Curious about what it’s like to date a Virgo guy? These earth signs can be sensual, serious and smart, but they might be a mystery at first! Here’s how to explore what he’s like when it comes to love and romance, and what you can expect –
Dating is always a thrill, but let’s admit it – it can also be scary! The fear of the unknown can sometimes be overwhelming, and it’s great to have a tool like Astrology to give us a guiding light and a boost to help things go the way that we want them to!
So, when it comes to the Virgo men, what can we expect? What’s his Love Language, what does he want, and what are some of his dreams, hopes and pet peeves? He can be a closed book at times. This is a sign known to be a little detached and highly analytical – a thinker.
However, it takes a while to get to know who he really is, especially in the dating phase. But, when you have the knowledge of Astrology as your fingertips, you can surprise him by seeming to anticipate and know just what he’s like!
So, here is what you need to know about dating a Virgo man:
7 Things To Know About Dating A Virgo Man
1. His Love Language Is Service
Heard of Love Languages? Developed by a man called Gary Chapman, it’s all about how you particularly express and receive love when it comes to your relationships. The Virgo man love language is service.
This means that showing you love is him buying you a healthy smoothie, or making sure your car gets washed for you. It’s when he loads the dishwasher, makes sure the floor is clean and that your accounts are up to date.
This may sound boring to some people, but it can be a sweet way to show you he really cares. Make sure you take note of when he does these things, and appreciate him! He loves feeling like he’s useful and cherished for his practical care of you.
2. He’s Not Particularly Affectionate Or Romantic
Because his Love Language is usually service, he’s not usually the most physically affectionate. Virgo men are not the types to put on any public display of mushiness, so if you are the type of girl that thrives on that, it may be a good idea to adjust your expectations!
He’s also not all that romantic, so it’s possible that you feel slightly left out in the cold at times, lacking the roses-and-chocolate type of relationship.
This doesn’t mean he doesn’t love or care for you. He’s just timid, private and reserved. Besides, he more than makes up for it behind closed doors! And maybe you can be the one to provide the romance in his lie, you never know!
3. He’s A Worrier
One thing you need to know about dating a Virgo man is that he’s a major worrier. He is always thinking about every possible outcome of everything – and usually trying to control that outcome. He can be terribly analytical, even if you don’t always see it.
He will benefit hugely from having a partner that can help alleviate some of his stressors, rather than join him in his stress-party. Soothing him, calming him, and teaching home to let things go will make him very grateful to have you around!
Try not to get too caught up in his drama – recognize that he has a higher level of anxiety than most, an than his planning nature can get in the way of living his best life – it’s not because he’s trying to be controlling, trust me on this!
4. He Can Be Critical & Fussy
Virgo men are born critics. They have very high standards, and there’s nothing that ever misses their keen eye. This can sound quite negative, even if they’re just saying how things are, from a rational and objective point of view.
However, if you ever want someone to tell you the truth and give you excellent advice, this is your guy! He’s super intelligent and smart, and has a witty, clever way of delivering his criticisms – as long as you are on the right side of them!
He can be critical of you, so don’t take it personally. It’s seldom malicious. But it could wear you down, so let him know when he’s doing it, so that he can moderate himself just a little! He’s also a fusspot, so be aware that he likes things neat and tidy. Chaos just stresses him out!
5. His Health And Work Are Important To Him
When you date a Virgo guy, you’ll soon realize how important his health and work are to him. You’ll never need to worry about this man slacking off and doing nothing – he’s the type that, once he finds his purpose, he soars!
The same goes for his health, usually. He likes a good routine, and has a sensitive stomach, so often loves his raw diets and detoxes! He likes to live a clean life as much as possible, so between work and his lifestyle, he really keeps it tidy.
Hopefully, this will inspire you to do just the same, and together, you can look and feel your best and most productive!
6. He Is Looking For Commitment
As an earth sign, Virgo men are usually looking for commitment. They like to have a relationship that feel stable and secure, and has a safe rhythm to it. In fact, he can often be stressed when dating, because he generally doesn’t like all the uncertainty!
This is very lucky for you, if you’re looking for the same thing. Don’t be scared of taking that next step, or of talking about it. These men are unlike others and don’t often feel that commitment pressure that many other men do. He wants the same thing you do – he’s on your team!
Read next: 8 Secret Ways A Virgo Man Expresses His Love
7. He Has A Heart Of Gold
One thing you will learn about this sensitive and timid sign is that he has a heart of absolute pure gold. This is a kind man, and who could want anything more than kindness? Well, sure there is more, but it’s definitely top of the list for most of us ladies!
He will go out of his way to help you, support you and do things for you. He doesn’t mind doing the mucky things like taking out the trash and working on the garden, and enjoys making sure the books are balanced.
He often is the type to actively help the less advantaged, by volunteering, or offering food or money to those in need.
This is a good man, ladies, and despite his tendency to worry, nit-pick, crisis and fuss, he is one of the best you can get! He wants to build a life with you and have that special feeling of security and safety with his chosen person.
So, if you would like to know more about how to capture and keep his heart, check out my Virgo man secrets book right here: Virgo Man Secrets.
And let me know what you love the most about your Virgo man in the comments, I love to hear from you!
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,