When peace-loving Virgo man and Libra woman get involved, the two can make each other uncomfortable but in ways that usually lead to growth for both.
In a working combination of their different strengths, these two signs can agree to disagree leading to a union that is extremely transformational.
Here is everything you need to know on how compatible are Virgo man and Libra woman, and how your planets work together.
Chemistry
Air signs like Libra represent language, intellect, communication, and social relationships. Earth signs like Virgo are all about practicality, stability, materialism, and realism. When Virgo and Libra find a way to bring out the best in other you can enjoy a powerful and productive bond together.
Libra is a cardinal sign and this makes you enterprising, ambitious and sometimes domineering. Luckily Virgo is a mutable sign which makes a Virgo man adaptable and imaginative.
Although Virgos are known for being overly critical, they are good at molding around the spirit and needs of their partner.
So, if you have a Virgo man at your side, he is likely to let you take the lead and support you tirelessly in everything you do.
The biggest challenge you face is getting this relationship started. Both Libra Woman and Virgo man avoid situations that could cause pain and you both tend to appear cool or even cold even when you really like someone.
If one of you doesn’t take the plunge, you may never connect at all, as you will both assume the other is not interested.
Be brave and wear your heart on your sleeve and then be patient, as a Virgo man only jumps in when he is completely sure that he is welcome and wanted.
Libra Woman
A Libra woman loves the company and can talk endlessly with old friends and new acquaintances. You are open to exploring varied experiences and you are curious about thoughts on any subject and you are much less judgmental than a Virgo man can be.
Your ruling planet is Venus, the flirtatious goddess of love and beauty but you are not easily fooled by love. In fact, you love the idea of love but getting your hands dirty with uncontrolled passion makes you queasy.
You tend to believe the best of others, and you can teach a Virgo man to be less cynical and critical. He, in turn, can show you how to apply your ideas to the material world, and between you there is potential for a productive relationship that can last to the grave.
But you will have to step outside your comfort zone to get it started and tell the Virgo man, in plain and simple terms, exactly how you feel.
Virgo Man
A Virgo man loves to hear things as they are, without frills or fancies so if you have something to tell him, just spit out the truth, as calmly and clearly as you can. Not only will he listen, but he will appreciate your honesty.
If you explode with anger or try to manipulate him, he won’t appreciate it at all, in fact, he’ll run away as fast as he can.
Virgo men can be strange moody creatures who are highly strung and prone to doodling, fidgeting or strange physical manifestations of discomfort.
They often are not aware of how they affect others, and because they love the rational and logical thought, they don’t put much effort into guessing.
You need to tell them what bothers you, as they don’t take hints.
He will love the beauty, elegance, and social activity you bring into his world but make sure you are very clear when you talk to him.
Trust and communication are essential for a Virgo man to unleash his passionate side, and once he does, there is no stopping him.
What Works
Both of you thrive in an elegant, intellectually inspired relationship that is balanced, equal and mutually respectful. Libra loves ideas, and order which is equally important to Virgo who also loves the same kind of beauty and enduring quality that appeals to Libra.
The emotional maturity of a union between Virgo man and Libra woman is what other couples strive for, especially if you establish strong ground rules early on.
Neither of you gets much pleasure from theatrical or emotional upheaval so conflicts that do arise can be settled with civil and rational exchanges.
What to Watch for
The differences between Virgo man and Libra woman are mostly in style. A Libra woman is a social butterfly while a Virgo man loves solitude and is happiest alone.
While Libra sees value in most viewpoints Virgo can be quite intolerant of sloppy thinking. Together you can be a dream-team if you are aware of how each has strengths the other lacks.
Neither of you likes tantrums or conflict which is great, but the danger is that – for the sake of peace – you will avoid issues that need to be aired. The same goes for anger, which both of you tend to repress until it affects you negatively, and passion too, which you tend to avoid expressing as you feel silly and exposed.
Try to feel comfortable enough to lose control now and then, as letting off steam is what you both need.
The Score
When Virgo and Libra form a bond it can be an infinite poem of balance and harmony because both signs thrive on cooperation and synthesis.
As long as there is respect for the different approaches you have to the life, you know that deep down you see things the same way, and there is immense potential for this stimulating relationship to bring out the best in both of you.
Just make time for airing your grievances and allow passion to make a fool of you now and then, or your relationship could become stale and suffocating.
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Your friend and Astrologer,
Anna Kovach
