Are you losing sleep at night wondering how to read the confusing signals sent by a Virgo man? Do you wish you had a crystal ball to help you understand his intentions?
Well, I’m no crystal ball, but as a relationship astrologer with decades of experience, I can help you get to the root of his signals.
My name is Anna Kovach, and my specialty is helping women like you understand their Virgo love interests.
1. He breaks routine to be with you
Virgo men are sticklers for routines and married to their schedules. But when a man born under this modest signs secretly likes you, he makes a subtle yet surprising move. He becomes more flexible and breaks routines to spend time with you.
One of the signs a Virgo man secretly likes you at work is when he changes his routines to talk to you. He may prolong his lunch break or eat in the staff room instead of grabbing food at his favorite cafe.
Virgos become anxious when faced with change. They find security and stability by following their plans to the letter. It’s only when a Virgo man really cares about you that he shows flexibility and adapts to spend time with you.
If he comments that he has a standing meeting or time at the gym scheduled but can be flexible to have a date with you, take this to heart. Changing his schedule is a greater sacrifice than he lets on.
2. He cheats on his diet to try your favorite food
Similarly, when a Virgo man starts to break the strict rules that govern his diet and lifestyle so that he can feel closer to you, he’s showing signs he likes you. Virgo men indicate they have a secret crush when they cheat on their diets to enjoy decadent food with you.
A Virgo guy may indulge in rich foods, fried foods, and desserts which are typically not on the menu for him when he’s eating alone. If he does this, your Virgo man is showing you he cares and wants to share the experience with you even if he does so at the cost of his diet.
A health-conscious Virgo takes his health seriously and doesn’t take risks unless he’s interested in connecting with you through sharing food.
3. He tries to impart practical wisdom
Virgo men are intelligent and analytical. When a Virgo man likes you, he tries to share practical advice. He wants to impart wisdom whether you asked his advice or not.
If a Virgo man makes suggestions for gardening, DIY repairs, or health tips, he is showing a romantic interest in you. His style is not sentimental, but you can tell he cares about you when he takes an interest in helping you improve your life.
When a Virgo man goes silent, he may be protecting his vulnerable feelings. But this can also be a sign he’s researching topics he thinks you’ll be interested in so he can help you attain your goals.
4. He loosens up
When a Virgo man likes you as more than a friend, he relaxes slightly. If you don’t know him well you might miss his cues. He shows subtle signs that he is interested in you romantically. One of the physical signs a Virgo man secretly likes you is when he relaxes around you.
How do you know if a Virgo man is flirting with you? He may lean rather than sitting rigidly. His facial expression softens and he smiles more than usual.
He may slouch slightly, or his eyes relax. You’ll see his face soften and his body language will reveal that he is loosening up. He may stay up later to talk to you or become more flexible with his otherwise set-in-stone routines.
5. He helps you plan for emergencies
One of a Virgo man’s most notable traits is his intellectual prowess and analytical abilities. A Virgo man might reveal his hidden crush when he becomes invested in helping you plan for emergencies.
If your Virgo man offers you first aid kits, suggests strategies for emergency preparedness, and talks to you about the best ways to forage for food if you are lost in the woods, you may just assume he’s well informed and overcautious.
And while he is prone to anxiety, these measures intended to ensure you are safe and cared for are actually an indication that he likes you.
6. He analyzes the costs and benefits of your choices (even if you didn’t ask him to)
Virgo men can’t help overthinking about everything. They analyze the pros and cons of their every move as if life is one big chess game. When a Virgo man shares his in-depth analysis of the impact of your choices, he’s not being critical. You might feel confused by his reaction, but this is a crucial sign that your Virgo man is interested in you.
How does a Virgo man test you when he likes you? He avoids mind games and instead, tests your practical wisdom. When he gauges loopholes in your plans, he is quick to make suggestions.
You might be surprised to learn that a Virgo man is actually into you when he shares strategic input about the most mundane choices you make. He may give excessive insight into the implications of the cereal you eat for breakfast, the kind of car you drive, and your plans for a vacation.
This is a sign a Virgo man is interested in you. He sees you as more than a friend and wants to be with you when he offers unsolicited advice about the most minute details. This habit can be frustrating, but it is one of a Virgo man’s signs of endearment.
7. He tells you about changes in the weather
Women often overlook this bizarre secret sign a Virgo man likes you. Virgos are fond of apps that help them monitor everything from their footsteps to the stock market and of course, the weather.
When a Virgo guy gives you up to date weather reports, even for minor storms or changes in the atmosphere, it’s a hidden sign he cares. You may just think he’s really into meteorology, but he’s actually being protective.
How does your Virgo man show you he secretly cares? I’d love to hear from you!
If you want to keep a Virgo man hooked—mentally, emotionally, and physically—you need to speak his language.
That’s exactly what I help you do in my guide, Magic Phrases.
It’s full of playful, irresistible things to say that spark his curiosity and make him crave more of you.
If you’re ready to move from casual interest to real connection, this is your secret weapon.
With love,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
