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Why A Virgo Man Ignores Your Text Messages

You’ve to text him a bunch and for some reason, he isn’t responding to your messages. Maybe he does but responds much later after the moment has passed. Why a Virgo man ignores your messages?

Here’s why he may be:

You’re Pushing Him Too Hard

If you text him too often or send him messages via social media he may feel overwhelmed and want a little space from you. By nature, the Virgo man typically does want a bit of personal freedom.

When things have been going well but suddenly he starts ignoring your messages just relax and let him come to you when he’s ready. Don’t take it personally! He’s not doing it to be mean to you.

He will want time to himself and will take it in any form that he deems necessary. He may not feel like texting you back at that point in time, ergo the Virgo man ignores your messages. It doesn’t mean he won’t ever. It also doesn’t mean he’s changed his mind.

Try not to over analyze the things he does. He isn’t going to one day love you and next day leave you. Once he’s in it to win it he will keep it going. Calm down and realize that it’s not about you.

He’s Finding His Own Way

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This is not to say that he’s going along in life without you. He still has goals in his life and he’ll sometimes need to take time to focus on those. That may mean ignoring your texts for a time.

He will likely let you know afterward what he was doing and why he didn’t answer you. Keep in mind also that he isn’t into clingy or needy women. Placing demands that he answer all your texts will not fare well.

Sometimes he’s busy and sometimes he’s taking in some fresh air by himself. It’s absolutely healthy to have some personal time and space away from each other. This applies even if you don’t live in the same town.

If you’re used to texting constantly and he stops he’s probably worn out and just needs to refresh himself before going back after it. It’s nothing personal and certainly not reflecting on how he feels about you.

He works on his own path to success in his own way. If he needs to take some personal time to do this, it may mean him turning off his phone or putting people off for a time.

Again, try not to take this as a sleight from him about you. I’d say that 98% of the time if a Virgo man ignores your messages it’s NOT about you. If he wants to end things, he’ll let you know.

Time Frames Matter

Normally a Virgo man will not ignore the woman he really likes or loves. He can be forgetful about texts or sometimes prefers to do face time or talking on the phone instead of texting.

Many Virgo men are old school and prefer to do things the traditional way instead of the modern convenience of a text message. He may be tired and not up for typing a message out.

Notice the time frame of how long it takes for him to respond. Where he may go all day without texting but then calls you that night, then you know he just preferred to talk personally.

However, if a significant amount of time passes and the Virgo man ignores your messages, this could be his way of ending it. It’s not a typical thing for a Virgo but it’s not impossible either.

Watch for the signs as much as you can. If he takes days or longer to answer you there may be an issue that you need to discuss with him to make sure he’s still in the relationship with you.

When it’s only hours or a few days, you’ll probably find he will reach out to you in another way to let you know he is still there and everything is continuing forward with the two of you.

Decide When Enough Is Enough

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If you set up a time frame of what is acceptable versus what is not acceptable for him to text you in; then you’ll need to stand by it. If you find that if he doesn’t answer you within a couple of days and that’s your limit, stick to it.

You can also try to confront him and ask him why he never texts you back. He should tell you straight out what happened and why. If he has no real excuse for not answering you; make him accountable!

When a Virgo man ignores your messages, this ignoring thing isn’t that typical of Virgo. He could for sake of personal space or the need to get something done. However; when he loves someone; he does tend to make them a priority.

Conclusion

You may need to find out by asking him where your relationship stands. If you’re the type to sit back and let him continue to not text you back; then that’s what you accept.

Now if you would like to keep your relationship flowing; you’ll need to ask him to be honest with you about why he didn’t text back. He will tell you the truth. If he doesn’t then he may have a moon sign that gives him reasons to lie.

However, making him come clean should clear the air and let you know what was going on, what was on his mind, or if he was simply working. Whatever it was; he shouldn’t be afraid to fess up.

Ultimately you really need to get to know your Virgo man better so that you know what his habits are and how best you can compromise to make it work for you.

You should check out my step by step guide to the Virgo man.

By reading theVirgo Man Secrets you’ll be able to avoid mishaps or problems by knowing in advance what you can expect with him. It may help you to figure out what you yourself want with him as well.

What do you think? Why a Virgo man ignores your messages?

 

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach



9 thoughts on “Why A Virgo Man Ignores Your Text Messages

  1. I recently met up with an ex fling with mine of mine. I was 19 and 43 and he was the love of my life I fell in love with him instantly I am Scorpio he is Virgo and although we really didn’t have a communication relationship it was more of a sexual relationship for he was a player. Last year in August I had searched him numerous times found out his real name and ask your girlfriend if she would relay a message to him after finding out he was in jail and he did talk to her. I did not find out until around March that she had text messaged me and said he wanted to call me. I thought I was going to die because this is the guy of my dreams my soulmate he is my everything and I feel as if we broke up I would kill myself. I haven’t going through a hard life with physically and mentally abuse from several of my relationships I have wrote a lot of this to him and he is explain back to he was sorry I told him it was not his fault as a path we chose. So anyways he had got married he is at 7 kids I got three and everybody’s all grown over the age of 17. we connected right away talked he asked me to send him some money for he is in prison and it has spent already 12 years he explain to me it wasn’t about the money he had told me that just as 99% of the prisoners who go to jail they lose their friends family acquaintances. and he claims has been some time talking with a female so we never stop texting talking telling each other how much we love and miss each other and what we going to do when we got out we threw a lot of sexual fantasies stories in there. One day I was on my woman Lehman strolling kind of out of whack with an attitude and there’s things that I came off as I guess being rude I was kind of questioning on a couple things and I agree it wasn’t the nicest message and it wasn’t the worst but we had already talked about venting to each other we had already talked about marriage for he has asked me to marry him. this was a better athlete shock to me especially let alone him even talkin to me. I’ve never been so happy in my life and he explained how happy I have made him. He gets out in January 2019 to go into a half house for 6 months before he gets out completely but I will be able to see him and I’m very close to Pittsburgh so I will be visiting him everyday. Yes the first time I had mentioned stuff that wasn’t so good just basically complaining and renting and raijin about how bad my life was he disappeared I didn’t hear him call me for a couple days I cry straight through a couple days I went through hell freaking out blaming me blaming God why did I write that anyways couple weeks later lot of bad stuff happen to me and is all because of me getting him money and I actually wrote him and told him that you know it wasn’t for him I wouldn’t be going through a lot of this stuff and stressful things and but I really do love him and I don’t ever want to lose him cuz I won’t be able to live without him and he was stubborn again that call me didn’t text me for days I begged and begged and begged and constantly text and I can’t call him, so I had to wait from a text or a call from him. The girlfriend that was staying with me saw that what I was going through because I was hysterical what needs wooden sleeve and cried all day all night and kept repeating how I would kill myself cuz I thought I lost them we finally texted me back was pretty Furious and told me that this was the last time he was going to put up with that and that he did love me and we were fine after that we talked went back to normal then the jail went on lockdown my roommate and I were fighting really bad I thought that he had brush me off for good I was so confused couldn’t find out what happened to him and finally when I did he was on lockdown whole system was it took a week and they were out of lockdown and the first person he called or thing that he did was call me we talked for 15 minutes at a time had a great conversation laughed Etc. I was on my way to get a new cellular phone so he told me that he would call me when I got home which I told him what time it was I came home exhausted just in time to get a call or wait a couple minutes or I never got a call never no response that was a Thursday Friday all day I didn’t get no nothing at all from him I didn’t get a text and I get a call so I started to have different feelings if what if he was talking to somebody else he’s trying to relieve the money problem and just use another check for money. something that happened . I was smart about my conversation with them even though I was feeling very anxious and irritable and a little bit angry cuz I thought he was putting me off and I had no idea about bergamet at this time and their characteristics so I started searching through things and I seen a lot of things even when I was trying to find out about the present about guys using girls in jail and stuff and I’ve been questioned all through my neighborhood and my family about it and I stuck to my guns and stuck up for. He makes me smile all the time bring so much joy to my face makes me feel so good because I have a severe illness called Crohn’s disease and he’s experienced this before with another girlfriend so he does know what to expect he said that was okay he would take care of it he was going to take care of me. And everything when he came home I had my doubts back and forth about it I did question him and he got a little upset and we just went on couple days ago I had texted him because of the feeling of him ignoring me I said five lines and it was just letting him know that I’m a strong person I am not going to let people roll over me or get to me anymore as he and I both know I’ve been treated like that my whole life. He seems to have so much heart and romance about him. I feel that I have to trust him and I want to because more than ever I felt like I’ve been blessed with this man and he also felt like he was blessed with me so few days ago I made a comment a couple comments about myself I can play Chester T jiggly nobody’s going to mess with me so she about people and I can be a worst nightmare a best dream. Now again I do not hear from him and it’s been 2 days the last time he said that was the end of it but throughout this whole time I have begged him never to leave me and he’s always kept saying he promises he will never leave me no matter what? I’ve been up searching for advice and trying to learn his astrology and other parts which I’ve learned a great big deal about him and myself. My normal reaction is to kind of be a smart-ass thinking that would get a kick out of him but I did not want to further push anything away does anybody have any suggestions it’s being the third time and I’ve heard that it’s best just to give him a few days to calm down. I would really appreciate everybody’s advice of how I can go about going through this, even when I do text him what would be the greatest things for me to say to him to make his heart melt and want to stay with me?

    1. Hi Christine Davis!

      I think you could really benefit from reading my book series “Virgo Man Secrets”. There is a whole lot in there that may prove to be very useful for you. If he has told you that he’s going to be with you forever then there is no reason for him not to be but don’t let him run you over. Be straight up with him always. He doesn’t respect women who aren’t strong. You cannot make a man stay with you. He has to want to. Either he loves you enough or he doesn’t. That’s something you have to find out from talking candidly with him.

  2. I really like a Virgo male.
    We dated on and off a lot during my senior year of high school, and I’ve never stopped loving him.
    I started missing him a lot the year after I graduated and reached out,

    We’re talking again but I have missed some key opportunities timing-wise.
    To see him, and now I just feel like i’ve Been a little too clingy over the last 4 days we’ve been talking.

    He always responds promptly, and he’s not ignoring me,
    But I’m ignoring him.

    I’m a Capricorn woman.

    I just need a minute to make sure that this is actually what I want, but I don’t want him to lose interest since I have done some things against him in the past.

    Should I apologize? Now?

    1. Hi Moon!

      Whatever you do, don’t play head games. He hates that. Tell him exactly how you feel and if you feel you should apologize then do it. Just be open with him and let communication be something that helps you two find your way. I hope this helps but you should try reading my book series sometime for more information “Virgo Man Secrets”.

  3. I started an online chat relationship with a military Virgo male. I’m Scorpio. It started well two months ago. Him texting at different times flirty,sexual and meaningful too. He said he wanted to chat with me exclusively and repeatedly said he wouldn’t go anywhere unless I told him to. He told me about his family etc… Told me what he wanted in a partner and that it was me. He would also send me love songs. Then….I innocently said I might visit one day… different country. That’s when the texts got happy. The longest was three days. But he would only reply to my initial texts. Now he hasn’t replied for a week. Being miserable I sent a few sad texts. Yesterday I tried to lightheartedly text again and asked him to talk to me at some stage. The messages are still unread. I’m sad. What gives? Anyone out there can tell me what they think?? Thanks in advance

    1. Hi Dee!

      It sounds like he’s having some doubts about the relationship, if you’re the real deal, or if he’s even ready for what it could possibly mean if you visit him. This is a pretty normal thing for someone who has met someone else online. There is anxiety and worry. He loves talking to you the way it is because it’s easy and he can maintain excitement. However when you talk about visiting him or something like that, he thinks you’re trying to get more serious and it probably scared him. I’d just relax and let things get back to a flow and see where things lead. Hang in there. Virgo man does hot and cold when he really likes someone and is scared.

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