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3 Questions You NEED to Ask When a Virgo Man Sends Mixed Signals

Virgo is a mutable sign—and that means your man can be hard to read because his mind is always changing. If you’re not sure what’s going on in your Virgo guy’s mind, ask these questions to get the answers you need!

Anna here again, and I’m here to discuss with you the 3 questions to ask yourselves when Virgo Men send mixed signals. 

It’s important to remember that Virgo can be a complicated sign. Remember, it is ruled by the planet Mercury, and Mercury is all about the mind and communication.

Virgo also happens to be a mutable sign, which means it is very fluid and can change, so you don’t always know what to expect. Keep in mind though, that Virgo is the most “rigid” of all the other mutable signs: Pisces, Gemini and Sagittarius, and that has to do with the fact that it’s an Earth sign. 

Before we start, remember that Astrology is not just an interesting topic but an actual science used by the ancient Greeks, Romans, Egyptians and Babylonians to predict the future. They literally relied on the heavenly bodies to know what was to come. 

Nostradamus was one of the greatest fortune tellers of all time and practiced Astrology too!

So, here are the questions you should ask when a Virgo man sends mixed signals!

3 Questions You Need To Ask When A Virgo Man Sends Mix Signals

1. An important answer to know…

Perhaps you and your Virgo man have been dating for a few months and things were going really well, and suddenly he has vanished.

There are no phone calls, no more messages and suddenly there is an empty pit in your stomach full of butterflies. 

What you’re probably asking yourself:

“Does he still love me?”

“Is he still attracted to me?”

“Has he found someone else”

It all depends on the circumstances. If things were going well, the most likely thing that has happened is that an urgent work assignment has come up, and that is the main focus of his attention right now.

Not to worry though, as soon as his work duties are over, he’ll most probably come around knocking with a bunch of flowers and will apologize for not contacting you.

However, if things were not going so well in the relationship, and he has suddenly performed a disappearing act, there’s things that you need to ask both yourself and him:

“Does this person still love me?”

“Did I do something wrong, and how can I fix it?”

Virgo men need time if there is a problem within the relationship, and this period of “abandonment” can take up to 2 weeks, before he contacts you again.

If he doesn’t, you need to take the lead and contact him with gentle messages such as:

“Hi, I haven’t heard from you in a while, are you ok?”

“Wow, I haven’t heard from you in so long, are you feeling alright?”

“Hi, where have you been? I’ve missed you.”

“Hey, I haven’t heard from you for a while, did I do something wrong? If so, I’m sorry. How can I fix it?”

These questions will get answers, and hopefully they will be positive ones. If not, try and fix the relationship, you just need to be gentle around Virgo men as they can be really sensitive.

2. This one may sting a bit…

So, you may be in the situation where your Virgo boyfriend just criticizes you. No matter what you do, everything is somehow wrong. 

 You need to ask yourself the following questions:

“Am I really doing things so wrong, or is he being extra critical?”

“Is he right? Should I pay attention to what he is saying.”

Perhaps he constantly tells you you’re putting on weight (which often leads to more weight gain through comfort eating).

Maybe he is just looking out for your health and doesn’t know how to be nice about it.

Maybe he criticizes your work, and calls you lazy. This one is actually unfair because he has incredibly high standards of work performance most people can’t reach.

These are the questions you need to ask him and things you need to address with him:


“(His name), I know that it may not look like I do a lot, but my work means a lot to me, and I really try my best. So please can you stop criticizing me?” 

That should put your Virgo man in his place and keep him quiet for a while.


“(His name), you know all those gorgeous meals I prepare for you that you love eating? Well, they taste so good because cooking is my favorite thing in the whole world. So, can you lay off my weight, and how about twice a week we eat just healthy alternatives?”

This should make him think twice before he criticizes your beautiful curves or:

“(His name), I know I have been putting on weight lately, but I’ve decided to go walking (or any other exercise) for 30 minutes a day to feel better about myself. Please stop calling me fat, it really hurts my feelings.”

Read next: 3 Fun Ways to Keep a Virgo Man Interested When You Are Kept Apart

3. He’s just not getting physical…

In the beginning of your relationship, things were hot and heavy. You couldn’t keep your hands off each other, and making love felt like a dream. Now he’s cold and doesn’t even want to kiss anymore.

You may be asking yourself:

“Is he not attracted to me anymore?”

“Is he seeing someone else?”

First and foremost, you need to remember that out of all the zodiac signs, Virgo is the one sign that respects their bodies the most and is the least promiscuous.

This man is not going to just sleep with another woman just because you had a fight. The guilt would kill him, especially if he is in love with you.

Questions you may want to ask him are:

“Hunny, do you still find me attractive? We haven’t had sex for a month. Is something wrong.”

Or you can even take the initiative and just say,

“Wow hunny, you’re looking so good, I want you so much!”

Maybe you try and kiss him out of the blue and he pushes you away. Then you need to think about things.

Yes, one of the reasons could be that he is not attracted to you as much physically. He is a Virgo and looks are very important to him. Not in the way you may be thinking, as in having to look like Kim Kardashian, but you need to maintain yourself.

You also need to be straight with him and say something like:

“(His name), we haven’t had sex in so long. What is the reason. Please can you explain why you don’t want to touch me anymore?”

To shed light on this situation, perhaps in a positive way, he will just tell you that he’s got so much on his mind (Virgos do suffer with anxiety) that he hasn’t felt sexual for a while.

Take things slowly, have a nice meal together, watch a comedy together and laugh. Have a good time and it will remind him why he loves you so much! Then take him to the shower and proceed from there…

Yes, Virgo can be a complicated sign, and their mixed signals can really confuse you, but what’s important to remember with a Virgo is to always have patience and the truth of his actions (and mixed signals) will come out.

You just need to ask the right questions!

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