Every month, the planets change signs and affect our relationships. Depending on the planetary movements, it may be tough to understand the needs and desires of the Virgo man. But with my tips based on the monthly energy, you can draw the attention of a Virgo man or improve your relationship with one in May 2020.
Attracting a Virgo Man in May 2020
1. Be Observant
If you want to attract and win the heart of the Virgo man in May 2020, then you will have to think outside the box and understand that he has his values and his own approach to life, and no amount of rushing him will change his mind.
With the transit Sun in Taurus in his ninth house of exploration and adventure, the Virgo man is most attracted to the woman who can respect his independence.
As the ruler of Sagittarius, the ninth house represents freedom and spontaneity in love. Your Virgo man wants to be able to explore his material potential without feeling confined by you.
The best way to support his efforts is to follow his pace.
Instead of forcing your opinions and telling him what he should do, listen to his stories and ideas with intensity. Give him your undivided attention and let him know that what he values matters.
Most of the hidden questions roaming in your mind can be answered by being observant and enhancing your awareness of his patterns throughout the day. You should also make a point to observe him without speaking.
For example, if you notice that he wakes up thirty minutes later on Friday mornings because he has a game night with his friends late every Thursday night, wake him up just before his usual time on Friday morning so he doesn’t miss his alarm.
Simple gestures like this show him that you’re his ideal life partner and love match.
This intuitive connection you’re building will grow and expand once the transit Sun moves into his tenth house of Gemini on May 20.
During this period, you should offer to help him frequently; make sure that he knows you’re a team.
You’ll see how important this is to your overall shared happiness when we talk about Venus retrograde in the next point.
2. Keep Your Word
If there’s one thing you need to know about the Virgo man, it’s that he is a lie detector in human form.
Honesty is extremely important to him, so be as straightforward as you can in all things.
Reliability is very important in May, especially when Venus stations retrograde in Virgo’s tenth house of long-term goals and commitments in Gemini from May 13 until June 25.
During this 5-week transit, the Virgo man may struggle with fears of commitment or unfinished love business in the past.
With Gemini also being ruled by his planetary ruler, Mercury, the Virgo man may go back and forth about what he wants for his future.
The best way to help him stay on track and keep your relationship moving forward is to be a living example of what you want and keep your word.
It may be helpful to explore fun ways to remind him daily what you’re working toward. For example, make a visual schedule that includes symbols for his daily workout, meditation, work hours, rest time, etc.
If at any time you feel lost, refer back to the first point. Remember that the teamwork you’re building with the Sun transits will help you establish a healthy system of communication.
During this transit, the more consistent you are with your word, the more open and reliable he will become.
At times, it may seem like you are playing silly mind games, but the spirit of Gemini is fun and youthful. It’s important to keep things light and airy.
3. Talk About the Future
With Mercury in Gemini highlighting his tenth house of long-term goals and commitments until May 28, the Virgo man may come across more future-oriented and idealistic than usual. He will be most attracted to the woman he can share his dreams and plans with.
Doing simple things like encouraging him to talk about his feelings, mental health, and professional struggles will alleviate any extra stress and build your connection at the same time.
With Mercury being his planetary ruler, he has a strong analytical mind that tends to plan and find realistic ways to manifest into the future, and this is supported by Mercury’s placement in the tenth house.
During this period, you can rack up major brownie points if you can help him identify and solve core problems, especially if finances or his long-term security is involved.
Depending on your Sun and Moon sign compatibility, you may need to adjust your overall tone and delivery style. This placement heightens his sensitivity to language, which can bring drama to any situation.
If communication is an issue for you, use May’s influence to work on building healthier negotiation tactics. Avoid using manipulation to get what you want.
Things may cool off when Mercury enters Cancer on May 28, highlighting his eleventh house of friendships and vision until early June.
Just remember that his main priority is feeling safe and secure about his future. Any woman he dates will have to understand this.
Read next: 3 Reasons Why a Virgo Man Avoids Commitment (and How to Flip it Around)
4. Tell Him How You Really Feel
In relationships, Mars represents how the Virgo man desires affection and sex and how he will respond to the expectations set by his Venus.
With transit Mars in Pisces highlighting his seventh house of marriage and partnerships, the Virgo man may be more sentimental and helpful in relationships during this time. He is more flexible and willing to give.
As a couple, it may be helpful to find ways to incorporate more self-care and rest into your routines. If you’ve been spending more time together or have unconsciously become more codependent, it may be helpful to prioritize your own needs for the time being.
Perhaps you will both enjoy a quiet weekend away for rest and retreat. Whatever you do, just avoid overworking. To ensure that doesn’t happen, commit to a shared schedule.
Make a point to dedicate sacred time for romance, rest, and self-care.
If you are observant, honest, goal-oriented, and expressive about how you feel, you will attract a Virgo man in the month of May.
I believe there are so many good things on the horizon for you and your Virgo man! So make sure you stay updated with the blog to see How to Attract a Virgo Man in June 2020.
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Have you noticed these astrological influences on your Virgo man? Let me know in the comment section below!
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
Thank you for share this with us. Now i know i just leave him alone.
My Virgo has been kind of distant this month. He told me sorry he’s has been busy but We haven’t talked together in 2 and a half weeks. Almost 3 weeks. Yet I still see him online on fb and he’s still watching my Facebook story’s. Should I let him be? Or give a nudge ? What do I say? He never used to be like this .. cause he used call me on his breaks. Idk if this may has to do with it. I saw on a card reading that Virgo is sick with Gemini. And I’m scared yet I talked to a another psychic and said he’s just busy and he still has feelings for me so what do I believe. I’m loosing my mind.
Hi Marie!
Even when someone is busy, they still tend to multi-task by Facebooking. I speak from personal experience myself. I do it all the time. He may be watching you since he’s not able to talk. Message him and say “hi thinking of you!”. See if he responds. He might surprise you. Don’t be afraid to talk to your Virgo guy honey. If you would like to know more, please read my book “Virgo Man Secrets”.
I recently had a tarot card reading. A lot was very accurate. I’ve been dating my Virgo guy for a year. It’s been a process but we’ve come so far. She told me that there was something he wasn’t telling me. I found out that he was texting an ex girlfriend and some of the texts were sensual in nature. He said he hasn’t seen her in five years and doesn’t consider thaf cheating. I assured him it most definitely is. Turns out my psychic was right again. Thoughts??
Hi Kay!
Well, if it bothers you then you need to tell him that YOU DO see it as a form of cheating because it’s a form of intimacy. Tell him that it makes you feel as though you’re not enough for him since he has to talk to her in that way. Put your foot down honey. Don’t let him do what he wants without a consequence. Ask him how it would feel if you did that with an ex of yours. I guarantee he wouldn’t like it. When he thinks about it, he’s likely to say “oh, I see what you mean” and then won’t do it again. If you would like to know more, please read my book “Virgo Man Secrets”.