What A Virgo Man Wants To Hear (Sweet Things To Say)

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
When it comes to dating a Virgo man, it’s no secret that this Mercury-ruled man is known for his choice of perfectly put together words. But, what a Virgo man wants to hear from you? Find out here.

Good job, girl—Virgo men are not the easiest guys to snag! They are known for having high standards! So, this is undoubtedly the reason you’re curious about what a Virgo man wants to hear from a woman. You may be wondering how you can touch a Virgo man’s heart.

Virgo men know exactly what they want in life and have the perfect plan to execute it. This includes the type of woman he wants to be with. He is usually drawn to an intelligent woman who has her life together and is witty, humorous, and laid-back.

If you are wondering how to melt a Virgo man’s heart, one of the easiest ways is to establish an intellectual connection with him. This guy is very Mercurial, his mind is going at one hundred miles per second, thinking about all kinds of things and analyzing all kinds of situations. He really enjoys it when he is able to have a flowing rapport with his lady.

But what exactly should you say to a Virgo man, and what does he like to hear from a woman? Well, look no further than this article. I am about to reveal to you exactly what you need to say to a Virgo man to make him weak at the knees.

If you follow some of these examples, I can guarantee this will pique his interest and keep him coming back for more and more. So, what exactly are you waiting for?

What A Virgo Man Wants To Hear?

If you are wondering how to win a Virgo man’s heart, note that a Virgo man is intentionally quiet sometimes, but he is never shy. You won’t have to wait long if you want to know what’s on his mind.

When a Virgo man is ready to commit to you, he will tell you exactly what he wants. If he wants to take things slow and focus on building an emotional connection first, he will tell you just that.

A Virgo man wants honesty from you. He wants to hear that you appreciate him as a man and that you like his resourcefulness, reliability, and attention to detail.

Support his desire for self-improvement and personal growth, and be there for him all the time. Your Virgo will appreciate it when his efforts are recognized.

How To Melt A Virgo Man’s Heart — Sweet Things To Say To A Virgo Man

1. “I Really Appreciate The Way You Helped Me…”

Did you know that the sign of Virgo absolutely loves to serve and be of service to others? They need to feel like they are of use and can somehow help others with whatever skills they have at their disposal.

It is really in their second nature to want to help others and this behavior comes to them totally effortlessly. Because they are so giving and willing to offer a helping hand it can often be neglected by their partners.

Not that a Virgo man needs a lot of attention, he is too down to earth for empty flattery, but he does want to be acknowledged for what he does. Just a simple thank you will go very far in his books.

This will want him to do more for you because he realizes that you recognize everything he does for you. He loves to support his loved ones, but it still feels really good when he knows he is appreciated.

He can get a little resentful if he feels like he gives and he gives without receiving anything in return. So, make a point of always thanking him and letting him know that you see everything he does for you!

2. “I Really Enjoyed That Book/DVD/Podcast You Gave Me…”

If you didn’t know your Virgo man is a bit of an intellectual snob, then now you know. This man is completely up to date with the latest in the literary or film world. He really enjoys reading the latest novels or seeing a cool new foreign film.

When he is really into a woman, he will want to share his favorite leisurely pursuits with her. The opinion of the woman is really important to him, he wants to know what she is thinking and how she feels about whatever it is he shared with her.

If a Virgo man tells you to watch or read something, it probably means that he values your opinion quite highly, especially if you enjoy it as much as he did. But, don’t think you just need to flatter him to get close to him.

Virgo men really value honesty and integrity, so if you didn’t quite enjoy something as much you should tell him. He loves a healthy debate and will likely really appreciate discussing the opinions you have, so don’t hold back.

Just make sure you don’t make him feel less than or ridiculed just because you perhaps didn’t like the same film. Virgo men are rather sensitive to criticism – even though they like being the critics. So, choose your words wisely.

The most important thing with this point is that you share that you actually did listen to his recommendation. He doesn’t want his suggestions to fall on deaf ears and there is always a reason why he thinks you might enjoy or appreciate something.

3. “How Was Your Day At Work?”

Virgo men are absolute perfectionists, and you can see this especially in their work. Virgo men are usually really passionate about their work. They love to keep busy and enjoy the feeling of knowing that they are the best of the best.

Their minds are often quite occupied with the comings and goings of what is going on at their jobs. For them talking about work isn’t a chore, it is actually something that excites them. This is what they are passionate about in life.

I can guarantee there will always be something a Virgo man wants to talk about when it comes to their career. When he hears that you’re interested to know what goes on in his daily life he is bound to feel rather excited.

Finally, someone who wants to hear about his cool new project! These Virgo men are dedicated to their careers, and it always feels good when someone takes an interest in this as well. He really enjoys sharing what is going on.

Make a point to often ask him how his day was at work. This will mean the world to him and it is a really easy technique to get him to open up to you. As you probably know, your Virgo man likes to play his cards close to his chest.

So, getting him to talk about the things he feels passionate about is really wonderful to build a solid connection with him.

4. “I Am So Proud Of You…”

A Virgo man’s worst critic is no one but himself. He is so hard on himself and you will often find him ruminating, thinking he is not good enough for something. A Virgo man is often lacking in self-confidence.

Somehow, he always likes to compare himself to someone else, even if he is obviously the most qualified for something. He’s a perfectionist, remember? He is incredibly fearful of failing and will often talk himself down and not recognize his own accomplishments.

This can be quite heartbreaking to see, especially when you know how talented and hard-working he is. One of the best things you can say to a Virgo man is how proud you are of him—he wants to hear that you’re proud of him for accomplishing his goals in life.

A Virgo man also wants to hear that you love him to the moon and back. It would be really good for your relationship to help him with his self-esteem by boosting his confidence. You should often tell him how good he is doing and that you believe in him.

There is nothing quite as loving as a woman’s encouragement. So, get your compliments in as often as you can, and you will soon start to notice the difference within him.

If you struggle with complimenting your Virgo man and finding the right words to make him feel special, I strongly suggest getting my Forever Love With Virgo Man Guide. It will help you speak to his core, and make your bond so much stronger.

5. “Look At This Funny Joke…”

One aspect that is often overlooked when it comes to a Virgo man is his wonderful sense of humor. These guys know how to laugh and look at the world from a very interesting point of view. Their humor is often a little dry, and a little bit dark.

If you really want to impress a Virgo man then send him your best joke, be that in the form of a video or a meme. These guys really appreciate a good sense of humor and it is quite important for them that their lady shares this view.

If you can make a Virgo man laugh then you are halfway there already. This is one of the best ways to get him to open up and have him fall in love with you. So, if you have any funny jokes up your sleeve make sure to share them with your Virgo man.

Here’s more on what to say to a Virgo man to get his attention <<

More Things That Will Touch A Virgo Man’s Heart

6. “I Love Spending Time With You”

Saying to a Virgo man that you enjoy spending time with him is a surefire way to win over his heart. This guy loves knowing that others feel good around him because knowing this makes him feel worthy.

He knows that sometimes he can be quite a pain to be with because he is such a perfectionist, so it means a lot to him when you still enjoy spending time with him, despite all of his flaws. A Virgo man tends to zoom into the negative side of his personality.

The more you express the joy and pleasure it is to be around him, the more likely he will be to open up and become more comfortable in your presence.

7. “Thank You So Much For Supporting Me, It Means A Lot.”

A Virgo man seriously loves to be of service and to help the people in his life.

However, sometimes his actions go unnoticed and he can become rather resentful about this. This is why it is so important to say to your Virgo man that you see him and recognize how much he does for you. 

This will make him feel really good about his efforts. He will feel seen and appreciated and that is actually all a Virgo man wants in his life.

8. “You Are So Interesting, I Love Getting To Know You Better.”

Some Virgo men lack confidence and tend to be quite shy. This could lead to him thinking that there is nothing really special about him, which definitely isn’t the case.

Make sure to let him know that you find him to be really fascinating and that you learn so much by knowing him. This will make him want to open up more to you. A real recipe for success if you ask me!

Check here for some surefire signs a Virgo man is falling in love with you <<

9. “I Understand.”

Now, I know what you may be thinking: how can a simple “I understand” be a heart-warming thing to say to a Virgo man?

As the sign ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication, the Virgo man knows a little bit about everything, and when he’s comfortable — he loves to talk.

But if you know anything about the analytical Virgo man, you know that his biggest turn-on is feeling understood.

Whether you’ve just gotten into a heated conversation, he’s raving about his favorite restaurant, or talking about family drama, letting the Virgo man know you understood what he’s discussing with you makes him feel good about who he is.

Because when the Virgo man feels understood, his critical mind begins to soften and loosen up, and what was once hard virgin earth becomes fertile soil.

So, the next time you think about discussing what you would change and how you think you may be right, perhaps you can try out a simple “I understand” instead.

You might just find that with this aspect of the relationship, less is more.

10. “How Can I Help?”

Another heartwarming line that is guaranteed to make the Virgo man melt is: “How can I help?”

Known as the Zodiac’s most loyal supporter and community citizen, the Virgo man is always caring for others and working towards a noble cause.

Being the sixth sign of the Zodiac, it’s in his nature to do whatever he can to better his environment and community.

Therefore, it’s always helpful (and attractive) to have a partner who is not only understanding of who you are and what you believe in, but also interested in assisting you in whatever they can.

Because for a hard-working Virgo man, there is almost nothing more precious than a cooperative and influential partner — a true team player that always has his back.

11. “How Are You?”

Asking someone how they are may seem too traditional or lacking personality, but it says a lot about your true character. It shows you that checking in with him is the best way to melt a Virgo man’s heart.

As a man always worrying about others, it feels nice to know that someone is thinking about him for a change.

Try it out and see the response you get. And if you’re brave, you can even ask him what he is feeling, or ask him what he needs at the moment.

More than anything, he wants to know that his contributions, his hard work, and his efforts are acknowledged and appreciated above all.

Read next: What A Virgo Man Wants In A Relationship

Do Virgos Like Compliments?

Virgo men are some of the easiest guys to talk to. They always have something interesting to say and really enjoy having a good conversation. Intelligence is really important to these guys, so if you have a good rapport with your Virgo man, your chances of keeping him are very good.

Yes, Virgos love compliments! You need to acknowledge and praise his dependable nature and efforts to be there for you. Let him know you value his assistance and trust that he is a reliable partner for you.

Compliment his trustworthiness. Tell him he is an amazing companion. A Virgo man is considered to be the most loyal sign of the zodiac. He may keep a distance when first meeting someone, but once his confidence is gained, he is loyal to you and he cares.

14 Words That Give Instant Youth To Your Relationship With A Virgo Man

Have you ever heard of a 14-word elixir that can rejuvenate relationships with a Virgo man and grant eternal love?

Just as communication is the most important aspect of a relationship, one of the most important aspects of communication is knowing how to overcome disagreements and misunderstandings <<

I knew many women who tragically failed with Virgo guys just because they underestimated the importance of talks.

Some didn’t talk with them enough and some talked too much… Others talked just enough, but they said a few wrong things here and there which made their lovers sulk and brood.

Let me tell you, you never want to leave a Virgo guy sulk because of something that you said.

It’s best to resolve any such conflict ASAP because his negativity could expand ad infinitum until one day he just snaps and decides that you’re not the one for him and that it’s all over.

The worst part is that 9 out of 10 times with a Virgo, women are not even aware that they’ve said something wrong… or missed saying something that he expected them to say.

He doesn’t give off any signals when he’s hurt or disappointed. Instead, he usually just becomes quiet… but women never notice it. Even if they do, they never realize what to do in time.

That’s why whenever a disagreement occurs, it’s best to diffuse it with 14 words that could save your relationship.

Click here and find out the 14 words your Virgo man needs to hear to melt his heart <<

Sending you love,

Your friend and relationship astrologer,

Anna Kovach

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5 thoughts on “What A Virgo Man Wants To Hear (Sweet Things To Say)

  1. I did the quiz and landed on 94.12% which I think was pretty high. The relationship is going well but the email I got was about him being distant even though that hasn’t happened. I’ve bought the Virgo man secrets a couple of months ago and it helped me a lot to understand him and be patient and it has worked pretty well. Unfortunately that email I got from you after doing the quiz did not make me be in a good mood.. It also said I should not contact him until tomorrow which would ruin our daily routine we have in our LDR that actually works pretty well.

    1. Hi DL!

      That’s fantastic that he hasn’t distanced himself. Many Virgo men do this but not all Virgo men are exactly the same so it can’t be said for all of them. That email sent was a generalized one and if it doesn’t fit you then just ignore it honey. I’m glad you bought the books but remember, you can cash in on your free VIP consultation with me too. Don’t rely on a quiz. Rely on me personally!

    1. Hi El!

      I don’t know if it’s possible or not to get it in Nigeria but don’t take my word for it. You should reach out to my support team and get more information from them. They will know more than I do about it. You can email them at support@annakovach.com I wish you the best!

  2. Good stuff Anna! I’m a Virgo woman, trying to appeal to a Cancer man. They are too sensitive so far. But, I have a Cancer Moon so I don’t want to write them off completely. With me also being Scorpio Mars and Libra Rising, but everything else in Virgo… I’m finding that either I’m a critical pain in the behind to everyone, or my patience is so short. So far with the Cancer men, they just don’t get my sarcasm. So I’m wondering if I should just stick to Earth signs. But I think Cancer may be the attentive generous man that I’ve been looking for. If I can just curtail the jokes, sarcasm, and or criticism. I really wish I could find my May Taurus male. That’s my dream. Se la vie. Thanks so much.

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