Virgo guys get a lot of criticism for being fussy, flaw-finding partners. However, if you know one, you’ll find that they have hearts of pure gold! This is a man who will make any sacrifice for you—and he’s looking for something real and lasting. What are some of the other reasons why we fall in love with a Virgo man?
Here’s a little secret I’ve learned in my years as a relationship astrologer: even though the Virgo guy seems shy and reserved on the outside, this is one of the sexiest signs in the Zodiac.
Part of the Virgo man’s charms lies in the fact that he’s so sweet and seemingly timid. However, Virgo men are often very masculine and born providers. They will go out of their way to show you how much they love you through little (and large!) acts of service.
A Virgo man is also the type to be humble—such a refreshing change if you’ve dated guys who are arrogant, right? This is one guy not ruled by his ego and the need to prove himself.
All he needs in return is a woman who is as willing as he is, who supports him, who helps him to relax, and who is reliable and committed.
Here are some of the biggest reasons why we fall so hard for the Virgo man…
8 Reasons Why Women Fall For Virgo Men
1. He’s Got a Heart of Gold
Despite being labeled as the most critical sign in the Zodiac, Virgo men actually have hearts of pure gold. Their critical side comes from a desire to help you—even if it feels like the opposite sometimes!
This guy will go out of his way to help someone in need in a practical, down to earth way. He may give some of his earnings to a charity, sponsor a child, or spend his career being useful in some way to the world (hint: these men are very often doctors or teachers).
What woman doesn’t love a kind-hearted man?
2. He’s Looking for Commitment
Virgo is an earth sign, which means that these men crave security, stability, and commitment. In a world where modern dating often involves playing the field and having your heart broken, commitment is a rare commodity!
Knowing that your Virgo sweetheart is looking for long-lasting love, the same as you, is vastly reassuring! You can work together to build a stable, solid, and strong bond that will last a lifetime!
Plus, you never have to worry about whether or not you are “exclusive.” A Virgo guy will want that straight off the bat!
3. He’s Neat and Tidy
Virgo men are known for their borderline-compulsive need for cleanliness. This is a guy that might be more of a neat-freak than you and will likely make the bed each and every morning.
He knows that washing goes inside the basket and not next to it, and that dishes get packed in the dishwasher. No hairy drains for you with this guy!
He will have an area where there’s chaos, though. This may be a secret cupboard, a drawer, or the garage. This is his one space where he can relax his standards!
And although it sounds a little boring, there’s something to be said for cleanliness and order. This will minimize so much drama during your relationship over the long term.
4. He’s Helpful
You know the guy that helps little old women cross the road? That’s a Virgo man. The guy who makes sandwiches for the needy? That’s him.
But the best thing about this quality is that the Virgo man helps you, too. He helps around the house, he helps you run errands, he helps you with your budget. He happily takes out the trash, he offers to help you with a work problem, and he’s always patiently on hand if you need him.
A Virgo man feels the best when he can help and be useful. You’re actually doing him a favor when you ask for his assistance because you give him a sense of purpose. This is a win-win situation for everyone.
5. He Thinks the World of You
Virgo men are more self-critical than any other sign. They can be extremely hard on themselves, and they tend to put you on a pedestal. But as long as you don’t feel pressured to be perfect, that adoration can make you feel like a million bucks!
It’s a strange paradox because the can be hypercritical of you, but that’s only because they know you’re capable of so much. Most of the time, they think you are just about perfect!
A Virgo man will praise all your efforts and think you are the cleverest and most beautiful woman in the world. He will regularly tell you so, even if he follows it with constructive criticism.
Learn to love this part of him, and try see where he’s coming from.
6. He’s Extremely Smart
Virgo is a sign ruled by the communication planet, Mercury, which is also the planet of intelligence. Basically, this guy is usually the smartest one in the room. He will endlessly entertain and enrich you with his wit, smarts, and insights. In fact, you may be quite spellbound by his way of communicating.
Virgo men have loads of knowledge to share, and they love talking and learning. They’re often studying and can be quite nerdy! This is just another reason to find a huge space in your heart for this ultra-lovable sign.
7. He Always Has Great Advice
Got a thorny problem? Take it to a Virgo man.
He’s one of the most practical, down-to-earth, and level-headed signs out there. He also loves solving a problem, especially for you.
How can you resist a guy who’s willing to sit with you, talk it out, and find workable solutions?
Caveat: He’s not Mr. Empathy, so be prepared for a matter-of-fact approach! He won’t always give you a hug or acknowledge your feelings, so let your girlfriends take on that role.
8. He’s a Hard Worker
Virgo men often have truly admirable work ethic and determination. And he doesn’t do it for the glory, fame or money—he does it for the satisfaction of a job well done!
Knowing that you have a guy who is never going to slack off, get lazy, or depend on you to provide is a real blessing—and a good reason to fall head over heels! Together, you can work towards success and security.
And if you’re the type of girl who wants to stay at home, then don’t worry—he will happily provide! Lucky you!
These are my top eight reasons why we fall for Virgo men! Do you have any tips or insights on why we love these guys so much? I love learning from my readers! Leave your (anonymous) insights in the comments below!
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Your friend and relationship astrologer,