Hello my dear, and welcome to the horoscope reading for your Virgo man for October The year is racing to a climax, and you’ll be pleased to know that the transits for this particular week offer the scope for some intensity, passion, emotional connectivity, and there’s also a bit of good luck and spontaneity.
In fact, it is a rather stimulating month on a number of levels, and that’s always good for relationships because it means there’s a variety of energies that you can tap into in order to remold the relationship.
What’s important as well, is understanding the power basis of the relationship, tapping into the subtext, the context, the hidden motives and agendas that you and your partner have, and working with those in order to get a better result.
So often, I feel people fail in relationships because they keep on a surface, verbal level without understanding what’s really behind the facade, what’s behind the words, and what lies beneath. I feel this is a great time to uncover what lies beneath and then shift your overall perspective of the relationship to achieve relationship goals.
Here’s what the stars have in store for a Virgo man this October…
New Moon in Libra Conjunct Mercury – 2nd of October
This New Moon is great news for Virgo Man and also for your relationship. There are two elements to it: it’s a great time for a rethink of your finances, it’s a perfect time for any budgeting ahead of the Christmas or holiday season, and it’s also a good time to review spending priorities to make sure that you are nailing those money goals or purchases that really are going to improve your relationship.
Whether you just started a new relationship or have known each other for a long time, it’s important to nail down what you guys have in common in terms of values—what adds spice and meaning to your lives—because when you find that, you can always focus on those areas to reboot the relationship or get off to a good start.
What’s so important right now is “knowing me, knowing you.” So know yourself and know him, and make sure you live authentically according to who you are, because that always makes a relationship easier.
Jupiter Retrograde in Gemini – 9th of October
Now, this particular retrograde represents an important time for him to reconsider his career direction, image, and public relations. All in all, it’s an important time to take his foot off the gas and understand what’s really going on in terms of his career development.
Things may be going great, but he needs to ask the question: “What’s next?” Or maybe things aren’t going so well, and he needs another strategy. You should be there to help throw around some ideas with a Virgo man and perhaps alert him to ways he could be better at managing people, his presentation, or even giving speeches.
Perhaps you could be the one to give him the confidence to try something new in his career. The whole retrograde transit’s message is to talk about his career, be enthusiastic, and show interest.
Mercury enters Scorpio – 14th of October
As Mercury enters Scorpio, it squares Pluto. This transit brings out the more obsessive side of a Virgo man — he can be more perfectionistic, unfortunately more critical, and can even become a bit of a workaholic.
The big problem right now is excess and not knowing when enough is enough. Your key role as a partner is to help him detach and find some escapism. While he can be quite big-headed and resistant to advice, you should always be someone who acts as a buffer between the more extreme tendencies he can have when he gets a little obsessive.
Right now, you also shouldn’t nitpick at certain things that annoy him, so it’s important to avoid interfering with his rituals, routines, or doing anything that is likely to cross a boundary or frustrate him.
Venus enters Sagittarius – 18th of October
Now, this is a great time for the private life you share as a couple. Therefore, it’s a good time to spend some quality time alone in the evenings. “Quality time” is an overused phrase, but it’s quite appropriate right now. You may need to consolidate a bit—get rid of some activities or friendships that drain you and leave you without enough energy for your intimate life, emotional conversations, or, in a new relationship, for really getting to know each other.
This is a time when you need to make an effort to get behind the mask and really get to know him. If you do that, it’s going to make you feel a lot more secure in the relationship because many people feel insecure with Virgo men since they are diplomatic, people-pleasing, and really hard to get to know, but right now is a good time to try.
Sun enters Scorpio – 23rd of October
This is an important time for communication, humor, and approaching everyday life with a sense of variety. Virgo Man might be bored and restless, so it’s vital that you guys have lots on the go to sink your teeth into.
It’s also a time when he’s a little bit fidgety and can be more pedantic or anxious, so positive outlets for anxiety are great for relationships. Another key right now is going to new places, short-distance travel, and knowing when you need to get away from it all. Long-distance and internet-based relationships are given a boost by this particular transit, although it’s not necessarily emotionally deep.
Themes for a Virgo Man this October 2024…
This is a great month for dealing with priorities—both emotional and financial—and injecting honesty and meaning into the relationship. It’s also an important time to be discreet and deal with private matters; you don’t want to do anything that increases his anxiety levels because sometimes he can become a little obsessive. He’s definitely working hard right now, so times of escapism and release are very important.
Communication can be improved, but so can tenderness and that important intimacy between you. When you get the timing right, everything just falls into place.
Magic Motto: “Know yourself, know him, and live authentically.”
Magic Text: “Let honesty and empathy guide our journey, and let fantasy and warmth keep us close in a tantric rhythm.”
Do
The moon waxes from the 2nd to the 17th of the month and this two-week period is perfect for new activities, dating, relationship goals and starting any new projects. After the 17th, you have to capitalize on what you have now achieved, reflect and take a grounded, more than a dynamic response.
A great time for wedding and engagement. A time for him to get business advice and new information from others. A good time to hear opposing points of view.
Avoid
This isn’t the best waxing period for spiritual development and meditation or holistic goals. He should steer away from idealism and fantasy and stay pragmatic and rational.
Facts and evidence are important and he shouldn’t be swayed by emotions or vague feelings. His dreams can be more vivid yet disturbing. New business ventures involving music and theatre may not be successful.
It’s not an ideal waxing phase for brand new activities especially sporting. Competitive and daring ventures that need a great deal of courage are not favored. This isn’t the best period for a brand new diet or exercise routine.
He should avoid any conflict situations during the waxing phase, it’s important to be diplomatic rather than confrontational. Not a great time for him dealing with bureaucracy or large corporations or government departments.
This is a not good month for large-scale group activities or for having a lot to do with friends or your social circle. It’s also a time when he should be more cautious about his use of social media. This is not a good time for friends with benefits relationships.
Joining new groups and associations for pleasure, work or political reasons is not favored. Major career moves and new leadership roles are not favoured. Not a great time for job interviews.
October 2024 Horoscope for a Virgo Man (week by week)
Week 1: Sensation and Sassiness
The New Moon in Libra conjunct Mercury is an important new moon, particularly for Virgo, as it is a sign ruled by Mercury. Therefore, it favors things that are novel, exciting, and varied.
On the other hand, it can increase Virgo Man’s restless curiosity, making him eager to seek information and get to the bottom of things. In that way, it’s really a good time for any fact-finding missions or productive discussions.
There’s also a grand water trine between Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Cancer, and Saturn in Pisces, which is all about romance and your journey as a couple. There’s a sense of meaning and a little bit of luck; this luck is connected to breakthroughs in communication and cooperation.
Week 2: Stand by your man
The Sun in Libra trine Jupiter in Gemini is a great time for new income streams, possibilities to impress those in power, and ways to win new clients. So it’s important for him not to disregard brand new opportunities within his career. Mars in Cancer sextile Uranus in Taurus means it’s also time to think big, so what you don’t want to do in a relationship is be too distracted by day-to-day issues.
Focus on the great things that are happening and try to stay on track without being impatient. In fact, impatience for him can ruin things right now because he tends to get negative if things aren’t moving fast enough, whether in projects or his career. Encourage patience and be a good friend, mate, and comrade—someone who he feels is in his corner and shares his interests.
Week 3: Too shy shy hush hush
The Sun in Libra square Pluto and Venus in Scorpio trine Neptune means this is a potentially sexy week where there’s an opportunity for affection, romance, and some meaningful changes to the way you relate sexually.
This is a wonderful time to address your sex life, or if you’ve just been dating, to really try new things and establish a great sexual rhythm. And well, if you haven’t been doing it for a while, it’s like riding a bicycle—you don’t forget how to do it. So put it back on the agenda, add some spice, and make sure it’s part of the way you relax and unwind.
Week 4: Serious love business
Venus in Sagittarius square Saturn in Pisces is certainly a time when commitment is tested. In fact, fidelity, commitment, and seriousness about the relationship are all quite important right now.
This is a time when you may have to demonstrate your ability to compromise, go the extra mile, be more patient, and invest in the relationship. So this is maybe not the greatest time to say you want more space or more freedom because that sends the wrong message.
Instead, you really want to convey that this relationship is central to your life, it’s really important, and whatever needs doing, you’re willing to work hard at it. Mars in Cancer sextile Uranus in Taurus also indicates that it’s important for both of you to see the long-term picture and envision a future together, which can be a challenge for some new relationships.
Summary
This is an important time for relationships, and it’s key to focus on values, priorities, and money, and to see the relationship’s potential and make bold decisions.
It’s also a time for empathy when he is a little bit ritualistic and maybe even suspicious, as it’s also a phase when you need to show a steady hand in the relationship. So steady the ship, be serious, and ensure your relationship is a safe space going forward.
Make your Virgo man OBSESSED…
Have you ever fantasized about being that irresistible woman in Netflix shows…
The one the leading man just CAN’T stop thinking about?
The sexy, affectionate protagonist would do anything for this woman…
He will go to extremes to get her attention and make her happy.
Now, let’s say the star of this show is your Virgo man…
And you are the filler character who is secretly in love with this gorgeous man…
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Why is that?
Because you don’t have that “wow factor” that the irresistible girl he’s in love with has.
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Challenges…
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Sending you much love,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
