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Does a Virgo Man Like to be Chased or Does He Prefer You to Chase Him?

Does a Virgo man like to be chased? This is today’s pressing question. While you’re getting tangled up in a Virgo man’s web, you may be confused as to who is running the show between the two of you.

Does he or does he not want to be chased? Many people write to me and ask when they’re left wondering what in the heck is going on.

How a Virgo Man Thinks

To answer the question: does a Virgo man like to be chased? We need to understand how a Virgo man thinks. When a Virgo man is interested in someone, he will look for signs of mutual appreciation. He’ll watch the woman for a while, see how she interacts with others and most importantly, how she is around him.

He may do a bit or research on her through co-workers or mutual friends if he can. As far as how he will be toward her; he’ll be a cool friend that seems to be relaxed.

The Virgo man is always looking for “the one” that will complete him and make his life worth living to the fullest. He may look long term of he may look short term.

It depends on each Virgo man and whatever the situation is at the time. If the Virgo man sort of “knows” the woman already and he thinks she could be the one, he’ll go for it.

Now if she is someone completely new to him; this is where he’ll take some time to evaluate everything. He doesn’t want to get hurt and he doesn’t want to settle for someone.

Chasing…

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Does a Virgo man like to be chased? Only when a Virgo man knows for sure that a woman is interested in him will he then start making some moves and trying to get to know her better. If she gives him no signs; he’ll give it up.

He doesn’t necessarily chase unless he absolutely 100% believes you’re “the one”. At that point, he lets his guard down, tells you all his secrets and will straightforwardly tell you how much he adores you.

So in this type of scenario; he moves with lightning speed. I’ve experienced this with a Virgo and is why I can share it with you. Mine was a guy I had a crush on in High School but hadn’t talked to in 25 years.

We got connected again via Social Media and within a few days time, he was already talking to me on the phone. Not just that, but the first phone call was 3 hours long! He kept telling me that he liked me and how cool I was.

By the second phone call that was also nearly 3 hours, he told me he adored me then after getting off the phone; a couple hours later he text messaged me to tell me that there were lots of reasons he liked me but there weren’t enough words to describe it.

So, believe me when I tell you if he KNOWS for certainty he wants you he will go after you and suddenly be in your life daily! So this may answer the question: does a Virgo man like to be chased? He may, especially if he’s into you. They waste no time when they are positive they know what they want.

What If You Chase…

I’m not going to tell you that he’s opposed to it but he’s kind of picky about it. Some of them are totally cool with you messaging them daily or calling. Some of them, however, may see it as overbearing.

In this case; you need to figure out who he is and what he wants. You should be able to tell fairly quickly what it is he goes for and what he does not. Respect his wishes.

If he’s the type that wants to be in control and the main person to do the contacting; let him do that. Relax and know that he WILL contact you when he is ready.

However; if he’s the type that is alright with you connecting to him then go for it! He’ll let you know if it becomes too much. Unfortunately, when he does; it’s typically by ignoring your texts.

There is some part of him that still has to remind himself that he isn’t tied down and still has personal freedom. That means not always answering your texts. He never wants to feel trapped or whipped.

Complicated Guy?

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Virgo men really aren’t that complicated once you know who they are. They are picky, they are particular but they do NOT play mind games. Not to say there aren’t some exceptions but most of them do not do it.

Whatever he says to you; he means it. He isn’t one to tell you things that he doesn’t really mean or won’t follow through. He isn’t a flake. If he steps back from you it’s because he’s either upset or unsure.

Most Virgo men are easy to read; you just have to look for the right signs and take him for his word. You can ask him just about anything and he’ll be truthful with you.

If he lets you in and divulges his secrets about his life; he definitely is probably in love with you in which case chasing is a non-issue for the two of you. He’ll not let a day go by without reaching out to you in some way.

So, does a Virgo man like to be chased? Even if he does, it may only be ONE day. He wants to stay connected to the woman he really likes or even loves. Trust me, when he reveals to you how he feels; there will be no question.

Exceptions Are Possible

There are always exceptions to every sign but that’s why it’s important to get to know the guy you like as much as you can before you make any decisions. His moon sign could change things a bit as can his rising sign.

He is an Earth sign so he is typically very grounded and practical. He’s looking to plant roots with someone he feels is important and who he feels a spiritual connection to.

He doesn’t need to seem so cryptic to you. I get how he may seem that way but if you want to learn more; click here to learn more about how he operates.

I really hope that this article has helped uncover some important information to help put your mind at ease.

What do you think? Does a Virgo man like to be chased?

Share your story (or situation) with our community in the comment section below (don’t worry, it’s anonymous).

Wishing you all the luck of the universe

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach



4 thoughts on “Does a Virgo Man Like to be Chased or Does He Prefer You to Chase Him?

  1. Hello Anna,
    My name is Lisa and I have read your article above and I am so desperately kneading your Insight. Anna, even if I need to pay you; if you have a fee, please email me how to do so.
    I will tell you briefly about my issues I am in love with a 46 year old Virgo male who captured my heart after 3.5 months of dating he did everything above that you expressed and I truly know he loved me as well as him verbalizing this in our third month. We have not had sex, but after a month and a half of knowing him we did make out a few times.I HAVE BEEN VERY LADY LIKE and demaned respect even though he has never mad me feel like I had to
    The problem is I’m not sure if I have tarnished our relationship and if I have; if I HAVE ANY CHANCE TO WIN HIS HEART AGAIN.
    HE use to call me everyday text me 2 to 3 times a day and was very attentive. After asking him to take a break and make a decision about us spending more time together (he worked a lot) he totally shut down. I think I hurt him awfully. After I did this..I thought he’d be calling me within a day or so but after five days. I called and he would not talk to me.
    A whole month of him not talking to me and avoiding my texts that he recently allowed me the ability to communicate with him. I have been upfront with him and have verbalize my wrong in that I was so caught up in his affection his attention and his interest that I think I misjudged the fact that they have a strong wheel not to be manipulated I’ve also informed him that I feel like I was being manipulative but not in a way that I meant to hurt him I just wanted to spend more time with him. So now that we are back communicating I have asked him for another chance when I express this over a text message because I felt this was the way that he could read my true feelings and take it in and have it to read later he replied that it was very touching and I left him speechless, however he has been very slow with his approach to communicate with me and I feel the need for me to have to do the initiation of communication or I’m having to do the initiation with us communicating my name is Lisa and I have read your article above & I am so desperately meeting your insight. Ma’am even if I have to pay you if you have a fee please email me how to do so. I will tell you briefly about my issues I am in love with a 46 year old virgo mail who captured my hard after 3 months of dating he did everything above that you expressed and I truly know he loves me as well as him verbal icing this. The problem is I’m not sure if I have tarnish our relationship due to my need to have him make changes, and that he worked so much but definitely always call me everyday text me two to three times a day and was very attentive. After asking him to take a break and make a decision about us spending more time together he totally shut down. I think I hurted him awfully because it was right after him saying I Love U too; when I told him I feel that I loved him. So, maybe he feels he can’t trust me, as after he opened up..I did that stupid text asking him to take space and think about what he wanted.
    Well it took a whole 2 month of him not talking to me and avoiding my text that he recently allowed me the ability to communicate with him.
    I have been upfront with him and have verbalized my wrong. I was so caught up in his affection, his attention and his interest that I think I took too much for granted. I was manipulative but not in a way that I meant to hurt him. I just wanted to spend more time with him.
    So now that we are back communicating I have asked him for another chance when I express this over a text message because I felt this was the way that he could read my true feelings and take it in and have it to read later he replied that it was very touching and that it left him speechless, however he has not given me a straight forward acceptance of yes to give me another chance.
    He has been very slow with his approach to communicate with me and I have to initiate the communication. He has called me sweet cakes, we almost had a plan to meet to talk but after going on to another subject on the phone call…we didn’t set it up. He is answering my text messages and alot sooner; as after we first started back communicating sometimes he would wait up to a 5-9 hours to reply. I have called him baby (Or sweet name for each other) but he has not done so for me? : (
    Is there anything you can share with me? Should I keep trying? I Love him.. even feels he’s my Soulmate! Or did I just ruined the Love of A Lifetime?
    Please… please Help Me Anna!
    Lisa
    Please reply and again I am willing to pay for your time!
    Kindly and humbally,
    Lisa

    1. Hi Lisa! It does seem like you have quite the situation going on with your Virgo guy. I’d love to help you figure things out more. While I’d like to read your whole situation, this section is for comments. Communication between you and your Virgo man is actually really crucial. Honesty is a priority and speaking your mind is as well. It may not feel like it’s an easy process but the more you tell him like it is, the more he’ll get frustrated but when he goes to think about it, he’ll understand it and will be grateful that you were totally honest about what you said. Trying to change a Virgo man is a very tricky situation and unless it’s things about him you cannot handle, why would you want him to change. Virgo men are pretty fixed and won’t tolerate anyone trying to change them. If that’s what happened here, you may need to work on yourself and try to figure out what you can do to better help yourself see that his “flaws” aren’t really that bad OR if they are that perhaps you shouldn’t be with him. In any case, if you’d like me to read your whole situation, please feel free to purchase my book “Virgo Man Secrets” and I’ll be happy to give you a free VIP consult.

  2. Im dating 8 months with virgo man,he wants to go slow..we have great time alone have great comunication but what consider emotions ooo my god..he knows i like him very much…but he doesnt take any action…he never call me or sms me…always me..but when i did it he always replay..when i tell him to meet me he always come but never take action first..i try not to call 5 day…nothing..when i sms him his answer is”where have you been you didnt calll” helooo….dont understand him…..

  3. Hello Anna, Im an Aries and my Virgo friend got mad with me because I did not want to make out for the first time so he blocked me and I’m feeling sad

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