How To Ask A Virgo Man Out (11 Interesting Tips)

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Perhaps you have recently met a Virgo man, and you want to ask him out on a date but you don’t know how to go about it. Here are my best tips.

I have to say, Virgo men are a little puzzling, sometimes even I struggle to figure them out. They are definitely a little neurotic, but this is also what I love about them so much. However, it isn’t always so straightforward figuring out how to ask a Virgo man out.

You might not even realize if a Virgo man is into you or not as he can be a little confusing with the signals he makes. One day he is super into you, and then the next you might be scratching your head thinking, “What was that?”. And then you might be wondering why he is taking so long to ask you out, is it perhaps because he is waiting for you to make the move?

So how long does it take for a Virgo man to ask you out? If I were you I would be quite patient, this is not a man you want to push or put under pressure. He takes his time, slowly weighing up all of his options. But, more on that later.

If this sounds like what you need to learn, then I will share with you all my tips and tricks to get a Virgo man to ask you out on a date. You might be surprised at how simple it is!

Will A Virgo Man Ask You Out? Or Should You Make The First Move?

You might have just met the cutest Virgo man who ticks all of your boxes, but he is taking SO long to ask you out! What could be the hold up?

Well, the truth is, Virgo men can be quite cautious when it comes to romance. But just because he is taking his time doesn’t mean he won’t ask you out, on the contrary, he is likely just waiting for the right opportunity. He wants to make sure he knows you well enough and feels comfortable before making a move. He is also just trying to gauge how you feel about him.

Nothing is worse for a Virgo man than making a mistake and misreading someone’s signals. It is important for him to be sure! So in short, a Virgo man will indeed ask you out, but he first needs to feel confident in knowing that it is actually going to go his way.

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7 Tips On How To Ask A Virgo Man Out

Go For A Classy Look

This is going to make your first impression of the Virgo man a great one since the Virgo likes a lady with a great sense of style and class. Here’s more on what a Virgo man likes and dislikes in a woman

Virgos are a reserved sign, and so they appreciate understated colors, demure looks, and traditional looks. Think Taylor Swift, Amal Clooney, or Kerry Washington for style references.

The Virgo man is meticulous in his own appearance, and he is attracted to the same quality in women. Some believe (me included) that Virgos have the best style in the zodiac!

They’ll really appreciate professional dress or at least a well-put-together casual look. Think “preppy” if you’re looking for a style that will have a Virgo man making eyes at you from day one!

Flex Your Intelligence

One thing about Virgo is that they love a smart girl! And it makes sense since they’re ruled by Mercury, the planet of intelligence. They themselves are some of the smartest cookies in the zodiac.

Their high intelligence means that they need their partner to meet them and challenge them mentally. They’ll be happy to participate in a little mental repartee with you.

Being ruled by the planet of writers, they also adore wordplay and wit. If you’re a girl who can partake in some great conversation, then the Virgo is going to be head over heels in no time.

So, brush up on your reading because these guys are going to expect someone who is well cultured!

Show Him How Conscientious You Are

It’s become a trend to come across as edgy, messy, and avant-garde. There’s nothing wrong with this, but I’ll tell you that a Virgo won’t appreciate any of these things in a partner!

He is going to be impressed by someone who knows how to restrain themselves when necessary and who takes care of necessities first and foremost. Responsibility is a huge turn-on for Virgo men!

I recommend flexing your organizing skills, keeping your thoughts put together as you speak about them, and keeping your language and grammar controlled.

This is all going to make Virgo say, “I could definitely see myself balancing a checkbook with this woman.” With a Virgo, this is a compliment of the highest order!

Be Thoughtful & Serious

Though I know a few silly Virgos, the bulk of them tread on the more serious side of life. They’re ruled by Mercury, which is analytical and fact-driven, and this rubs off on their life outlook.

They enjoy viewing life in a grounded, practical way. This is what keeps them one of the most successful and industrious signs of the Zodiac. 

As a result, life is often all work and no play with a Virgo. They want to improve and get better, and this is something they’re highly mindful of. 

So, save the stand-up routine for a Sagittarius or a Gemini, because it might just be lost on a Virgo. I recommend some conversation about work and home, or perhaps about literature since many Virgos enjoy books.

Let Him Help You

Virgos are probably most known for their amazing work ethic and passion to complete tasks set before them. Nothing makes a Virgo giddier than checking off things on their to-do lists. 

As a result, you may actually find that they want to help you complete your tasks as well! Their urge to help others is an amazing quality that is often not appreciated by others enough. Let’s hear a round of applause for Virgos!

They’ll be over the Moon if you are willing to let them assist you in doing chores, running errands, and general maintenance duties. The Virgo shows his affection and interest through acts of service! 

A good excuse would be that you have shelves that need installing, or a doggie door, or anything really! If you’ve been thinking about adding an installation or something similar to your home, ask Virgo to come and help. 

He’s good with his hands and it’s going to give you two chances to hang out and talk more. After seeing your (hopefully) neat and tidy home and getting to know you while he helped out, he is going to be in a prime position to ask you out on a date!

Show Confidence & Calmness

The Virgo man wants to see a woman who has her life in order or is at least someone who’s working on it. He wants to see a woman who has goals and while she’s working on it, has patience as well as optimism.

Usually, he is hard on himself and to have a woman around who can inspire him with her positive mind will make him feel very good about himself. Or at least get him to see a more optimistic view.

A Virgo man doesn’t like women who bring drama into his life. He’ll appreciate a woman who has a calm demeanor as he often displays. He’s an emotional storm on the inside but you’d never know it by how he carries himself.

Basically, he’d like the same thing from a partner. Being with a woman who can hold herself together and appear as though everything is alright or at least will be. This will give him more hope for the future.

Show Him Your Good Manners

A Virgo man wants a woman who respects her elders and speaks politely to those around her. Someone who generally knows how to act when she’s around other people – especially him.

Ask him nicely, thank him for the things that he does, and show him some appreciation for the help he gives you with anything. It’s polite and it will make him feel as though you do respect him.

The Virgo man will respect you as long as he feels that you are respecting him. If you aren’t respectful to him, he will either punish you with harsh words or he’ll break it off.

Be very careful and be ladylike around your Virgo guy if you intend on asking him out or having any type of future endeavor with him. He needs to see that you’re the type of woman he wants.

Read nextWhat A Virgo Man Wants In A Relationship

4 More Ways To Get A Virgo Man To Ask You Out

When it comes to Virgo men, they tend to follow a system that makes sense to them. They are very particular about the things they like in their life and they like it when things go according to the way they want.

Hey, you might even want to learn how to ask a Virgo man out yourself! But some of the ways to get a Virgo man to ask you out might look like this:

A Refined Lady

If you want to catch the attention of a Virgo man and increase your chances of him asking you out, go for a classy and sophisticated look. However, it isn’t all about appearances for the Virgo man, what you have to offer needs to go deeper than just the surface. Your whole vibe needs to feel refined and classic.

 When trying to get a Virgo man to ask you out on a date, it’s important to always put your best foot forward and be on your best behavior. Trust me, this is a man who carefully pays attention to the details. He doesn’t miss a beat!

Use Your Eyes To Flirt

Sometimes getting a man to pay attention to you is purely psychological. He needs to be able to see the desire in your eyes, and your peepers are definitely your best weapon, so don’t be afraid to use them. 

When you spend time around your Virgo man who holds your affections, don’t be afraid to bat your eyelashes and amp up the flirtation. How you use your eyes is open to interpretation and what feels most natural to you. 

Don’t force it or pretend to be someone or something you are not. Something as sassy as a wink, or simply a smile that reaches your eyes can suffice. Here’s more on how to flirt with a Virgo man through eye contact.

Go Deep In Your Conversations

Another tip to consider is to engage him in meaningful conversations. Virgo men are attracted to intelligence and enjoy deep discussions. Show your knowledge and wit by discussing interesting topics. 

This will not only capture his attention but also create a bond that neither of you can deny. The way to a Virgo man’s heart is definitely through his mind, he wants to connect on an intellectual level and a woman who can keep up with his smarts is definitely someone the Virgo man will want to ask out.

Appeal To His Senses

One thing you need to understand about the Virgo man is that he is an Earth sign, and Earth sign men are usually very sensual. They enjoy having their senses stimulated as they get to know a woman. 

One of the best ways to stand out in the mind of a Virgo man is to have a signature scent, you will want him to associate you with smelling good. 

This is a man who has great taste, and when you can subtly show off how refined and elegant you are in every aspect of your life, he is going to want to keep coming back for more and the perfect scent is just the right way to do this!

How Long Does It Take For A Virgo Man To Ask You Out?

One thing you really need to take note of when it comes to a Virgo man is that he is very careful and measured in his approach to dating. He WILL take his time if this is what feels right to him.

It is so important that you are patient and don’t try to rush him because this will only make him run the other way. If there is a spark and a connection between the two of you, then trust it! Don’t let your own fears and anxieties get in the way of you getting what you want. 

Embrace your feminine energy, lean back, and let him come to you. This is not something you should overthink. Yes, it will take a while for your Virgo man to warm up to you and to get to know you enough to feel comfortable to ask you out on a date. 

So if you have this knowledge in the back of your mind, you won’t need to force anything. Just allow it to happen and enjoy the process!

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With love!

Your friend and relationship astrologer,

Anna Kovach

About Author

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3 thoughts on “How To Ask A Virgo Man Out (11 Interesting Tips)

  1. Hello. Thanks for the tips!!

    I met a virgo through an online dating app (less than 2 weeks ago)
    We talk about going out someday, and he said we would be available in 12 days.

    Right now I’m not super confident in myself (just started going to the gym a little while ago and since the summer just started now, I plan to go to the beach and take some sun baths to get some tan, I feel preetier)

    So I said to him that I would be available for the meeting only in 1 month from now!

    How can I keep him interested in me until then or…. should I met him earlier even not feeling confident?

    He showed he was ready to be with me soon and I delayed it a lot!
    My fear is that he thinks I’m not interested or he don’t likes to wait that long for a first meeting and moves on and go out with other woman.

    Kindly appreciate any advice that you can give me 🙂

    p.s. I’m a Virgo woman!

    Love from Portugal

    1. Hi Andreia!

      You don’t have to be a super model to impress him. He prefers natural beauty anyway. He appreciates inner beauty even more so than outer beauty. I think you should be confident in the fact that he looks beyond the surface. He’s about who you are. Be casual and meet up with him sweetheart. Be yourself. If you would like some more tips, check out my books on Virgo Man Secrets!

      1. Thank you Anna ! I’ll go for it, I’m just scared because of old wounds. That’s something I’ve trying to overcome.
        I will!


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