Virgo men take their time to commit to a relationship, but once they do it is often for life, and they are very faithful and supportive as husbands.
The problem is getting them to that point as they are naturally reserved and take their time to decide if someone is right for them.
So, how to make a Virgo man propose to you?
Your best approach to getting a Virgo man to propose is to be very clear with him about what you want. Spell out that you want to be married, and why, and be sure to tell him what your time frame is and why it is important to you.
Once he knows what is needed or expected, he will think it over and respond in very clear and certain terms.
Don’t Be Pushy
Virgo men do not like to be forced into situations where they have not had time to think, analyze and second guess. Once a Virgo man commits he tends to do it seriously and for life, so give him time to decide.
He may need some inspiration, and you don’t need to be shy about asking him what he thinks of marriage and whether it is something he would want to do.
If you are impatient and need him to realize that the time to propose is now, then tell him clearly that this is how you feel. Explain that you want to be married and that it is time to decide if the relationship matures into marriage or ends.
This is one of the most effective ways to make a Virgo man propose to you.
Put Marriage On His To Do List
Virgo men tend to over-think things and they will only think about marriage if it is in a practical framework where they can go through the issues as a list of pros and cons.
You need to make real practical suggestions about why being married is a good idea to get him thinking about making a proposal.
If you live apart you can suggest (tell him clearly, don’t hint and hope that he will work it out for himself) how much more convenient and efficient living together will be.
If there are other reasons why marriage is a good idea to you (maybe your family is applying unreasonable pressure) then explain these issues to him so he can give the matter his thorough attention.
Make It Easier For Him
Virgo is the perfectionist of the Zodiac and the idea of having to propose and go through the rituals of marriage can make him freeze up in fear. He may get distracted by all the details and needs to be reminded that the gesture of proposal is one that will make you very happy and help you feel more secure.
Let him know that you will work out the details as a team and remind him why you make a good team in the first place.
Do that by showing an interest in his work and by being very supportive of his plans so you can show him in real and practical ways why he needs and wants you in his life.
Be Clear and Calm
Virgo men live in their own neurotic perfectionist heads where emotional needs are often ignored. This man may need to be reminded that you have different needs and that you have certain expectations.
Be very clear about what these are and why they matter to you and don’t forget to let him know why you want to be with him and how useful he is to you.
If you put marriage on the table as a rational discussion and deal with it as a practical issue and not just an emotional need, a Virgo man will be more comfortable with the whole idea and he will put considerable energy into thinking it through.
Let Him Take The Lead
Virgo men are very adaptable, but they need to feel like they are in charge and that they are not losing control of their lives.
If they feel that marriage is something they are under pressure to make happen without having a say, they may avoid the issue completely or start drifting away.
A Virgo man will not propose out of fear of losing you, he will propose out of a desire for the benefits that marriage will bring.
So be sure to give him enough good reasons as to why it is a good idea and then give him space to make the proposal in his own time.
Reassure Him With Boundaries
Virgo Men are most afraid of losing the personal space bubble that they nurture around them, so you need to make it clear that he won’t lose his space and that you won’t intrude on his privacy or deny him time alone.
Paint him a picture of your life together in which you mention “your room” or “your private study” so that he feels comfortable with a marriage that won’t steal his identity or force him to share everything.
If he feels he will still get time alone to do his thing he will be much more comfortable with the whole idea.
Getting a Virgo man to commit is not impossible, but you may need some help understanding his finicky mind.
Do you know how to make a Virgo man propose to you?
Your friend and Astrologer,