11 Obvious Signs A Virgo Man Is Falling In Love With You

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Virgos can display affection through romantic gestures all the time. But if you’ve ever wondered if he truly loves you, the best way to read his mind is by using these signs to find out if a Virgo man is falling for you!

Let’s face it ladies – Virgo men don’t always have the best reputation when it comes to commitment. Signs a Virgo man is falling in love with you aren’t always easy to recognize. You will need to read between the lines.

Although Virgo men are shy and reserved when it comes to love and relationships, that doesn’t mean they don’t develop deep feelings or have specific standards for the woman of their dreams. There are definitely some tell-tale signs a Virgo man is falling for you.

You just need to encode his love language to know if he is inevitably falling in love with you. I covered his entire Astrology love profile in my Virgo Love Language guide.

I suggest you get your copy if you really want to master his love language and finally connect with him in the right way.

When a Virgo man stares at you, he is mapping you, taking in details about you, and trying to understand you.

Be sure to continue reading to find out what does it mean when a Virgo man touches you, and what else you can expect from a Virgo man when he is falling in love!

Virgo Man Falling In Love — How Does He Act When In Love?

A Virgo man in love will put his partner’s needs above his own. He will be attentive and communicate openly and honestly. A Virgo man shows his love and attention in practical ways.

He is not a romantic type of man. You need to recognize these small things he is willing to do for you as an act of love. He will not show his affection with some grand gesture, but he could help you with something you need; he may cook a meal for you or surprise you with a thoughtful gift.

When it comes to love, you can count on the Virgo man’s undeniable loyalty.

He is an amazing companion. Virgo is considered to be the most loyal sign of the zodiac. He may keep his distance when first meeting someone, but once his confidence is won, he is loyal and he cares.

The Virgo man is intentionally quiet sometimes, but he will always tell you what is on his mind. Ruled by the planet of thought and communication—Mercury—words are his most powerful weapons. If he is truly ready to commit to you, a mature and emotionally intelligent Virgo man will tell you exactly what he wants.

When A Virgo Man Stares At You — Do Virgos Stare When They Like Someone?

When a Virgo man stares into your eyes, this is a sign that he is interested in what you have to say. It means he likes you. He is trying to grasp all that is communicated to him while showing you his interest.

Virgo men just love eye contact, and if he manages to maintain eye contact for more than five seconds, that means that he is interested in you. Some women may feel uncomfortable when they notice a Virgo man’s intense gaze.

He lives in his head, and his world is made of ideas and thoughts. Foreplay for him is a rousing ‘face to face’ debate, so if you are shallow or quiet and avoid looking him in the eyes, he will lose interest in dating you.

11 Obvious Signs A Virgo Man Is Falling In Love With You

1. Your Virgo Man Shows A Lot Of Affection

When a Virgo man compliments you, he means it in a sincere and thoughtful way. Since he is all into details, he may notice something others are not seeing, so this could be something special about you because it is a positive quality he recognizes in you.

The Virgo man is a bit reserved, so the way he compliments you is more modest and practical, not effusive, but this doesn’t describe him as non-meaningful.

When a Virgo man hugs you, you can be certain that he is more than just interested. He will try to look inside your soul and mind to determine what your dreams for the future are and what your moral foundations are. Feel free to open up to him because honesty is a wonderful way to become closer.

2. He Will Always Make Time For You

When a Virgo man is falling in love or is in love, he will always be sure that his lady love receives ample time and attention. He wants to spend lots of time with you so that everything keeps flowing smoothly.

Even if he is a hard worker and sometimes doing overtime, he’ll compensate for it somehow to make it up to you. He makes sure that you understand that he’s making the effort just for you.

He knows that a relationship that is going to last will require his time and effort. So if you find that he’s around more often and doing whatever he can to make sure that you’re not neglected, you can safely assume that a Virgo man loves you.

When you need him, he’s there. When you want him, he’s there. This shows his staying ability and shows you that he cares deeply for you.

3. You Feel Like You’re The Center Of His World 

Though a Virgo man will focus much attention on his career or work, he’ll also place a whole lot of time into his relationship. When he’s with you, you’ll feel like you’re the only woman alive.

When you’re out together, he’s not the type to have a wandering eye. If he loves you, he won’t notice other women at all. In fact, he’s the type of guy who won’t notice ladies hitting on him even if he goes out with the guys.

His friends will give him a hard time because he was oblivious. They may even tell you that “he was a good boy while we were out; he never looked at any of the ladies looking at him”.

To him, when he is totally in love and committed, there isn’t anyone else. You do become his world, and he enjoys showing you around. If he’s already treating you with respect, you’ll know he loves you.

4. When A Virgo Man Takes Care Of Your Needs

When a Virgo man loves you, he’ll always be sure to be there when you need him. This includes giving you some incredible advice about whatever problems you may be experiencing.

His heart is in the right place, and he’ll know how to solve the problems you encounter. He wants you to have the best in your life. He also wants you to succeed in your dreams.

This is the guy who wants you to know he’s there for you no matter what happens. If you’re going through a tough time, he’ll tough it out with you. If you need him, he’s right by your side.

So if you find this guy bending over backward to do whatever it is you need from him, he’s in love with you. He doesn’t do this for just anyone. In love, he is picky and cautious.

He will not want to waste his precious time with someone who isn’t worth the effort. If he sees you as worth the effort, he loves you.

5. When A Virgo Man Touches You

This is an odd but erotic facet of the Virgo man. He appreciates beauty when he sees it, and he’ll want a woman that is beautiful; he’ll want to touch her face a lot.

He’s the guy that, when he kisses you, likes to hold your face. He may even kiss you all over your face. For sure, he’ll caress you with his fingers and stare deeply into your eyes.

This sultry behavior is the result of a man who is in love with you and sees you differently. If you notice he suddenly stares at you with a look of “I really want you”; means he does want you but also that he loves you.

Virgo men are notorious for giving women “the stare down.” Though you’ll get to know over time which stare means what. He has different ones. Some are cold, some are warm and inviting, and others are “come hither”.

You’ll feel it when he gives you the “I love you so very desperately” look. There is no mistaking it. He’ll also caress your face and make sure that he touches you a lot. This is a sign that the Virgo man is falling in love with you.

6. He Will Show You His Undying Devotion

When he takes you out, he will want to treat you to your favorite restaurant or food. He wants to spoil you and make sure you have everything you really want.

He isn’t the most emotionally giving man, but he has his ways of showing you how much he adores you by doing practical things like making sure that your car is running properly.

If you become ill, he’ll have no problem taking care of you and making sure that you get well. He’ll go get you soup or make you some. This guy will also remember important dates.

Such things as first dates, anniversary celebrations, birthdays, and other important dates are always important to him, so you don’t have to worry about him forgetting them.

If they are relatives to you or to you two as a couple, he’ll always remember. This shows his devotion and that the Virgo man is falling in love with you.

7. He Takes Care of You

You will be able to see this in the small gestures the Virgo man makes effortlessly. He will ask you how you are doing and how your day went, or he will simply put his jacket over your shoulders if the evening is a bit cold.

He will also offer you a cup of tea, recommend some healthy meals, massage your back, or just hold your hand when things get a little overwhelming. The sign of Virgo is all about taking care of others and serving, so you are on the right track if he shows he cares. Your Virgo man is in love.

8. He Is Romantic, But Practical At The Same Time

The planet Mercury, ruling the sign of Virgo, is never very far from the planet of beauty and love, Venus. And although a Virgo man can frequently behave like someone who is goal-oriented and focused most of the time, he is also very romantic and sensitive.

He won’t forget the important dates, but instead of a box of chocolates, you can expect to receive a special tea or spice collection, cookbooks, popular medical books, or even warm underwear.

9. Giving You Pleasure Turns Him On

One of the top signs a Virgo man is falling for you on a deeper level is that he wants to know what turns you on during sex. You might think that the Virgo man is all about health, obligations, and endless professional improvements, but this is very far from the truth.

Virgos are very passionate too, but they just prefer to keep those traits of their character private. Being intimate with a Virgo guy can be anything but boring, and if your man is showing this heightened passion with you, then he is totally into you.

If he becomes more excited as you become more excited, your Virgo is in love with you.

10. You’re A Part Of His Big Plans In Life (Including Financial Matters)

Virgo men are very responsible when it comes to future planning. If he wants to discuss matters of money with you, then this is an absolutely certain sign that he wants you in his life as his wife.

Pretty soon, you will have to learn how to manage your incomes and expenses, and financial literacy will help you in any case, with or without your Virgo man, but this experience will be useful for you for sure.

He may include you in his plans and talk about places he would like to visit together or a place where he would like to live with you. This is huge, as he cannot envision his future with anyone, so if he starts acting like you are part of his big plans, be sure that he is interested in being in a committed relationship with you.

11. When A Virgo Man Opens Up to You

Virgo men do not like to waste their time on someone who may not work out; they’re very cautious. When he’s at the point where he wants to start pursuing something with you, he’ll start to talk to you more.

When he does, he’ll open up to you more about what he likes, what he may want, and how you are feeling. His ability to lower his protective wall to allow you to pass through indicates that he likes you!

He’ll talk to you about everything that is important to him in his life. Secrets won’t help you grow. He knows this, which is why he’ll start talking to you about important things in his life.

I invite you to take this opportunity to learn about simple things you can do to get the Virgo man to let his guard down and open up to you, so be sure that you look through my advice regarding this matter.

How To Make A Virgo Man Fall In Love With You?

In order to make a Virgo man fall for you, you must take good care of yourself and be independent. You need to have your goals set and enjoy a variety of hobbies.

When you want to have a Virgo fall in love with you, he needs to feel excited by the conversation he has with you.

Watch this video to learn the best tips on how to make a Virgo man fall in love with you.

Virgo men are attracted to intelligence, critical thinking, and classy looks. They want a woman who puts things in perspective, who is well-dressed, modest, and practical.

You don’t need to be gorgeous to get their attention, but you do need to have a solid approach to taking care of yourself and the world around you. After all, Virgo men really like the routine and little rituals they do for themselves.

Let him mold you into his ideal vision of a partner. A Virgo man knows exactly what he wants in a woman, and there is very little that will stop him from going after what he knows he deserves.

Ladies, look no further; I’ve covered this topic thoroughly, presenting various situations. You will learn how to make a Virgo man fall in love with you, and this will encourage you to contemplate your next move.

FAQ On Virgo Man Falling In Love

Are you struggling to figure out what to do about your Virgo man and how this will affect your relationship?

Well, luckily for you I have compiled a list of questions that might come up in your relationship. Hopefully, this can help you navigate the difficult times you might experience with your Virgo man.

Do Virgo Men Fall In Love Easily?

No, they don’t. They are very cautious and analytical, and it takes time to determine whether she is the one. Virgo men weigh their options carefully before committing.

Can A Virgo Man Fall In Love At First Sight?

A Virgo man has a tendency to fall in love at first sight without being completely certain of his emotions. Matters of the heart are uncharted territory for him, so he will keep his emotions in check and can suddenly decide to move forward from the relationship.

How Long Does It Take For A Virgo Man To Fall In Love?

It takes time for a Virgo man to fall in love. Virgo men are slow-movers; they are in no hurry. Stability and consistency are what they are after in relationships, so a lot of time may pass before they fall completely in love.

Would A Virgo Man Say “I Love You” Even When He Doesn’t Mean It?

Yes. He doesn’t say it often, but when he does say it, you can be certain that he means it. Nine times out of ten, he will make sure his actions line up with what he tells you.

If A Virgo Man Is Showing You Signs He Loves You, Hold Him Closer

A Virgo man isn’t the most emotionally giving man but he has his ways of showing you how much he adores you. One of the ways to keep him closer is to be a good listener as he tends to be analytical and loves sharing views.

He IS totally worth it, though. Once you understand him and go the lengths he needs you to go, he’ll reward you nicely.

This man will love you like none other ever has or ever will. He is the dream come true life partner. It just takes a while to get to that level with him. It’s really honestly best to learn as much as you can about him.

It can be SO painful to worry about how to make things work with a Virgo man who won’t commit.

I know. I’ve been there with many of my friends dating Virgo guys.

I remember my very close friend crying herself to sleep at night, worried that her man would never commit to her. She lost sleep, time, and even work hours, all because she couldn’t figure out how to capture his heart and get him to commit.

As a friend, it was hard to watch her go through that. But I knew how good he was for her, and I didn’t want her to give up on him.

Even when our other friends were telling her to move on, I could see that he was the most incredible man she had ever met.

How could she just give up on that?

But it wasn’t easy. It took a LOT of work.

She had to learn how to speak a different language… his love language…

And it worked!! 

So if you are ready to sleep like a baby… Knowing your Virgo man is MADLY in love with you… And never feel anxious about him again…

Click here and learn to speak your Virgo man’s love language. 



About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

10 thoughts on “11 Obvious Signs A Virgo Man Is Falling In Love With You

  1. READING this I completely agree with the characteristics of virgo 100%. I’m a cancer and im dating a virgo right now its been a few months and its been really rocky..I mean realllllyyyyyyyy rockyyyy ! Boy let me tell you. But I do love him and we have been working on our communication and getting things right. I’m super sure of myself and what I want so sometimes he thinks I like to be in control and for the most part he lets me be in control. but he always reminds me he is the man and that he isn’t going to do what I want him to do. but I’m glad he understands to some extent I want control, ladies the man does not run everything and he never should run everything !!!!!! he needs to know that you are the one. you walk next to him not behind him or under him. we have had a lot of arguments but I think those arguments and times apart have shaped and helped us be more understanding to one another feelings as well as know more about each other and what ticks each other off.. Even though sometimes he doesn’t like the things I do ultimately you will never like everything your partner does but that doesn’t mean that you guys can’t have a good life together or come to some common ground to be able to be with one another. Anything worth dealing with is worth keeping and he isn’t easy at all we are both a piece of work. But im myself always and he will always have fun with me, never a dull moment its still a few things coming into the new year I’d like to work on like for instance, Meeting his mom I haven’t yet, again we are still fresh but I want his family to know me and I want him to know my family honestly..although when we were in our situation I would tell them things he would say but I won’t ever do that to myself again cause its our business to deal with. I want him to meet my mom one day not have a complete close relationship but them knowing one another and talking to each other regularly. I would like to know who his mom is and meet her he hasn’t officially introduced me to her. I already didn’t mention he has a 4 month old, he isn’t with the girl though but thats another story. I care about him and I decided to be by his side.

    1. Hi Stephanie!

      Yes, it’s often a rocky road to start out with after the lovey dovey phase ends. It takes a lot of work to iron things out with a Virgo man. He’s not a fairy tale prince until he’s understood and until communication is worked at for awhile. I’m glad you’ve figured out a formula that works for you two. I wish you all the success in the world!

    1. Hi maryjane!

      You absolutely can get more information by reading more of the articles in my blog. You can also check out “Virgo Man Secrets” book. There is a load of information that can help you get to know how this guy thinks and operates. Check it out sometime if you really need a little help.

  2. Wow! Reading Stephanie’s comment above is exactly my situation with the Virgo man, and I too am a cancer. I’ve never given a man so many chances to hurt my feelings but every single argument brings us closer and he opens up a lot more. It’s just something there and we keep coming back. The last argument was probably the worst but he opened up and really let me Into his world and gave me a better understanding of what I mean to him. No man is perfect, but I give credit to the man that is honestl. He too has a child with a woman that he just found out about a year later and it stings, but I know where his heart is. We’re also new, about a year off and on and it’s been an emotional rollercoaster full of super highs and emotional lows, but I’m going to give it another chance (he won’t let me go anyway) lol.

    1. Hi Monique!

      I’m glad to hear you can relate to Stephanie’s story. Yes, it takes a lot of work to maintain a relationship with Virgo. Usually they are well worth it. They seem difficult and arguments happen but once you really get to know him and he really gets to know you, communication becomes a bit easier. There will still be ups and downs but they become less severe with time, patience, and love. I wish you all the best!

  3. I’m a Leo and I have to agree with what was said about Virgo man.. They defiantly can be a controlling, opinionated, super sensitive, caring, non-stop lovers behind closed doors..and worth the risk! He always tells me we’re opposites but that’s why we attract. I prefer the crowd and he prefers being home lol I’ve known him for 8yrs and he’s always made me feel completely comfortable with myself and our relationship.. never would I have ever questioned our relationship cause of how sure of yourselves virgos make you feel. I have a 4yr old with this man and at one point I needed space but some how he always manages to show he still cares and try’s really hard with our daughter. At one point he did get a gf in which I was completely understanding but she made no effort with our daughter or me so that was disappointing. Eventually they split but he still always respects and cares for me and my family and friends see that. Our friendship just only ever gets stronger and stronger and that’s the best for my daughter. I wouldn’t want it any other way. ((:

    1. Hi Leomama!

      Thank you for writing in. You’re right on the nose with your description of Virgo men. They are exactly that. I’m glad that your friendship is getting stronger. Kudos to you for working with him and making sure that your daughter gets the best of both worlds with mom and dad. You are a blessed soul!

  4. It’s so unreal It’s like you know him
    I love him so much, Don’t want anyone else. We are in long distance relationship. And been together 10 months. And we are engaged 💍. Virgo are very private. Thanks for all the information.

  5. I’m a Sagittarius and have been seeing a Virgo man for a little over 3 yrs now. It feels like we’re total opposites, but i keep trying to understand his ways. We started out hot, but for reasons unknown to me, and believe me i have asked, to no avail…he has turned cold and it feels like he’s pushing me away, but doesn’t say “we’re over”. I’m so confused.
    Unfortunately covid caused ED, and we haven’t even been avle to experience one another. Is he too embarrassed to get help? Is the lack of lovemaking the reason he is cold? (Emotional). I think he cares as I’m the one he invites to all the family functions, but truly hard to know where i stand. I’m not a young woman, nor is he a young man, so can’t afford to keep wishin n hopin if I’m only a woman of convenience or jyst an after thought.
    So frustrating.

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