Wondering what will keep you on the mind of a Virgo guy? What would make him obsess over you? Luckily, it’s not too hard to make this happen, as he’s the type of man who does overthink everything, especially when he likes someone! Here’s how to get him under your spell:
Thinking of your Virgo man constantly? Are you looking to wrap him around your little finger? Or do you just want to know what makes him crave you in the same way you crave him?
Whatever your reasons are for wondering, there are definitely a few qualities about you that will make him want you that much more. Qualities that will make him unable to stop thinking about you!
Virgo men can be extremely picky and fussy when it comes to their relationships. So, although it’s not hard to get him to obsess because he’s so analytical, he does have very specific standards with the women he chooses.
And of course, it helps to know exactly what these standards are, so that you can be the one that’s on his mind 24/7. Here are seven things that make him completely obsessed over you:
7 Things That Make A Virgo Man Obsess Over You
1. A Well Put Together Woman
Virgo men are the type of guys who love a well-groomed lady. At least, out in public – in private, he prefers you wild and crazy!
So, go ahead and dress nicely, put on some makeup, get your nails done, and tend to your hairstyle! However, he hates an overdone woman, so don’t pile the jewelry and perfume on, but instead, have a high quality, subtle style that he can notice when he’s with you – and he will notice, trust me!
When you’re well put together, it shows that you can take care of yourself, that you care about your health and wellbeing, which is important to him too. When you part ways after a date, he’ll be left with a lingering scent, a memory of you looking gorgeous and groomed, and he’ll want more!
2. Great Conversations With You
Although he’s an earth sign, and therefore primary sensual and tactile, Virgo men are the only earth sign that’s also got some affiliation with the element of air – which rules the mind, intellect, and communication.
Hence, most Virgo guys really enjoy a titillating chat, and deeply appreciate a woman who can hold her own in a conversation. A woman who’s logical, perceptive, wise, and funny. A woman who can understand his sharp jokes, and has some to share of her own!
A sharp verbal repertoire, keen ear for current events, and understanding of intellectual topics will practically having him banging your door down to see you. There’s nothing that will make him obsess over you so much as your mind, even more than your body!
So, ladies, brush up and out your best mental foot forward – it will be worth it!
3. Your Attention To Detail
Virgo men have a serious eye for detail! They notice absolutely everything, so when you yourself pay attention to details, he’ll notice! What does that mean, practically speaking?
Well, it means that you notice something he’s wearing, something subtle. Or that you pick something up in what he’s saying, something that would easily be missed by someone not truly listening.
He may appreciate that you think about a restaurant that caters only organic foods (which he’ll love!), or if you cook a meal where you remember his allergy to peppers, for example. It’s things like this that make him completely obsess over you!
If you’re looking for something simpler, maybe your outfit has something about it that’s detailed and precise, like a pretty, delicate pattern, or a piece of jewelry that’s crafted perfectly. Whatever it is, he’ll remember it and think about it – often!
4. A Strong Physical Connection With You
Another quality that will make him totally gaga over you is a powerful physical connection. After all, he is an earth sign, and a man! He loves to feel, touch, taste, and smell, and he can be quite wild and primal behind closed doors (even if he appears shy out in public!).
Strong chemistry will definitely having him lying awake at night thinking if you, and even better is if you can hold out a little at first, just to tantalize him and have him want you even more!
Of course, you can take things at your own pace, and if you’d like to indulge in the chemistry right way, that shouldn’t do any harm at all! But it can be nice to draw the tension out just a little and get him really hungry for more!
5. If You’re Successful
As an earth sign, Virgo men tend to be extremely hardworking, and many do like to be in the role of the provider, caring for their partners.
However, he can’t resist a woman with a career of her own, a woman who works hard and is self-made. It’s a very sexy quality, and one that is usually guaranteed to have him completely obsessed over you!
You don’t have to be successful necessarily (if that’s not your thing), but it can be nice to have just one more quality that makes him think of you constantly and want to have you in his life.
6. Wanting To Help You
This one may sound strange, but the truth is, the love language of the Virgo man is service. That is, helping you in practical, real ways. Getting your car washed for you, sorting your admin out and so on.
A Virgo man becomes obsessed with a woman who needs his help in this way, whether you ask for it or not. A woman whose problems he can solve for her. He loves fixing, and if he sees that you have some “projects” he can take on, well, it’s like a moth to a flame!
Be sure to drum up some of these for him so that both of you can benefit. There’s nothing that he likes more than being really useful in your life.
Read next: 6 Things To Physically Attract a Virgo Man
7. The Early Stages Of Uncertainty
If you really want to know what makes a Virgo man obsessed with you, you don’t have to do anything but sit back and let time do its thing.
The beginning of a relationship is usually an extremely stressful time for the typical Virgo man, a time where he feels out of control and quite anxious.
He’ll likely be more engrossed with you and the relationship than most other men are at this stage, although you may not always see it. This early uncertainty in a new relationship really has him thinking of you constantly and of where the relationship is going.
In conclusion, Virgo men are, in their personality types, naturally obsessive. It’s not hard to get them to obsess even more, so with some careful grooming of your looks, attention to detail, excellent conversation, and asking him to solve a few problems, you should have him totally obsessed with you!
And, if you’d like to know more about how these complex men tick, check out my Virgo Man Secrets Blog right here.
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,