So you’ve met a smoking hot Virgo man that you’d like to get to know better or even date, but you aren’t sure if he’s flirting with you or picking on you. Have you ever wondered how to flirt with a Virgo man?

Well, besides speaking, there are other ways to signal interest to a Virgo man you’re attracted to. And of all the parts, flirting with a Virgo man through eye contact takes the cake.

A Virgo man flirting style is smooth and charismatic. He enjoys the art of flirting and perhaps seems really friendly, but you aren’t sure if that’s how he is or if he’s digging into you. Nevertheless, one thing is certain: he is going to pay all his attention to you!

Anyhow, if you’re wondering how to reel a Virgo man in using eye contact, this article should be useful…

How Does A Virgo Man Flirt? All About Virgo Man Flirting Style

A Virgo man is an amazing companion. He is considered to be the most loyal sign of the zodiac. He may keep a distance when first meeting someone, but once his confidence is won, he is loyal and he cares.

Virgo men are often shy and introverted, and sometimes you cannot tell if they are actually flirting, but when he starts talking about the things you like and asking questions on your favorite topics, he is genuinely curious to hear your answers, and he could be flirting with you.

Virgo man flirting is something that happens often. Sharing each other’s hobbies will bring the both of you so much closer together due to the fact that at that stage in your relationship, even if it’s not romantic yet, he’s in it all the way. He may get confused or stumble over his words, but that is a clear sign he has a crush on you.

If a Virgo man wasn’t interested in you all that much, he really wouldn’t show you much attention. So, if a Virgo man starts taking notes on your interests and hobbies, you can be sure that he really likes you.

Flirting With A Virgo Man Through Eye Contact

Flirting with a Virgo man may not be as easy as it sounds. If you can manage to make it happen, though, go for it. He’s somewhat intuitive and can see who you truly are by looking into your eyes.

It’s said that a Virgo man has a stare that sees straight into your soul. He’ll also reveal how he feels about you this way as well. If you can learn the difference between “I like you, I want to sleep with you, or I love you“, you’ll be able to read him.

If you’re not yet dating the Virgo guy you like and want to let him know that you’re interested, you’ll give him a gaze that lets him know “Hi, I like you”. Be careful, though, because you could come off as a crazy stalker.

Giving off the “I’m creeping you” may be taken the wrong way, and this could cause him to take off to avoid you. All in all, keep your eyes sweet and endearing.

Assuming you did it right, he’ll come to you to have some conversation. If that happens, you’re golden! At that point, he’ll understand that you find him attractive and want to know him more.

You may also want to read: Will A Virgo Man Reach Out First? Find Out Here

Here’s How To Flirt With A Virgo Man Effectively

Hang Out Around Where He Normally Is

This doesn’t mean you should stalk him and keep showing up in all his favorite places. Then you’ll just be super creepy, and he’ll avoid you at all costs. However, you could occasionally show up at his favorite restaurant, coffee shop, etc.

He may see this as synchronicity and want to find out why you’re popping up. It’ll make him curious enough to possibly try to strike up a conversation with him. If he does, make it a good one!

Virgo men love women who are well put together and intelligent. Witty banter is a lot of fun with him as well. Show him that you’re worth his time if he chooses to finally give it to you.

If you’re involved with someone else and decide to pursue a Virgo man, you may want to free yourself first. He doesn’t compete and isn’t interested in someone who is already taken.

In the case that he does, he may just want sex or a casual encounter. It’s not a common occurrence for him, though, for the most part. A Virgo man is very traditional and old school about dating and sex.

Read also: Do Virgo Men Like To Be Chased?

Be Relaxed, Beautiful, And Collected

The Virgo man really loves a woman who isn’t in any hurry to rush him into a relationship or into a date, for that matter. Let him know you like him by brushing your hand on his while talking.

You can talk about things you’ve observed that he likes. If you have not observed him that well, it’s important that you do. Virgo men observe everything and can remember details fairly well. To flirt with a Virgo man, you need to remember this.

Keep yourself classy. Dressing trashy isn’t something he’ll dig at all. What a Virgo man wants in a woman is someone who isn’t desired by everyone on the block. He’d prefer you be a little more modest and simple.

By simple, I mean well put together, classy, and perhaps a little unique. As long as you look tidy and well-maintained, he’ll probably be drawn to you. A calm demeanor will also draw him to you.

Ask Him For Advice

To flirt with a Virgo man, it’s crucial to know that the Virgo man is a sucker for the “damsel in distress”. That means that if you have a problem, try asking him for help with a solution. He’ll feel useful. After he helps you, you can thank him by offering to cook him dinner or bring him dessert.

He’ll really enjoy the fact that you thought of him as someone to go to for advice. It makes him feel valuable. This is something he needs from his lady love or future lady love. If you know he’s well schooled about something, in particular, use it!

Even if you have a hypothetical situation to get his advice about, go for it. He’ll eat it up, and at that point, you’ll be able to get to know him a little more. Bat your eyelashes at him.

Thanking him for the help he has provided will turn him on. He always wants to feel appreciated. Even if he’s been with you for 10 years, he’ll always want to know you are grateful for what he does for you.

Getting help from him is one way to open up the door to being able to talk to him on a more intimate level. Be sure to look your best when you do. It’ll get his brain going into analytical mode.

Be A Little Mysterious

To flirt with a Virgo man, you need to be a bit mysterious. While you can talk to him about some important facets of yourself when you finally get to have a lengthy chat with him, you won’t want to reveal everything.

If you tell him everything up front, there is no fun in getting to know you.

This holds true for just about every sign. Maintaining a little bit of mystery keeps things interesting and gives him a good reason to stick around. He may want to unravel the mystery that is you.

It’s a bit more fun to get to know someone over time, anyway. If you know all there is to know about someone right away, things become dull, and you run out of things to talk about. Keep that in mind when you’re flirting with your Virgo man.

Amp Up The Flirting

Smiles and giggles are great with Virgo, but if you want to show him that you want more than what you already have with him, you have to kick it up a notch!

You’re going to need to let your Virgo guy know that you’re into him and that you’d like to be more than friends. This means springing into action, winking at him, staring at him in the eyes when you talk to him, and asking him more questions.

The more in depth your gaze is with the Virgo man, the more he will feel your intensity and desire. I wouldn’t do it for too long at a stretch, though, as it could overwhelm him. Be light but direct at the same time.

What Does It Mean When A Married Virgo Man Flirts With Another Woman?

It’s very rare, but if a Virgo man is married and he is flirting with someone else, that is a red flag.

He’ll probably be unable to hide his guilty heart. He’ll be colder toward his wife. He may make excuses for why he cannot spend time with her.

A Virgo man isn’t good at lying, so she will probably catch him relatively quickly. He won’t have any real good reason for having done it at all, and it will all fall apart. Innocent flirtation may grow into cheating, and that is bad.

No woman should allow any man to make her his second choice, so spending time with a married man should be avoided.

If he thinks this other woman could be his soul mate since his wife doesn’t appear to be, he may, at that point, take the plunge and have an affair. He’s heart driven and always on the lookout for his one true love.

FAQs About Virgo Man Flirting

How to know if you can recognize a Virgo man flirting signs? Well, luckily for you I have compiled questions that might come up in your relationship. Hopefully, this can help you navigate your relationship with your Virgo man.

Are Virgos Good At Flirting? 

Virgos have versatile and reserved signs of flirting. They are trying to impress a woman which is worth it every step of the way.

A Virgo man flirts with everyone! When he is really trying to show you that he is interested and that he’s in the moment, he’ll do whatever it takes to make you smile.

The highlight of his day just may be the moment when he can tell that he has made you happy because this is his flirting strategy.

How Do Virgo Men Act When They Like Someone?

When a Virgo man likes you, he acts supportive, and he will be ready to do anything you ask of him because your well-being becomes his first and foremost priority. He’s loyal and dependable, and his main goal is to make a woman safe and comfortable.

Once he starts inviting her to more quiet places or outings where it’s just the two of them, that’s when she knows his interest in her is growing. Virgo men show their affection in some pretty mysterious ways.

Do Virgo Men Give Mixed Signals If They Like You?

Virgo men by nature can be a little inconsistent, so this is definitely something you need to get used to. He is sometimes going to waver in his decisions, and this is why it may feel like he is giving you mixed signals.

A Virgo man will give you mixed signals if he likes you, but he will also give you mixed signals if he is unsure about you. Once a Virgo man has made his mind up about you, he will be more consistent with you, and you won’t have to doubt the way he feels about you.

Here’s more on what to do when a Virgo man sends mixed signals.

How To Get A Virgo Man To Be More Serious About You?

Stay Busy, Girl

A Virgo man loves to have some personal freedom from time to time. Do not think you should give him all of your time, no. You need to get out there and live your life.

Believe it or not, you can do this and still show him affection. He’ll think your independence and zest for life is very sexy. If you’re doing all the other work with him, consider this some icing for your Virgo man cake. 

Not sitting around pining for him and hoping he’ll call is a good way to go. I tell you what; you need to keep your personal flow up. Take care of your needs and make sure you are happy even when you’re not with him. 

Keep It Real

While you’ve been having a good time with the Virgo man, don’t feel you need to change who you are to suit him. I did mention to keep busy but if you’re the couch potato type then this may be problematic for you.

You can explain to him that you’re a bit of a homebody, but that still doesn’t give you an excuse not to be busy. Grab some yarn and crochet, do some painting, or something else crafty. 

These are the things he wants to see and know about you. He’s a thinker and wants to know your mind. Let him see it by showing him the things you know how to do and enjoy. Heck, you can even invite him to help!

Ask Him To Help You Out

A Virgo man loves independence in a woman, but he also wants to feel a little needed or, well, useful. What can you do? Ask him to help you with little things like running an errand or picking something up for you.

He wants to show you that he can absolutely be there for you. Let’s remember, though, that you are trying to get a friend who you flirt with to want you for more. When you ask him for help with small things, you’re showing him your heart.

I know that sounds completely bizarre, but it’s not. Trust me on this. He will be happy to help you, and then you can make him feel good by showing him your thankful heart.

Be Brutally Honest

Look, all of these ways I’ve provided you are great stepping stones if you’re not ready to just snag him. If you’d like to bypass everything and get to the good stuff, then you need to pay attention.

Let your Virgo know you want to be more than friends. Tell him that you’ve been getting to know him; you enjoy flirting, but you’d like to explore what could possibly happen with you two.

It takes the guesswork out for him, and he will absolutely love that! He loves a bold woman who knows what she wants. He would rather a woman tell him that she likes him and wants to be more than for him to try to figure it out.

Honestly, the Virgo man already has a million things going on in his mind. He has fun flirting with you, sure, but after you leave his sight, is he still thinking about you? Maybe not if you’re not fessing up to him.

Speak up, girl, and tell him what you want! What’s the worst that can happen? He doesn’t drag it out only to let you down later. How can that be wrong?

Do Not Panic When He Goes Quiet

This is a tough one for most women. It’s hard to go from talking and spending fun time together to not hearing from this Virgo guy for a week. Why has your Virgo suddenly gone cold?

He hasn’t really—he just needs to take time out from time to time to remind himself he’s still a “free” person. This is not to say he can’t or won’t commit. It’s more to say that he likes having his personal time and space.

If he’s been spending a whole lot of time with you or around you, he will need to pull back at some point and spend time alone or with other people. That doesn’t mean he needs to go see other women, either. Be patient and trust in him!

Related: Giving A Virgo Man Space To Figure Things Out (How Long To Wait For Him?)

End Anxiety About Your Virgo Man…

It can be SO painful to worry about how to make things work with a Virgo man who won’t commit.

I know. I’ve been there with many of my friends dating Virgo guys.

I remember my very close friend crying herself to sleep at night, worried that her man would never commit to her. She lost sleep, time, and even work hours, all because she couldn’t figure out how to capture his heart and get him to commit.

As a friend, it was hard to watch her go through that.

But I knew how good he was for her, and I didn’t want her to give up on him. Even when our other friends were telling her to move on, I could see that he was the most incredible man she had ever met.

How could she just give up on that?

But it wasn’t easy. 

It took a LOT of work.

She had to learn how to speak a different language… Virgo man’s love language.

And it worked!!!

So if you are ready to sleep like a baby… Knowing your Virgo man is MADLY in love with you… And never feel anxious about him again…

Go here now to see how to speak your Virgo man’s love language. 

xoxo, Anna