How to Attract a Virgo Man in September 2020

Every month, the planets change signs and affect our relationships. Depending on the planetary movements, it may be tough to understand the needs and desires of the Virgo man. But with my tips based on the monthly energy, you can draw the attention of a Virgo man or improve your relationship with one in September 2020.

Attracting a Virgo Man in September 2020

1. See the Bigger Picture

If you are looking for a spontaneous man in September 2020, the Virgo man is not your guy. 

However, if you’re looking for someone considerate, helpful, polite, and (in private) sexy, then the Virgo man is definitely your guy. 

With the Sun in Virgo highlighting the Virgo man’s first house of self until September 22, he may come across more ambitious and opinionated than usual. The first house marks a new beginning for the Virgo man, so he is most attracted to the woman who can help him envision and align with the bigger picture. 

Therefore, if you want to attract the Virgo man in September 2020, you need to either stay out of his way or help him achieve his goals. If you don’t, you may irritate him and unintentionally push him away. 

This isn’t to say that the Virgo man is impatient or heartless, but with the Sun in his first house of action, he doesn’t have any time or energy to spare. So show him who you are the first time. 

Depending on where you are in your relationship, it may be fun to sit down and talk about your goals for the rest of the year. If you’re open-minded, it may be fun to do a challenge together. For example, committing to a workout and diet regimen for thirty days.

You could also do a saving or investment challenge. Anything that keeps the Virgo man’s spirit uplifted and motivated to move ahead. 

Overall, from September 1 until September 22, be his best friend and help him plot his master plan. If you do this, you’ll be sure to win a special space in his heart.

On September 22, the Sun will leave his sign and transit his second house of Libra until October 22. During this period, the Virgo man is most attracted to the reliable, well-spoken, and well-dressed woman. 

He wants someone who not only meets his standards but can open his world to something new.  

2. Keep Things Simple

If I could only choose one phrase to represent the Virgo man during Venus in Leo, it would be “a secret lover.”

With Venus in Leo highlighting the Virgo man’s twelfth house of ending from September 6 until October 2, try to keep things as light-hearted and simple as you can. Because of Venus’s placement in his twelfth house, the Virgo man is attracted to the woman who knows how to keep things respectful and drama-free.

Fixed fire sign Leo’s energy brings excitement and pleasure to how the Virgo man chooses to spend his private time. If you want to attract or deepen your relationship with a Virgo man, I would suggest you take a direct but quiet approach. 

Instead of making a scene to catch his attention, be bold and tell him directly that you’re interested. The Virgo man is turned on by self-confidence and emotional maturity.

At the same time, remember not to over-complicate things. When looking for activities to get to know each other better, keep it old-school. You can never go wrong with a classic wine dinner, slow dancing, and late-night movie. 

3. Get to Know Him Better

At first glance, you would probably assume that this guy is a man of very few words. But that’s probably because he hasn’t finished observing the room yet. The Virgo man only opens up when he feels at home. 

He also won’t speak unless he has something to say, so don’t force him to talk if he’s not ready. You probably won’t like his sarcastic response. 

At the same time, September 2020 is an excellent month to dig deeper into the thoughts floating around the Virgo man’s mind. If you’ve been wondering what he likes, who he is, and what his values are, this is an opportune time to ask. 

With Mercury in Libra highlighting the Virgo man’s second house of values and self-worth until September 27, he is more sociable and down-to-earth. It will be a lot easier to pick his brain. 

With Libra being a cardinal air sign ruled by the planet of love and beauty, Venus, the Virgo man is attracted to the woman who is multi-cultural and artistic. He wants the woman who will bring color to his sometimes dull life. 

If you’re a reserved sign like Taurus, Capricorn, Scorpio, Pisces, and even Cancer, you may sometimes struggle with being the first one to open up. However, if you want to attract the Virgo man in September 2020, you have to get to know him better. 

Incorporating fun activities like visiting an art museum, planning a luxurious picnic at the park, cooking him dinner, reading him a book, writing him a poem—anything that stimulates the mind—gives you brownie points in his book.

Read next: 3 Questions You NEED to Ask When a Virgo Man Sends Mixed Signals

4. Be Patient

If there’s one thing the Virgo man does well, it’s staying patient. 

However, with Mars, the planet of action and willpower, stationing retrograde in his eighth house of Aries on September 9, the Virgo man may come across more impatient and restless than usual. 

Because Mars will be stationing retrograde in the Virgo man’s eighth house of rebirth and transformation, be patient with him as he goes through this emotionally challenging time. You may have to renegotiate your plans for the future or how much time you spend together. 

Whatever the case, keep a steady head. 

In Astrology, Mars rules behaviors and habits. It shows how the Virgo man will respond to the everyday experiences of life. However, with Mars Retrograde, the Virgo man may seem more scattered or disorganized than usual. So help him if you see he’s having a hard time. 

It may be fun to plan an affordable spontaneous vacation or a day of pampering to cleanse his body and mind. 

With Mars also ruling sexuality and physical affection, the Virgo man may be friskier and more direct in the bedroom. Be sure to let him know how these improvements make you feel. 

The intensity of this transit will bring you closer together. It will help you see if your connection is real. 

Therefore, if you want to move forward and start a new chapter with a Virgo man in September 2020, I suggest being a visionary, keeping things simple, getting to know each other better, and most importantly, staying patient to see how things unfold. 

If you do the above, I’ve found that September 2020 can be life-changing for the Virgo man and love. 

If you’re looking for more guidance, my guide Virgo Man Secrets is better than any daily, weekly, or monthly horoscope app you’ll ever read. Instead of just giving you the basic knowledge of the Virgo man, I share real-life stories and examples of women who have been where you are and have overcome their challenges and are now living the love story of their dreams.

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And while you’re at it, go ahead and find out the compatibility between you and your Virgo man with my free quiz. It’s an easy way to see if you have what it takes to make it in the long term.

Have you noticed these astrological influences on your Virgo man? Let me know in the comment section below!

Your sister and relationship astrologer,

Anna Kovach