9 Questions To Ask A Virgo Man To Spark His Interest

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
You might be wondering what questions to ask a Virgo man because you want to get closer to him and understand who he is...

Questions to ask a Virgo man are not hard to define. Virgo men can seem shy—there’s no doubt about that! And when they’re new to you, they’re even more timid.

However, with a bit of time and patience, you’ll soon discover that Virgo men are actually very bold, and it just takes the right kind of questions to get them talking! What to ask a Virgo man? What kinds of questions can you ask to draw him out of his shell, and even fall for you? 

Although Virgo men are earth signs, they’re also ruled by the communication planet, Mercury. This makes these men extra talkative—but only when they feel comfortable! 

There’s nothing that a Virgo man loves more than problem-solving and offering advice, so with the right sort of questions, you should have him eating out of your hand in no time at all! 

The trick with a Virgo man is to show him how smart you are, too. This is a highly intelligent sign, and he won’t appreciate you playing dumb or putting on a ditzy-girl act—don’t hide your intellect! Instead, give him everything you have in the brains department, and watch him melt! 

So if you’re keen to find out questions to ask a Virgo man, then keep on reading to find out more. This might just be exactly what you needed to bag your Virgo guy!

What Do Virgos Like To Talk About?

A Virgo man is intentionally quiet sometimes, but he is never shy. Ruled by the planet of thought and communication (Mercury), he is  gifted at the art language. He knows how to write and deliver a speech.

Therefore, if you’re ever wondering what’s on this man’s mind, you won’t have to wait for long. Virgo man will be drawn into conversation with you, and that will give you the chance to show off your other fine qualities.

He likes to talk about close friends, where do you see yourself in five years, what are your plans for the future, what good book you recently read, etc. Also, asking him about his childhood is a great way to get him to talk about his background without making him feel like you’re prying too much.

5 Deep Questions To Ask A Virgo Man To Spark His Interest

1. Ask Him What He’s Been Reading

This is one of the questions to ask a Virgo man. Virgo men love, love, love to read! Whether it’s books, journals, magazines, or the news, this man likes to keep up with the world and know what’s going on! 

You don’t have to confine your questions to just books—there are all sorts of things to read! Perhaps you’d like to start off by telling him about a book you’ve read (and it doesn’t have to be recent—just the most “heady” one) and see how he adds to that. He’ll love the fact that you’re a woman who reads.

This is a fun, easy way to get a Virgo man out of his shell, and you’ll soon see how knowledge ignites his passion! 

2. Ask About His Job or Career

You probably know where he works, but do you really know what he does? Virgo men, more than most, live and breathe their work and are typically very dedicated to their careers. 

What does a normal day look like for your guy? How is his relationship with his boss? Or if he’s the boss, what is his team like? 

Ask him his routine, what he loves about his job, and what he hates! Ask him if he sees himself staying on his current path, and see if he has a dream job in mind. 

Once you get a Virgo man talking about his work, there’s virtually no stopping him! This is his comfort zone, and he’s very willing to share that part of himself with you.

3. Ask Him For Advice on Finances

Did you know that most Virgo men are financial whizzes? He won’t always share what he’s good at until you ask, and this is one of the skills he may have. 

In fact, many Virgo men work in finance, as accountants or bankers or stock brokers. But even those whose work has nothing to do with money are often great with personal finances.

Even if you don’t have a financial problem, think of a goal you’d like to set. Ask him how you can save efficiently or start an investment portfolio.

When you chat with him about money, you’re giving him two gifts: the chance to help you out and the opportunity to show you his skills. Win-win!

4. Give Him a Problem to Solve

What  do Virgos like to talk about? Virgo men are here on this earth to solve problems—and no problem is more satisfying to solve than one that’s bugging his woman!

You can be the person to bring him a sticky issue, and asking him for his advice will make his heart full. Whether it’s an issue with a co-worker, a sticky situation with your schedule, car shopping—whatever! You’ll need to judge how much you’re willing to tell him when your relationship is new, but rest assured that your Virgo man is there to help.

The reason for this is also because acts of service are the most common love language for Virgo men. And here’s the thing—he really does give great advice! You may come to wonder how you ever managed without him.

5. Ask About His Hobbies And Interests

Hobbies and interests are likely a big deal to your Virgo fella. He just loves to learn new things, and the chances are very good that his hobbies are rooted in his childhood in some shape or form. 

Ask him what he likes to do in his free-time and what skills he has to learn to maintain his hobbies and interests. Share your own interests too—he loves a woman who’s also passionate about spending her time on something she enjoys doing. 

One great thing you can do is suggest taking a workshop or class about something that interests you both. That way he will feel much more close to you.

4 Deep Questions To Ask A Virgo Man To Get Him To Open Up

6. What Is Your Profession?”

I know this might sound like a boring question, but trust me when it comes to a Virgo guy, it can be anything else than just plain boring. The sign of Virgo, in the astrological sense, is all about working and serving others. And there is no man belonging to this sign, who wouldn’t be thrilled to talk about his daily activities, his devotion and his plans for the future.

When you ask a Virgo man this specific question, he will open up completely. And please don’t do it in the manner of a police investigator, rather include your sexy smile while you’re shaping those words, and show genuine interest. This won’t be just “I’m the doctor, plumber, construction worker, vet, administrative worker” type of answer, he will sense that you truly listen and then he will carry on.

The manner in which he uses to tell his story, not just its content, will be the clear indication with what kind of man you are dealing with. Again, listen carefully, because just from this confession you might find everything about him. While he is describing his usual day, you will learn how he handles his clients, what levels of energy he possesses, and, generally, what kind of man he is.

7. Are You Involved in Additional Education?”

First of all, this is one of the important questions to ask a Virgo man. It will clearly show that you are an educated person yourself, which will be a huge turn on in his mind, but more than this, your question will delight him, because the house of a higher education for a Virgo guy is placed in the sign of Taurus, which is closely related to properties and financial matters.

And in those moments, you could even think that your conversation moved away from romance to a business meeting, but you’ll be wrong for sure. He will now think highly of you, not just because you possess some high intellectual traits, but you also think carefully about your future, which can become his future soon.

The higher aim for any Virgo guy is to build his safe funds and profit from his properties, because he is fully aware that his job can be uncertain or that the market might, and surely will, change one day. No matter what type of career he is involved with, he will always be into those financial issues carefully planning and creating strategies, even if he doesn’t possess wealth right now.

If he’s not doing this or he is not even interested in these types of subjects, then you will know for sure that you are dealing with the immature type of a Virgo man or someone who is not capable of taking care of his future family.

8. Have You Written a Book, or Planning to Write One?”

This is an essential question, because the planet Mercury, the basic writer in the whole Zodiac, is ruling the first house for a Virgo man, and it also rules his house of career. He might be involved in any other type of profession, like being a barman, electrician, or a bus driver, but this influence of Mercury, the messenger god, will always be burning deep inside his soul.

He will feel the powerful unconscious need to write down his life’s experiences and at first, he will be surprised with your question thinking “This woman reads me totally” and again, this will be another compliment for you no matter will he say it out loud or he will keep this amazement to himself.

Now, he will truly open up to you feeling like you are one of the rare people who are able to understand him completely. And you should pay attention to his revealing story because this won’t be just the short description of his published or planned book, you will also get a premium insight into his heart and mind.

9. “Have You Ever Tried Ballroom Dancing?”

This is another surprise coming from your mouth and now he will probably be in shock and thinking that you must be one of a kind when you can read his mind and soul so easily. It’s not a matter if he has been dancing at all, this type of “noble fun” is carved deeply into his heart because the fifth house of his talents, passions, and heart is placed in the sign of Capricorn. Here, in this sign, you can’t find the latest hip-hop bands, loud parties, and easy girls. Everything has to be golden, old, and with style.

Ballroom dancing is, the best fun he could ever imagine in his life because all the steps are done according to the dancing protocols, everybody is dressed appropriately and manners are considered as a social must. He feels safe in this kind of environment and more than just this, he feels great while waltzing or dancing the Foxtrot.

What NOT To Ask A Virgo Man

One of the best things you can do to get a Virgo man to fall for you is to simply allow him to talk and ask you questions. Be open and honest with him, and don’t be scared to tell him if you’re unsure about anything. 

Most Virgo men really want to find out what makes your brain tick, and asking you questions about yourself and your life is the best way he can “suss you out.” 

However, there are certain questions you need to avoid, such as asking him about his ex for instance. Virgo men have a dry sense of humor, and they love facts. Do your research before engaging with these men, and don’t try to talk to them about romance novels, TV soap operas, or stuff you heard on Facebook. If you seem shallow and uninformed, he will write you off and move on.

With some signs, it’s wisest to dole out information slowly so they don’t lose interest. Not so with Virgo! Don’t be shy about sharing with this guy. He loves chatting, and once he gets going, he makes for a great conversational partner! 

14 Words A Virgo Man Loves To Hear…

Have you ever heard of a 14-word elixir that can rejuvenate a relationship with a Virgo man?

Just as communication is the most important aspect of a relationship, one of the most important aspects of communication is knowing how to overcome disagreements and misunderstandings.

I know many women who have tragically failed with Virgo men simply because they underestimated the importance of conversation.

Some didn’t talk to them enough and some talked too much… Others talked just enough, but they said a few wrong things here and there that made their lovers pout and brood.

I’m telling you, you never want to make a Virgo guy pout over something you said.

It’s best to resolve such conflicts as soon as possible because his negativity might escalate until one day he just snaps and decides you’re not the one for him and it’s all over.

The worst part is that in 9 out of 10 cases women don’t even realize that they said something wrong… or didn’t say something he expected them to say.

He doesn’t send signals when he’s hurt or disappointed. Instead, he usually just goes quiet… but women never notice. And even if they do notice, they don’t know what to do in time.

That’s why whenever you have a disagreement, it’s best to defuse it with words that can save your relationship.

Click here and find out the 14 words your Virgo man needs to hear to melt his heart.

Sending you love,

Your sister and relationship astrologer,

Anna Kovach

About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

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