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How To Make Your Virgo Boyfriend Or Husband Happy

Are you curious to know how to make your Virgo boyfriend or husband happy? Are you tangled up in a Virgo man’s sweet essence but not sure how to make your Virgo boyfriend or husband happy?

Here are some things you should know to help you keep that Virgo guy feeling emotionally secure and stable.

Reassurance Always Helps

A Virgo man is always thinking, always analyzing, and always in need of being reassured that everything is ok. He also wants to know that things between the two of you are where they should be.

One of the things you can do is to make sure that you regularly give him praise or kudos for things he does that make you feel happy with him.  It doesn’t have to be every single day but a regular dose will keep him fulfilled. This is one of the ways on how to make your Virgo boyfriend or husband happy.

Tell him he’s such a great guy and that he’s an amazing partner. He doesn’t like lots of compliments anyway so just doing this a few times a week should sustain him and allow him to feel confident.

Most people can appreciate gestures like this but for a Virgo, it’s vital. If he thinks for one minute that he isn’t holding his own in the relationship it will cause him to doubt himself.

If he doubts himself then this could damage or make it hard for your relationship/marriage to thrive. Give him comfort, reassurance, and lots of love and he’ll be good to go.

Honesty Is the Best Policy

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The Virgo man doesn’t like playing mind games. He’d rather know what you are thinking and feeling rather than trying to guess. Guessing takes time and is wasted energy to him.

If there is something you need to say to him go ahead and tell him. How is he supposed to make anything better or fix things if he doesn’t even know what is wrong?

The silent treatment with him will not fly very well. He will become nervous and feel like you’re betraying him in some way by not telling him what is going on in your head.

Open up and talk to your Virgo man even if it’s something difficult to discuss. He’ll appreciate that you’re putting yourself out there and not hiding anything from him. This will get you far with your love.

If you want to know how to make your Virgo boyfriend or husband happy – this is the way.

Prove Your Longevity and Loyalty

Since Virgo is particular about whom he chooses as a mate he’ll expect you to live up to certain standards with him. Showing that you’ll be there for him through good times and also the bad times; will prove to him you can make it.

Naturally, this is something that can only be done over time. He can’t expect you to prove yourself immediately as no one can do that. If he chose you though; he did for a reason.

Don’t give him a reason to doubt his decision. If he has a horrible day, try to empathize with him a bit and give him words of encouragement. He may ask for space to think; that’s alright too.

Naturally, if you’re married or living together space would mean just let him go in another room and decompress. Everyone needs a little of that now and then. I know it’s not easy to watch sometimes.

If you really love him you probably want to smother him in love, hugs, and kisses. However, he may be resistant to it when he’s in a bad mood. It’s best to say “ok honey, I understand. I’ll be here when you’re ready to talk”.

Knowing you are there for him will go a long way and make for a lasting relationship if you truly love him with all that you’ve got.

Take Care of Him – He Doesn’t Know How to Treat Himself

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Virgo men are so busy taking care of business and possibly taking care of you that he forgets how to take care of himself or be kind to himself. He isn’t one to feel he needs to “treat” himself.

He needs this just like anyone else does. When you can find the time and the means, pamper your man. He’ll really appreciate it. He’ll see how much you love and appreciate him.

Whether that is a massage, really tasty home cooked dinner, or allowing him to watch his favorite show even when you’re not in the mood will make him feel like a king.

The result of that will be that he then treats you like his queen. What could be better than that? NOTHING! Honestly, he doesn’t ask for too much in this department so you offering it up will blow his mind.

It will make him feel like the luckiest guy on the planet. Your Virgo man will be amazed, stunned, and in heaven. If he treats you like gold much of the time then he truly deserves it.

Applying these tips will help you answer the question: how to make your Virgo boyfriend or husband happy.

Lift Him Up!

Naturally, I do not mean physically. I mentioned before being by his side and giving him reassurance. He also needs you to be his cheerleader when he has moments of doubt.

He is very critical of himself at times and needs someone who can tell him “babe, you’re fine with what you’re doing, it’ll all be alright”. If he trusts you, he’ll believe what you say.

He is his own worst enemy and needs a partner who will keep him balanced and grounded. He is already an Earth sign so in most aspects he is grounded. He just doesn’t know when to give himself a break.

I know it’s hard to lift him up sometimes when he’s feeling like this but there is always a way to get him out of this mode. You just need to find out what he’s good at and focus on his strengths. It will help him greatly.

Click here to learn more of what your Virgo man needs so you can keep him healthy and happy in your relationship.

I hope these words of wisdom will help you to make the most of your love with your Virgo man.

Do you know how to make your Virgo boyfriend or husband happy?

Share your story (or situation) with our community in the comment section below (don’t worry, it’s anonymous).

Wishing you all the luck of the universe

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach



21 thoughts on “How To Make Your Virgo Boyfriend Or Husband Happy

  1. Wow thank you for all that helpful information I’m dating a Virgo born September 21st and I’m a Libra we get along so good we have the most amazing bond and everything that you’re saying is true,,, I really hope this lasts a lifetime I look forward to reading your book

    1. Hi Amber! Thank you for sharing your Virgo man information. September 21st is awfully close to Libra so it wouldn’t surprise me if he actually has some Libra like qualities which make the two of you “get” each other fairly well. Virgo men can be complicated but they are a love that cannot be compared. They truly are unique and once you have their love, it’s like no other love ever mattered before. If you’d like to know more about Virgo guy, please check out my book “Virgo Man Secrets” as it may help you get to know him that much better.

  2. I am a dating a virgo man and he is deal with so much, family members being sick trying to buy a house but doesnt make time for us as a couple and says he doesny trust me but loves me. Then he calls the next day talking about his kids and his daughter wanting to meet me. I am so confused…

    1. Hi Palmira! Thank you for telling me about your Virgo man situation. It would seem that he is having a hard time prioritizing what he needs to take care of in order. Many times a Virgo man will put love on the back burner in order to take care of the other areas of his life because he knows that he will only be too stressed out if he doesn’t. He has to learn how to balance otherwise he’s back and forth. I would say that if he’s still reaching out to you and wanting to meet up with you, go for it. I don’t think you’ve lost him or anything, he’s just trying to navigate through problems he’s having in his life that only he can fix. Have compassion and be patient if you want to keep him in your life. Learn as much as you can about Virgo men as it may help you going forward. Check out my book “Virgo Man Secrets”.

  3. So my Virgo man.. We fight alot but he still keeps up with me I still keep up with him. He said he’d take back his love for me but he will still care about me… He also said I don’t give my heart to him and I think he’d like to make me give everything to him so he can do the same. It’s confusing.

    1. Hi Deecee! Thank you for writing in about your sticky Virgo man situation. It sounds like he’s either unsure about what he’s doing or is awkward in his approach. Virgo men aren’t that well spoken when it comes to love. They have a hard time expressing themselves and this makes women think something is wrong when perhaps it isn’t. Your guy wants you to open up fully to him first so that he can trust you enough to open up his own heart to you. That is true even though it sounds really weird. He doesn’t want to risk or invest in someone who isn’t sure whether or not they love him. It may help you to check out my book “Virgo Man Secrets”.

    2. Hi, i have a virgo bf, he very sweet and loving but still ending up searching google how to make a virgo man happy. well, He always gets hurt with things i do which i didnt expect that it will offend him. He even tells me that he doesnt feel loved by me. and when ever he gets upset or misses me it will end up us fighting. coz he tell me things that are not true, that i dont love him, i dont care for him, that i ignore him whenever his upset. arrggg.. non of those were true thats why i flip and snap whenever he say such things. i love him but hes makin me feel that im am not a good or worthy gf. i dont know how to comfort him, he gets upset all the time.. i dont know what to do anymore.

      1. Hi Dieanne!

        What is happening is that he’s actually the one that is insecure and projecting it onto you. Virgo men are judgmental and come off as harsh when they do this sort of thing. They need reassurance more often than you realize. Trust me he is more critical of himself than he is to you which is why he has a low self esteem. Try talking to him in a rational way when you want to iron things out. Try to lift him up more and tell him that it hurt you when he says the things he does. He won’t want to hurt you and will likely tell you he’s sorry for that. Communication is a huge thing so you may want to work at it with him.

  4. Hi, this kinda helped a lot actually my boyfriends bday is September 4 and it’s hard to know if he’s truky happy sometimes because he seems to always have something on his mind but in the end he usually reassures me that he loves me and I do the same for him I want the relationship equal but he gets mad when I don’t let him pay for my food and little stuff like that and he’s so close to his family it’s like he doesn’t want me getting close to them but he took me to a picnic with them at random I love this man but he’s confusing sometimes

    1. Hi Shylynn! It definitely takes time to get into Virgo man’s “inner circle”. He wants to take it nice and slow and let you get to know them and they you with time. He doesn’t want to rush and bring someone into his famiy’s life until he’s sure that everything will go well. He’s very cautious when it comes to those closest to him. Be understanding and give him time. If you would like some more help, you may want to check out my book “Virgo Man Secrets”.

      1. Hey, i am a Librarian I’ve been dating my Virgo man for 18 months now. He supports me financially and emotionally but my problem is we haven’t had sex which it quite strange for me to date someone for so long with being intimate. He has said the L word many times now

  5. Hi! Thanks for posting this article! I am a Sagittarius woman and I met my Virgo man a year and half ago. At 14months he finally said the L word but around the same time he said there were some things he had issues with. One was my weight and he wants me to be fit and the other is my kids. He doesn’t have kids and I have 4 and they are all under 8! It seems that he is all of a sudden complaining about who I am. Is this him being a Virgo? Can I make him happy? Or has he already checked out?

    1. Hi Jennifer! It would seem that with time, reality starts to set in for Virgo man. He starts to analyze everything and is trying to figure out if this is really what he wants or does he want something else. Obviously, you cannot change your situation with your children. That’s a big one. I think if I were you, I’d flat out ask him what is between you and if he can accept what is or not. If he can’t then you are wasting your time with him. Clearly, your children are far more important than some guy who has decided he doesn’t want to be involved. Your weight also. I get that he wants you to be fit and healthy but this is a Virgo trait, to nipick and critique. To understand more about Virgo, you might want to check out my book “Virgo Man Secrets”.

  6. I just started a relationship with. Virgo man born September 3rd. It took me so much time to get into this relationship as I wasn’t sure of his feelings for me. I’m a Scorpio , commitment is my thing. But after years and years of wanting me I finally say yes to him and so far so good he makes me feel so good. I really want to make him happy thank you for this I hope 🤞🏾 I’m able to put these few advice into practice. When I’m not close to him I become scared of what could be going on in his head. I want this to work so badly

    1. Hi Berth!

      Just be yourself and keep loving him. If he really and truly loves you, he will stand next to you for the end of the world. Always be open and honest with him. Never try to hide your feelings about him and give him lots of positive feedback. Keep the momentum you have going and you’ll be just fine!

  7. Hi Anna!
    I’m a Libra and my boyfriend is a Virgo. I love him to pieces and we’ve been dating for only 7 months, at the beginning it was amazing we became bestfriends before we made it official. We already knew each other before the talking stage. We seem to always fight, a lot of things have happened these past months mostly with our own insecurity problems but we seem to resolve it. I think the damaged has been done mostly and we try to get by with not fighting daily. I’m a firm believer of fighting for what you love and making adjustments to make it work but sometimes he says he’s ready to break up or its too much for him. I know he loves me dearly because in the beginning it was such a beautiful compassionate love, I’ve also lived with him the whole time we’ve been dating. Sometimes we think we rushed to into sleeping with each other too soon, but now its hard for me to even sleep without him. I know he needs his space and I just need to know is there a way I can salvage our love and to make sure if he’s still in love with me?

    1. Hi Britney Anaya!

      Yes, insecurity is a hard thing for a Virgo and a Libra alike. It sounds like you two need to open up better communication. Find a way that will work for you and be sure that you two are open with each other quite often. Space is something you can do simply. Go take yourself shopping or hanging out with your girlfriends so he can have time at the house by himself. Do things that allow you to get out of the house and give him that alone time he craves. It’s a compromise. It’s good for you to have time to yourself as well sweetheart. As a Libra, you need a little head space of your own. If you would like to know more, please read my book “Virgo Man Secrets”.

    2. Hi, I just started dating a Virgo man, I am a Cancer. At first he seemed very into me, texting with interest etc.
      Lately, still texts daily, “Good morning beautiful.” Etc. But sometimes I sense him pulling away or being short with me.
      Sometimes this feels one sided and other times he seems pretty interested.
      I’m so confused, could this work out in the long run?
      Thank you!

      1. Hi Kay!

        You’re feeling this via text messages? He may be busy or have other things going on. You cannot rely completely on text messages or you’re only getting a small fraction of him and what is going on with him. You need to talk to him more. Virgo men prefer talking face to face or phone calls. Try calling him up and seeing how he’s doing. Ask him how things are going in his life. He may tell you he’s been busy or that he’s dealing with something. He’ll appreciate that you cared enough to call. He needs someone who will be considerate like this. If you want to know more about Virgo men, check out my books on Virgo Man Secrets.

        1. I’ve been with my virgo man for 6 months . We moved in together right away … at first He was amazing. Always wanting to be intimate. And now Hes always pleasuring himself . Sneaking into the bathroom to do it. Now I’m lucky if we do it once a week. I’ve tried talking to him about it . And even though he knows it hurts me. He still keeps doing it. My self esteem is so low right now. I’ve never had this happen before .and now when we make “love” , I feel so insecure that it’s not much fun at all. I really do love him . And I dont want to lose him. Has he already checked out ?

          1. Hi Jen J!

            It sounds like he may have an addiction or he feels something lacking in his intimacy’s with another person (you). I’m going with addiction though. When a man has to sneak off into another room to do this then he has a need that only he can meet. Ask him what it is you can do that would make him feel fulfilled. Maybe he has some weird fetish and is afraid you won’t like it or won’t participate. Talk to him and find out why he does this. He should be very honest about it and it could help you two. Tell him you love him and don’t want to lose him. Ask him what he needs intimately.

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