What does a Virgo man want to hear when texting a woman? Is there a secret formula to help him fall in love with you? When it comes to dating a Virgo man, it’s no secret that this Mercury-ruled Man is known for his choice of perfectly put together and grammatically flawless way with words.
From his text messages to professional emails, the Virgo man is nit-picky about language and tone of voice. Therefore, when it comes to texting the Virgo man, there are some messages that will turn him off, and there are some that will make him fall in love.
If you’ve experienced a bad response from a text you’ve sent to a Virgo man, or if you are just curious about what texts help win this quiet gentleman over, then this article is for you.
To help you win over the Virgo man, I am here to share with you the top three text messages that will make a Virgo man’s heart melt.
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3 Texts That Melt A Virgo Man’s Heart
1. I Understand.
Now, I know what you may be thinking: how can a simple “I understand” be a heart-warming text?
As the sign ruled by Mercury, the planet of information, the Virgo man knows a little bit about everything, and when he’s comfortable — he loves to talk.
But if you know anything about the analytical Virgo man, you know that his biggest turn-on is feeling understood.
Known for his lengthy texts and articulate speeches, the Virgo man is a wordsmith nonetheless.
But even more charming than his pick-up lines are the texts he receives from a woman that not only admires him but takes the time to absorb and think about the words he’s said.
Whether you’ve just gotten into a heated conversation, he’s raving about his favorite restaurant, or talking about family drama, letting the Virgo man know you understood what he’s discussing with you makes him feel good about who he is.
Because when the Virgo man feels understood, his critical mind begins to soften and loosen up, and what was once hard virgin earth becomes fertile soil.
So, the next time you think about writing back a lengthy text about what you would change and how you think you may be right, perhaps you can try out a simple “I understand” instead.
You might just find that with this aspect of the relationship, less is more.
2. How Can I Help?
Another heartwarming text that is guaranteed to make the Virgo man melt is: “How can I help?”
Known as the Zodiac’s most loyal supporter and community citizen, the Virgo man is always caring for others and working towards a noble cause.
Being the sixth sign of the Zodiac, it’s in his nature to do whatever he can to better his environment and community.
Therefore, it’s always helpful (and attractive) to have a partner who is not only understanding of who you are and what you believe in, but also interested in assisting you in whatever they can.
Because for a hard-working Virgo man, there is almost nothing more precious than a cooperative and influential partner — a true team player that always has his back.
3. How Are You?
Lastly, and in my opinion (as a Relationship Astrologer), the third most heartwarming text you can send to a Virgo man to make his heart melt is: “how are you?”
Yes, asking someone how they are may seem too traditional or lacking personality, but it says a lot about your true character.
If you’ve read my second tip, then you know that the Virgo man is always helping people.
And if you read the first tip, then you would know that one of his biggest pet peeves is feeling misunderstood.
So, mix both of those up and you will understand that even a simple, how are you? text shows you that checking in with him is the best way to melt his heart.
As a man always worrying about others, it feels nice to know that someone is thinking about him for a change.
So, before you write off that simple text, just try it out and see the response you get.
And if you’re brave, you can even ask him what he is feeling, or ask him what he needs at the moment.
Get creative with it. Put your own spin and personal linguistic touch on it, but remember, make him feel special and cared for.
More than anything, he wants to know that his contributions, his hard work, and his efforts are acknowledged and appreciated above all.
Good Morning Texts For A Virgo Man – What To Say To Him
1. “Good morning, I hope you have an amazing day!”
Sometimes all a Virgo man needs is a simple message to let him know that you wish his day goes well! This will mean a lot to your Virgo man and let him know that he is a special person in your life.
A Virgo man doesn’t need crazy gestures to make him smile! Sometimes the simplest messages can be the most effective. What’s not to love? This is the best good morning text to send a Virgo man!
2. “I have some free time today, do you need help with anything?”
A Virgo man is a man who loves to be of service to others. He will always go out of his way to help someone when they call on him for help, but being so supportive of others can sometimes be quite draining and sometimes he needs a helping hand.
Showing him that you are thinking of him and you want to be there for him will really touch his heart. Even if he doesn’t take you up on this offer it’ll definitely have him thinking about you all day. Mission accomplished because this is exactly what a Virgo man wants to hear.
3. “Good morning, please send me that recommendation you mentioned!”
A Virgo man prides himself on the research he does and he will really take the time and effort to research the things he loves. So, when a Virgo man gives you a recommendation, you can be sure to trust it!
Ask him to remind you of the thing he recommended, this will make him happy to know that you care about the things that are important to him and that you are willing to listen to his recommendations.
This could be anything from a book he just read to a good plumber he knows. A Virgo man is practical, so work this to your advantage and let him somehow feel like he is helping you out. This will do wonders for your relationship!
4. “Hey, I just wanted to wish you good luck today!”
A Virgo man tends to get quite nervous and anxious about the things he is trying to accomplish in his life. He may feel like he isn’t good enough and doubt himself quite a lot!
Nothing will lift his spirits more than you sending him your good luck wishes. This will certainly make him feel better about himself and give him the boost of confidence he really needs. Just showing that extra kindness and compassion will do wonders for your relationship.
Sweet Things To Say To A Virgo Man
1. “I love spending time with you”
Saying to a Virgo man that you enjoy spending time with him is a sure-fire way to win over his heart. This guy loves knowing that others feel good around him because knowing this makes him feel worthy.
He knows that sometimes he can be quite a pain to be with because he is such a perfectionist, so it means a lot to him when you still enjoy spending time with him, despite all of his flaws. He tends to zoom into the negative side of his personality.
But by saying this to him you are actually saying to him that you accept him just as he is, and he needs someone like this in his life!
The more you express the joy and pleasure it is to be around him, the more likely he will be to open up and become more comfortable in your presence.
2. “Thank you so much for supporting me, it means a lot.”
A Virgo man seriously loves to be of service and to help the people in his life. However, sometimes his actions go unnoticed and he can become rather resentful about this. This is why it is so important to say to your Virgo man that you see him and recognize how much he does for you.
This will make him feel really good about his efforts. He will feel seen and appreciated and that is actually all a Virgo man wants in his life.
3. “You are so interesting, I love getting to know you better.”
Some Virgo men lack confidence and tend to be quite shy. This could lead to him thinking that there is nothing really special about him, which definitely isn’t the case.
Make sure to let him know that you find him to be really fascinating and that you learn so much by knowing him. This will make him want to open up more to you. A real recipe for success if you ask me!
Read next: 6 Mistakes To Avoid When Texting A Virgo Man
No matter what you choose to send your Virgo man, remember these examples next time you text your Virgo man.
Whether you just want to let him know you’re there for him, encourage him, or make sure you stay on his mind, try out one of my text suggestions and let me know how it goes.
There is nothing more wonderful than being with a Virgo man…
He is so sweet, kind, caring, supportive, and gentle…
A true gentleman and the type of man you only thought you could make up in your dreams.
A Virgo man really knows how to love you and take care of you as no other man can!
However, things with your Virgo man have been feeling a little off recently…
You can’t put your finger on it, but it seems like he is slowly losing interest in you and the relationship…
This is incredibly heartbreaking as you love your Virgo man very much…
He is everything you have ever wanted in a man!
The thing is, you thought he was happy with you as well.
But you can feel your Virgo man backing away slowly…
All you want is to know that your Virgo man misses you and still cares about you.
There are times where he just ignores you and doesn’t get back to your texts.
It hurts you so much when your Virgo man doesn’t respond to what you have to say.
You never thought your relationship was going to end up like this…
And it feels like there is nothing you can do to make him come back to you!
What would you say if you knew that you could turn things around quite easily?
Would it make you happy to know that you can get your relationship back to where it once was?
There is a lot you can still do to fix and rebuild your relationship.
This is not the end of the road!
This is actually just the beginning…
Don’t give up hope, because there is so much love between the two of you and all relationships have their ups and their downs.
It is just about you taking control of the situation and realizing that there is still hope!
You deserve to be in a relationship where you get treated like a queen!
This is your chance to turn it all around.
I wish you so much love and happiness.
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,