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The Virgo Man’s Erogenous Zones – What Turns Him On?

Today we’ll talk about a Virgo man’s erogenous zones. If you’re trying to get your Virgo man in bed or maybe trying to get him to enjoy himself to the ultimate with you, here are some surefire ways of getting him hot and ready to please you in bed.

Ego Pumping To Prime Him 

Just like any man’s, a Virgo man’s erogenous zones vary. This works really well for the Virgo man when you’re trying to get down and dirty. Talking dirty to him in a way he understands will definitely get his motor running. If you know him well you’ll know what he likes.

Tell him he’s a really amazing lover or how sensual and deep his kiss is. Touch his face and remind him how ruggedly handsome he is. Look deep into his eyes and show him that you sincerely mean it.

Do not be fake about what you say to him though. You have to actually mean what you say because if you do not; he’ll be able to tell that you are not being honest which will result in him turning off instead of on.

Try not to lay it on too thick either because he starts to get uncomfortable with too many compliments. Find just the right equation that works for him and you’ll be able to tell he’s ready to go.

This is a bit like foreplay for him. He is an intelligent man and will get turned on by certain words or verbiage. If you’re getting into bed with him then it’s likely you already know what he likes to hear.

Each Virgo man will be different based on their moon signs but almost all of them appreciate a good verbal foreplay session before they take off their close and share their passion with you.

Kiss him… A lot

Couple spending time together relaxing on the bed and kiss each other - The Virgo man’s erogenous zones

To find the Virgo man’s erogenous zones, kissing is the way to go.  One of his very favorite things to do is to hold your face and kiss you passionately. Not forceful but not too light either. He seems to know how to do this “just right”. Allow him to kiss you for as long as you can.

He really enjoys doing this. If he didn’t start it already you can go ahead and kiss him. He’ll love it! Be gentle and sensual when you kiss him. He will weigh the whole idea of intimate relationship on how well you kiss.

When he fantasizes about you the first thing he’s thinking is about kissing you. Most men go right for gold and think about oral sex or intercourse. For a Virgo, it’s a process.

Kissing you is the most sensual thing he can possibly do and so he will enjoy it if you take the lead sometimes and kiss him. He’ll be floored and find it quite spectacularly a turn on.

Snuggle Time!

If you aren’t used to having lots of foreplay, I’ve got news for you: Virgo men are notorious for mega amounts of it! They’ve got it in abundance and want to lavish you in its deliciousness.

While you’re kissing and snuggling up this will be the time where you start feeling each other up and enjoying touching each other everywhere. For him, you can put your hand on his belly.

Just gently place it there where it’s close to his private area. He’ll wonder where you’re going with it and if you’re going to do anything. The anticipation builds for him and it will be hot!

After a few minutes of teasing, start to gently move your fingers around stroking the area around his belly. Caress his belly like its soft feathers you’re running your fingers through.

Provided he’s not too ticklish there, he’ll eat this up. Of course, you can work the angle of kissing him gently around that area as well. It works well as a teasing method that will make him lose himself in the moment.

Be as gentle and tender as you can and it will make him crazy; in a really good way. His stomach is his main erogenous zone. Pay lots of attention to the area around his belly button and just below.

This is also the “Sacral Chakra” area which does rule sexuality. The more you work that area, the more you turn him on and turn him up. This is one of the Virgo man’s erogenous zones.

Don’t forget the Scene Set-up

Woman puts perfume on - The Virgo man’s erogenous zones

Virgo men have extreme attention to detail. They love pleasant fragrances and so it’s important for you to make the scene of your play smell amazing. Try to find out what he likes best.

Typically Vanilla will work for most men. It’s light but very pleasant allowing for the senses to be turned on. You can achieve this with candles, wax, or oils. Whatever your preference is; go with it.

Don’t forget to go ahead and take yourself a nice bath ahead of time. Put some fragrance filled salts or oils. Making yourself smell like a million bucks will really turn him on beyond words.

You can also lightly dab on some kind of oil or perfume fragrance that is light and enticing. Try not to put too much or it’ll turn him in the other direction. Lightness is the key so that he has to get close to you to smell it.

Light some candles for a little light in the room as well. The more romantic the setting; the more inspired he’ll feel to give you his all and make passion his #1 priority with you. This may not be one of the Virgo man’s erogenous zones per se, but it will surely please his heart.

Achieving Your Intimacy

Once you’ve gotten him good and revved up the Virgo man will make sure you get what you need in bed. He often times will make sure that you get your pleasure first before he finishes.

He feels it’s his duty as a man to make sure that you are well pleased. If you are not pleased, he’ll feel there is something wrong with him which can make him critical of himself.

You can gently guide him if need be without saying much so he feels HE is doing it. Click here to find out more about the sensual Virgo and what you can do to seduce him.

I hope this helps you knock it out of the park with your Virgo guy. He’s fairly easy to please and eager to please you.

What do you think a Virgo man’s erogenous zones are?

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Wishing you all the luck of the universe

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

2 thoughts on “The Virgo Man’s Erogenous Zones – What Turns Him On?

  1. I really like this Virgo man.He’s divorced 1,5 years ago.His wife left him .They were together for 20 years.
    We met 1 year ago at the business and became friends. As I was married when we met we only texted eachother for 8 months land we had a good connection, cause I had also problems in my marriage.Our problems with the marriage were almost same. 4 months ago I got divorced too. We went on a date a couple of times. He always mentioned that I understand him and very kind to him. He is very busy guy, He works in a bank and travels a lot. After a couple of dates ( these dates were one in a month cause he was at the business trip alot) he invited me to his home , and he kissed me.
    I had been invited 2 more times before, but we had only talked and listen music.
    He is not a guy who jumps in to a bed.
    After we had an intimacy , I mean the day after he texted me that how I am, . I was hoping that he is my officialy boyfriend, but he was acting like a normal friend. Maybe I shouldn’t had asked but I asked Is there something wrong because he was very romantic at that night, he had hugged me like we knew eachother for a long time.He was very emotional but he turned to normal.
    He told me he had still issues with his ex, he would never accept her if she comes back but the main problem is that he can not get rid off his past in his mind. He had dreams about his past life and it disturbs him a lot.
    He said He doesnt want to loose me, cause we are understanding eachother , we have good time together , but he is not fully ready for a commitment.He also said we can go on a dinner together, but we should park the last night for a while; he needs a therapy, time will help us.. I didnt want to loose him,I said I dont want to give any pressure to him, we are good like this and I am not expecting any commitment cause I understand him that he needs time.
    He didnt call me for 5 days abd then texted me that he is going to London , and asked me which chocolate I want him to bring in.
    and we did chat like 20 min. like we used to do before.
    I knew when he was coming and I couldnt wait more( after 15 days) I just send a message like hi how are u doin, he said he just came back and I felt that.He asked me to stop by his apartment, of course I ran into him.
    After we had a chat like 1 hour , he kissed me..And he wanted mo stay that night with him. The day after he took me to the breakfast, but he was normal again, he was not holding my hand or hugging me as a boyfriend, but he was very warm , he made jokes to make me laugh.
    There is a theatre 2 weeks later, he promised me to go there together.
    I wrote very long I am sorry but I really am in love with him, he is very kind , soft person,I love his soul. I read your articles about Virgo man, he is totally same as you described.
    I can not understand how he really feels about me, but I can feel that he has feelings for me, cause he said he is very picky guy, he isnot very social and he spends most of his spare time as sitting at home, reading, listening music.
    The chemisrty between us is amazing.I think he also feels that.
    But I don’t know what to do , cause my love for him is growing everyday , I am scared .
    And this friendship situation is killing me, I want him to be my real boy friend?

    Thank you?

    1. Hi Neslihan!

      You need to be very straight with him honey. He isn’t good at guessing how you feel or what you want. You have to tell him exactly how you feel, what you want, and where you see things going. You need to ask him what he wants and if he wants to be with you or not. He should answer you with honesty. If he still cannot answer you then you’ll have to decide how long you will wait for him or when you should move on. Only your heart knows that answer. Trust yourself and do what you need to in order to be happy.

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