I’m here to discuss the complex subject of how to tell if your Virgo man still has feelings for you.
Keep in mind that a Virgo man is not one to openly express his feelings. He isn’t comfortable with vulnerability, and he does not take well to rejection or hurt.
Virgo is a complicated sign—his shadow side is everything that opposes him, and these are traits he can take on when life is not going his way.
When he does show warmth and feelings, you need to really appreciate it, as it does not come easy to this earth soul that likes to hide away.
Virgo falls under the sixth house in Astrology, and that is all about work and health. These are two main components to a Virgo’s life that must be in check before he can express his love.
Remember that Astrology is more than your daily horoscope. It really digs deep and lets you discover so much about one’s personality.
Even in Shakespeare’s days, Astrology was prominent, and Romeo and Juliet were described as “star-crossed lovers” because that’s where our destinies all lie—within the stars.
So, let’s explore whether or not your Virgo man still has feelings for you…
5 Signs Your Virgo Man Has Feelings for You
1. He Really Listens to You
Virgo is a very practical sign, and he is most comfortable with routine and order. He has things to do, and he wants to do them NOW.
He has objectives that need to be met at the end of the day, but if he takes the time to actually listen to you and your problems, it’s an obvious sign that he still has feelings for you.
Often, while listening, he will come close to you and his eyes will pierce your soul, and he may even touch you while you are speaking to him—then you know you still have him hooked.
The thing is, your Virgo man is not just going to listen to your problems. He is going to try and fix them for you.
He will give words of encouragement, too. He may even come back to you with a whiteboard and a marker to outline your goals and how to achieve them!
If you are not feeling well, he’ll try to fix you, so don’t be surprised if he knocks on the door with twenty different bottles of natural remedies and cough syrup if you tell him you are sick.
If he is listening, really listening to you, he takes you seriously. These are all signs that he still loves you.
2. He Gets a Little Green
Now, when I say green, I’m talking about the jealous monster that lurks within many of us. However, Virgo can be extremely embarrassed of being jealous, as it is not a trait he admires in anyone, including himself.
Virgo jealousy is different from, for example, (the king of jealousy) Scorpio. If a Scorpio is jealous, he can take revenge and attack and cause a whole lot of damage.
If a Virgo man gets jealous when other men stare at you, it’s a definite sign that he still has feelings for you, as he wants to protect you.
Don’t be surprised if he takes his jacket off and covers you—it’s an honest show of love. If he didn’t still have feelings for you, he wouldn’t care who looks at you.
3. He’s Communicating
Virgo and Gemini are both ruled by Mercury. How does this translate? Well, for Geminis, communication is everything, and they often won’t keep quiet. A lot goes on in their heads that always needs to be expressed.
Virgo, on the other hand, is not so obvious. He will not have hundreds of friends that he must communicate with on a daily basis, but he communicates silently in his own time and his own ways.
If a Virgo man still has feelings for you, he is going to stay in steady contact. It won’t be so often that it becomes a nuisance, but he’ll text you each morning and evening, or maybe call during his lunch break.
He will also send you emails, voice messages, and may even write sweet things on actual notes that he may give you when he sees you. Communication is not always natural for him, and if he’s giving it to you, you can be sure he still cares for you.
4. He Takes His Time in the Bedroom
A Virgo man takes the act of making love quite seriously. If you both get physical and you don’t feel connected to him, that’s not a good sign.
A Virgo man who still has feelings for you will take his time when it comes to making love to you.
He will stare into your eyes, kiss your body all over, and make you feel like a goddess. He will want to focus on your pleasure.
He will most likely want to make love frequently, and he’ll make it a priority in his schedule. His bedroom will be neat and perfect, candles will be lit, and there may even be rose petals on the bed.
A Virgo man who doesn’t love you and just wants sex won’t care where or how he has sex with you or what the surroundings there may be.
If he’s making your intimate time special, his feelings are as strong as ever.
5. He Nurtures You
In Greek mythology, Virgo is mostly linked to Dike, the goddess of justice, and Persephone, daughter of Demeter, goddess of the harvest.
Persephone is loved by Demeter dearly but eventually gets abducted by Hades, god of the underworld, who is besotted with her and eventually marries her (the perfect Virgo/Scorpio couple if there ever was one!) allowing her to be with her mother six months of the year.
In both instances, Persephone is nurtured, loved, and cared for, and so is Virgo—nurturer to those that he loves and cares for dearly. But he will show that side of himself ONLY if he truly has feelings for you. After all, we’re not talking about the ultimate nurturer, Cancer, here!
If you find that your Virgo man cooks for you or cleans without being asked just because he sees you have had a rough day and wants to help, know that he really still adores you.
If your Virgo man gives you massages, runs the bath for you, hugs you a lot, and generally gives you a ton of affection, he truly still has feelings for you.
Want to find out if you and your Virgo are a good match? Take my fun compatibility quiz here!
Have you ever been uncertain how a Virgo man feels about you? I’d love to hear your experiences in the comments!
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