How to Make a Virgo Man Propose to You – Show Him You’re the One

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
How to make a Virgo man propose to you? How to make him feel like you are "The One" for him (and this is what makes him put a ring on your finger).

Virgo men take their time to commit to a relationship, but once they do it is often for life, and they are very faithful and supportive as husbands.

The problem is getting them to that point as they are naturally reserved and take their time to decide if someone is right for them.

So, how to make a Virgo man propose to you?

Your best approach to getting a Virgo man to propose is to be very clear with him about what you want. Spell out that you want to be married, and why, and be sure to tell him what your time frame is and why it is important to you.

Once he knows what is needed or expected, he will think it over and respond in very clear and certain terms.

Don’t Be Pushy

Virgo men do not like to be forced into situations where they have not had time to think, analyze and second guess. Once a Virgo man commits he tends to do it seriously and for life, so give him time to decide.

He may need some inspiration, and you don’t need to be shy about asking him what he thinks of marriage and whether it is something he would want to do.

If you are impatient and need him to realize that the time to propose is now, then tell him clearly that this is how you feel. Explain that you want to be married and that it is time to decide if the relationship matures into marriage or ends.

This is one of the most effective ways to make a Virgo man propose to you.

Put Marriage On His To Do List


Virgo men tend to over-think things and they will only think about marriage if it is in a practical framework where they can go through the issues as a list of pros and cons.

You need to make real practical suggestions about why being married is a good idea to get him thinking about making a proposal.

If you live apart you can suggest (tell him clearly, don’t hint and hope that he will work it out for himself) how much more convenient and efficient living together will be.

If there are other reasons why marriage is a good idea to you (maybe your family is applying unreasonable pressure) then explain these issues to him so he can give the matter his thorough attention.

Make It Easier For Him

Virgo is the perfectionist of the Zodiac and the idea of having to propose and go through the rituals of marriage can make him freeze up in fear. He may get distracted by all the details and needs to be reminded that the gesture of proposal is one that will make you very happy and help you feel more secure.

Let him know that you will work out the details as a team and remind him why you make a good team in the first place.

Do that by showing an interest in his work and by being very supportive of his plans so you can show him in real and practical ways why he needs and wants you in his life.

Be Clear and Calm

Virgo men live in their own neurotic perfectionist heads where emotional needs are often ignored. This man may need to be reminded that you have different needs and that you have certain expectations.

Be very clear about what these are and why they matter to you and don’t forget to let him know why you want to be with him and how useful he is to you.

If you put marriage on the table as a rational discussion and deal with it as a practical issue and not just an emotional need, a Virgo man will be more comfortable with the whole idea and he will put considerable energy into thinking it through.

Let Him Take The Lead


Virgo men are very adaptable, but they need to feel like they are in charge and that they are not losing control of their lives.

If they feel that marriage is something they are under pressure to make happen without having a say, they may avoid the issue completely or start drifting away.

A Virgo man will not propose out of fear of losing you, he will propose out of a desire for the benefits that marriage will bring.

So be sure to give him enough good reasons as to why it is a good idea and then give him space to make the proposal in his own time.

Reassure Him With Boundaries

Virgo Men are most afraid of losing the personal space bubble that they nurture around them, so you need to make it clear that he won’t lose his space and that you won’t intrude on his privacy or deny him time alone.

Paint him a picture of your life together in which you mention “your room” or “your private study” so that he feels comfortable with a marriage that won’t steal his identity or force him to share everything.

If he feels he will still get time alone to do his thing he will be much more comfortable with the whole idea.


Getting a Virgo man to commit is not impossible, but you may need some help understanding his finicky mind.

Anna Kovach has learned about Virgo men the hard way and she enlists her astrological expertise to help you get it right. Her book Virgo Man Secrets is the indispensable guide.

Do you know how to make a Virgo man propose to you?


Your friend and Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

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Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

5 thoughts on “How to Make a Virgo Man Propose to You – Show Him You’re the One

  1. I been dating a Virgo man 7 years who divorced 25 years ago. He keeps saying let me sort out whenever i bring up marry. I recently found out he cheated on me and he said because my emotions drama, he dated her 1 year. Any girl will have emotion when see your boyfriend cheat. He first wants to break up now he says be there for me ill sort out. He keeps coming my house night and we did go out weekend but rare. He said he trying to spend more time with me sorting out. I asked if he can leave her, he said i don’t want you to force me. Im confused. I give him more space time freedom now without anymore affection sweet a lot like before, I try to learn more new things and investment now, he try to help me build up my Roth IRA. I don’t understand why he keeps saying let me sort out. He didn’t tell me what he sort even i ask. He going her place still so how he sort.

    1. Hi Ney!

      I am so sorry that you got a bad egg from the Virgo batch. Thankfully they are not all that way. Yours wants everything HIS way and doesn’t seem to want to compromise. I would tell him it’s either you or he can go on his way. You deserve a man who wants ONE woman only. There is nothing for you to sort out. He is the one that needs to sort stuff out. I’d leave him alone honey. You deserve better than this guy. Love is out there for you but you need to be free of this nonsense to get it. I wish you the best!

  2. I think this is a scary move. Although we are very close to each other, my intuition tells me that it is not me whom he likes. But how can I tell him that I like him that much? Or maybe I have fallen for him? I don’t want to be rejected for the second time.

    1. Hi Jennifer!

      It may seem scary but I think if you can trust your Virgo guy, you’ll be alright. They pretend to forget to get past it or to wait and see what happens. If you’re talking on a regular basis then you may actually have a chance, yes. Although you do still have to trust your gut sweetheart. Your gut always knows what’s right for you. I wouldn’t tell him you’ve fallen for him but you can tell him “You know, I think the world of you” and see what he says. It’s a great way to see how he answers which would give you a better idea of what he is thinking. I wish you the best Jennifer!

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