Romance Guide: Is He Romantic And How You Can Seduce a Virgo Man

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Here is some useful information that can help you secure a romantic time with your Virgo. Find out if he is a romantic and how you can seduce a Virgo man.

Today we’ll talk about how to seduce a Virgo man. Are you finding yourself really hot for a sexy Virgo man and wondering if he is the type that is romantic? Perhaps you know he is and you’re trying to figure out how to seduce him.

Either way, here is some useful information that can help you secure a romantic time with your sensual Virgo man.

Is He a Romantic?

Actually yes! The Virgo man pays attention to details about you and what you like, love, or don’t like. He has a fantastic memory and catalogs all this information about you.

He already knows what you like and what you want. He isn’t the stereotypical romantic though. He’s old fashioned usually. He wants to do things for you that are helpful and thoughtful.

An example on how to seduce a Virgo man would knowing that you love cake and he brings you a slice of heavenly chocolate cake that is to die for.

He wants to show you affection by showering you with what you really like. If you’re into a certain type of music; he may suggest some bands to you that you may have never heard.

Ironically, you’ll listen to those bands and find that you really actually DO like them and are impressed he knew you would. This is his tactic for romancing you. He’d rather be simple than overly emotional.

Not to say that he won’t say romantic things. He will! He’ll say them in his own way but if you get to know him well; you’ll know when he’s trying to be romantic and it’s very endearing.

Seduction Tactics

Handsome Virgo boy lying in bed with his charming girlfriend in blouse and panties - is a virgo man romantic and how you can seduce him

Unless you’ve been with a Virgo for a while or at least talking to him on a regular basis, he may come off as being a bit of a prude. He isn’t one but he seems as though he’s just not interested.

Keep in mind, most (not all) Virgo men are old school and want to save sex for when he’s active in a relationship that he feels may actually last for the long haul.

Some Virgo men may be a bit different according to their Moon sign, of course. If they have a Scorpio moon, they may feel a bit more risqué and amorous. There are always variables with each Virgo man you meet.

If he is absolutely certain about being into you; he may have no trouble getting into bed with you. The best thing you can really do is get to know him to get to know what he may like.

Knowing what he is into ahead of time will help you to come up with a plan for when you’re ready to try to seduce him and get him to take you to bed. Find out things like his favorite scents, colors, or even sexual techniques.

Believe it or not, you can actually very carefully get information from him without him really realizing what you’re doing. He’s always analyzing things but if somehow the topic of sex comes up; you can ask him his preference.

Whatever you do though, don’t linger on the topic. If you do, he’ll change topics quickly. It’s not that he doesn’t want it he’s just cautious and gets uncomfortable talking about things he may not be ready for.

To seduce a Virgo man, you need to make him feel comfortable.

Physical Interaction

While figuring him out, you can also try touching him in places to see what he likes or doesn’t like. To seduce a Virgo man, kiss him and let your hands wander. If he doesn’t like something; he’ll let you know.

Keep in mind that when he does like something he may not say anything at all but then again he won’t stop you unless he becomes uncomfortable. That’s a good way to figure out if he likes what you’re doing or not.

It’s going to be an experimental game with your Virgo but if you’re up for the task of figuring him out, you may be pleasantly surprised. He’s likely worth the effort. I can tell you from my own experience: Virgo men are quite romantic.

Find something he likes and keep doing it to see how far you can get with him. He may surprise you. I will warn you though: if you open up that box; you had better be sure you want a commitment.

It’s rare for a Virgo man to have a one night stand or friends with benefits type of scenario. He’s very loving and will love very hard when he falls for someone. To seduce a Virgo man make sure you know you want him.

My Own Story…

Lovely couple in the kitchen - is a virgo man romantic and how you can seduce him

I once was dating a Virgo man and while we had an emotional connection; we hadn’t yet reached the level of being intimate yet. One night I went ahead and cooked him a nice dinner.

I had some vanilla and chamomile scented candles burning and decided that the time was now. As he finished up dinner, I suggested it was time for dessert. I went and put on my sexy, lacy, white lingerie.

I came out, sat down on his lap, started to kiss him passionately, and began unbuttoning his shirt. I was afraid he would stop but he didn’t stop me! I kept going until we were completely undressed.

We ended up making love on the kitchen table and it was the most amazing sex I could ever have hoped for. Sometimes, they’re waiting for you to let them know it’s the right time and that you’re ready.


Virgo men are not good at figuring out what you’re thinking nor do they try. They wait for you to give them indications that you’re ready for intimacy. They are gentlemen and do not assume anything.

My suggestion to you is: if you’re ready and think that enough time has elapsed. Go for it! The worst that happens is he stops you and says he needs more time. The best thing that happens is you get what you want!

I know it’s nerve-racking trying to figure him out but he’s very simple. Click here for more information on how the Virgo man likes to be seduced.

I hope this helps you get into that place you want to be with your Virgo man. He’s very sweet, tender, and wants his soul mate.

Have you ever tried to seduce a Virgo man?

Share your story (or situation) with our community in the comment section below (don’t worry, it’s anonymous).

Wishing you all the luck of the universe

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

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4 thoughts on “Romance Guide: Is He Romantic And How You Can Seduce a Virgo Man

  1. I met my Virgo man (fiancé) over a year ago. He pursued me for months I wasn’t ready and to focused on being a single mom and work.
    Once I finally decided to give him a chance it was the most amazing relationship I’ve ever been in. As a Scorpio I’m a very passionate person and for once felt I met someone with my same passion. In two months he proposed, however now that I’ve given my all and I put passion into everything it seems he has stepped back. We don’t fight nor do we argue, we still say up late talking, joking and more then anything we trust in each other and are best friends which is great since we’re raising a family together (9 months later) he seems to be too ”busy, or too tired” for anything romantic anymore. He’s very verbal but has no actions behind anything he says as far as how he feels. I feel like I’m the only one putting my heart into things for the past few months and I don’t know what to do….(any suggestions?)

    1. Hi Nicole! Thank you for writing in about your confusing Virgo man situation. Sometimes when a Virgo man is forced to wait on someone else’s terms, he will become closed off when he finally gets what he wants. He doesn’t really like chasing anyone but in your case, he felt safe pursuing you with words while he knew you weren’t able to give him your all. Now that you’re ready, he is scared because he doesn’t know how to proceed from here. The best thing you can do is open up communication so that you two can figure out what is next. You both have to be 100% honest with each other. Virgo men are typically truthful so if you ask him what is going on with him, he should tell you. There is so much more to learn about this frustrating but so loving sun sign. If you’d like to know more, please visit my site and check out my book “Virgo Man Secrets”.

  2. I am a Capricorn woman and have been texting this Virgo man for about 2 months now, soon 3 months. He showed that he was interested in the beginning when we just started texting and I was not that interested. I thought me moved too fast and told him that I was not quite ready sometimes, especially when he would sex text me or something similar, he would ask me what’s wrong and I would tell him that I was not ready yet. However, as time went by I liked him more and now I am head over heels over him.

    He told me before that he wanted to meet me but that never happened, one day when I was in his town I asked him if he wanted to meet up and said he was busy. I feel like he is being very distant and I asked him if he was okay and he said that he wasn’t okay but did not want to talk about it. I made sure to tell him that I am here for him if he wanted to talk and he said he appreciated it. He also said that he has been very busy because of exams and said that he will be more active when the exams are over. However, when his exams were over he never texted me. I feel like it is always me that puts efforts, starts a conversation.

    Not so long ago I told him that we needed to talk and he said that I should call him but I couldn’t as I was outside with friends. In conclusion, he asked me if I was okay and I said not really because I feel like we are getting so distant and moving apart from each other, I told him that we aren’t communicating so much like how we used to. He texted back and said that if that is the case, he will make sure to communicate more. We did text more in like 2 days but then he went silent again and there will be days where we don’t talk at all.

    He used to call me a lot in the beginning but not anymore. Our latest call which was several weeks ago, we had an argument about something we did not agree with and he said some critical and not so nice things to me. He asked me if I was okay when the phone call was over and I said yes, he asked me the same thing the next day and I said no and said to him that I didn’t think the things he said about me was okay and he kind of apologized. Since then we have been very distant and we don’t talk as much as before. However, this argument happened for a long time ago and we have been texting each other afterwards. There have been days where we talk as if nothing has happened and everything is totally fine, that is when I am the happiest. But I don’t know, I feel sad and unhappy and I tried to tell him about it by saying that we don’t communicate that much. I am so tired of always putting effort and he doesn’t, I feel like he has lost interest in me. What should I do? I try to move on but I really can’t.

    I am that kind of person who gets clingy and wants attention when I really like someone.

    1. Hi Cecelia! Thank you for sharing your Virgo man situation. It would seem he’s being a typical Virgo guy. They aren’t good at discussing their feelings and are the “strong silent type” much of the time. They prefer to get inside their own heads than express what they’re thinking or feeling. It’s not healthy but they do it. Also, they become disheveled when they have a lot going on around them. They lose focus and they have a hard time trying to juggle everything in their lives which makes them appear disinterested or distant. They don’t mean to be but if there is something else they need to focus on, they will prioritize. There is so much you could benefit from learning more about him. I suggest that you check out my book “Virgo Man Secrets”.

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