Virgo Men Like Being “Friends With Benefits”: Will He Want More?

  1. Wondering why this is? I’ve had a FWB situation with a younger Virgo since the beginning of 2017. He is constantly sharing knowledge w me; offering his help; giving me recommendations. We have crazy naughty sex then spend one or two hours afterwards talking and discussing subjects like politics, athletics, travel, sociology; he has shared some w me about his family. However, he is fairly private. I have never been to his house. He always comes to mine. The couple of times he has mentioned wanting to do something outside of sex, he became busy or changed the plans slightly. It is a strange situation to be connected to someone sexually and intellectually, who offers unsolicited help and is happy to share whatever knowledge or experience he can, but has clear boundaries about where things stop. It seems there is potential for more, but I take your article seriously. Wondering why this situation is so black and white. What is it specifically about a Virgo male that will keep him from ever allowing a FWB situation to be more?

    1. Hello I’m a Virgo Female and yes that article nailed it!! I’ve been in 2 Virgo Male relationships, one was a committed relationship, the other was. FWB.. Virgo Men are so complex and complicated, when trying to figure out their intentions because they aren’t always clear, and NEVER on the surface.. BUT you have to be less complex and less complicated, and more open up front and forward ask him what he wants out of your FWB relationship, Tell him what you want without being demanding or offering up an ultimatum.. He will be clear and honest with his answers almost to the point of seeming to be a little arrogant but he’s not.. His intentions aren’t to hurt you in any way, and he wants to satisfy your every need and also protect your heart, even if his actions appear to be emotionally selfish.. 😂Give him some space and a little time to miss you, don’t always be available at his beckoning call allow him to miss you and time to reflect on Y’all relationship.. and when you do decide to answer his call or respond to his text and he ask where have u been? Why haven’t you been answering my calls or text? simply reply I’ve been working a lot, doing some research on future endeavors I’d like to pursue and didn’t want any extractions, ive also been doing some deep soul searching on where I’d like be in my life in the next 5yrs.. and also you’re not my man are you? So I don’t Really owe u an explanation now do I? And laugh it off in a jokingly tone.. 😂😂And quickly change the subject by asking how has he been. And how’s work going etc this will leave his mind racing and wondering.. It’s all mental with Virgo Men it’s a constant battle of wits, he’s attracted to a witty brainy intellectual sensually sexy independent morally rooted chic!! Ikr 🤔 They just want to love nuture and have it reciprocated back unto them..

    2. Although I am a virgo woman I relate very deeply to a lot of virgo man traits and What I can say for myself having friendships like this and still wanting boundaries to be respected can be for a number of reasons. one being protecting my own feelings two not trusting a FWB because in my head unless you are in union is morally the only time you should share your body with someone so when we are doing out of character things like having sexual relations with someone we aren’t married to, it feels like a sin. I feel like if a person doesn’t reserve their body or a person just gave it up its not really valuable so I don’t want to own it just want to rent it and have fun for a while perhaps until Im tired or annoyed with that person. Could still be friends as long as the person isnt clingy. Could still be of assistance because thats what friends do for each other. Another reason I feel us virgos may retreat from pursing more with a FWB is that there is a lack of trust maybe that virgo doesn’t feel like you’re loyal or you might not be open enough. Although virgo shares what seems to other people personal or private information it may not be personal or private at all in the mind of a virgo because it is something we have grown from so a person couldn’t use it against us. the dark stuff is still in secret. Also a virgo may no want to pursue more than FWB because there could be some other motives at play because we have high expectations for a partner. it may depend on your assets or resources and how giving you are. this doesnt mean we have bad motives we just like to be secure and have equality in partnerships. so u have to have something of value to that virgo. doesnt have to be money although preferred we are independent but have high respect for other independent people. i know some virgo man like women to lean on them a bit just not too much. Have a August virgo dad too he may be the one to want you for ya money something about those August virgos idk. lol

    3. Annette~ I’m in the same situation as you. I’m also with a younger Virgo man who has gone through a bad divorce . He told me he wanted a FWB relationship to start out with changing to a LTR. We have been together for 10 months now and I don’t see things progressing. I asked him once if I could go to his place of employment to see what he does. I was told no. He keeps his private life separate from his personal life. I feel like a big secret. Been thinking a lot lately about walking away because I’m falling in love with him and I’m afraid of getting hurt.

  2. Does this still apply if you were in a relationship with a virgo men and broke up and became friends with benefits?

  3. I am a 37 yr old Scorpio woman that is in deep like with a 24 yr old Virgo male. We have been talking over the phone and in person for 6 months. We now talk just about everyday going as long as four days at the most without talking(calling is a mutual effort) . At first of course with any friendship we didn’t say or share much with each other, but recently we are way more open and in deeper communication with one another. I since then have fallen in like with him and i know most Virgos are shy and not good with expressing their feelings. No he has not made any advances towards me but its some if not a lot of things he says or don’t say because he goes quiet and says “im just thinking” when i feel he is trying to express himself to me, or when i bring up other guys in a casual conversation. I always say to him please share what your thinking with me but he just changes the subject. He is ALWAYS trying to prove to me that is a MAN a grown mature man and wants me to see him as nothing else. He always includes me in all his business endeavors. I am around him so much that i don’t see any others woman around as much as i am. I’m just so unsure about his feelings for me of being more than friends. He has told me that when he usually likes someone he approaches them with great confidence and if he gets rejected then oh well he moves on with no bad feelings, so i then thought well i can count myself out because he has not done that with me. He is out of state right now while i am moving into my new place and the last few times he keeps asking am i moved in yet, why haven’t you moved in yet, why is it taking so long for me to get settled in, he acts excited but plays it REALLY COOL. Please help! Am i in like alone or is he just a big shy guy because he doesn’t know how im going to react if he says something.

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