Aries season is April, and the Virgo man doesn’t feel completely comfortable or in his element in Aries energy. Fortunately, the Sun enters Taurus from the 19th, a compatible and harmonious fellow earth sign. You should prepare for the latter half of the month and keep his sensitivities in check for the first half. He needs a lot of emotional support and reassurance! Fortunately, I have some fabulous tips you can receive to win his heart this April.
How To Attract A Virgo Man In April 2021
1. You Must Be Super Sensitive
It’s paramount that you are sensitive to his needs. During Aries season, he feels repressed and overpowered. Overpowered by what exactly, we will never know! But he is quite shy and reserved deep down. He’s sensitive with many insecurities, largely from his anxious nature and tendency towards stress and nervous dispositions. Yet, also because he’s just quite a nervous and sensitive creature.
So, he needs a gentle and loving hand this April. Be sensitive, caring, kind and supportive. Hold his hand (literally!) and offer him wise words of encouragement and support. You can be as mushy and affectionate as need be, there’s no need to hold back. He will appreciate all the love he can get. Imagine wrapping him in a big, ethereal bubble of love.
You know those warm and glowy feelings, the ones that make you feel deeply connected and at one with someone? Yes. Make a conscious effort to experience those as much as possible. Don’t do it in a needy way or one that feeds your codependency, do it in a way that empowers him and uplifts you in the process.
2. Positive Mindsets Are Needed
Stay as positive as possible. He will fall into negativity and despair much easier than in the previous month, when the Sun was mostly in Pisces. Aries is dominant, masculine, quite aggressive at times, and known for being insensitive. There is a hot-headed and deeply direct approach with Aries, and this isn’t very compatible with sensitive Virgo. Negativity, depression, low moods and anxiety are common.
In April, try your best to uplift your Virgo love interest or soon to be partner. Stay enthusiastic, optimistic and upbeat. Or, at least use optimistic sensitivity to encourage him to focus on the positives in his life. He is very hard-working, ambitious and persevering. He has a lot of strengths! Aries season doesn’t bring these out of him in the best ways.
In saying this, self-leadership and inner strength are highlighted. The Virgo man can feel empowered and connected to his purpose or service at this time, but it needs some conscious effort and willpower to get him to stay aligned to this path!
3. Shine Light On His Follies
This is one of the few months where you can “feed into” his flaws and follies, slightly… This is, of course, referring to his judgmental, critical, and “know it all” ways. The Virgo man is one of the most self-critical and cynical people of the Zodiac, he thinks he knows best. He believes himself to be the master of perspective (all perspectives) and has very strong judgements and beliefs. He sincerely thinks his way is the only way.
As a result, he can be incredibly nit-picky, arrogant at times, and demanding. His inner control freak can come out and overall, he comes across as intolerable and condescending. Alas, the human experience is seldom smooth sailing and certainly not always rooted in the light. Shine light on his follies. Sometimes, the only way out and up is through!
Humor him, appease him ever so slightly, and give into his need to be nit-picky and judgmental. By going “through” and “in” you will help him find the light. The truth is, the Virgo man just needs to express his frustrations and vent. If you can provide a space for him to do so, he will not only see you as a possible soulmate, but also someone he is willing to invest a lot of time in.
4. Play On His Need For Emotional Connection
There is a Scorpio Full Moon on the 27th, and this highlights emotional intensity – and chemistry. Scorpio is the most sexual sign. When the Full Moon is in this deeply intense, intuitive and spiritual sign, one feels things more strongly. Instinct, intuition and senses are heightened, you are able to tune into subtle and spiritual energy more, where emotions and feelings are apparent. There is a presence of soul and presence itself too. We feel things with depth and intensity – our need for intimacy is heightened as well.
Connect with him whether that be intellectually, spiritually, emotionally, or spiritually. Seek out connections in multiple ways. He craves security, comfort, and emotional assurance. The funny thing about the Virgo man is his hidden insecurities and self-doubts are the keys to his success. He shines in his glory when he alchemizes his subconscious fears and insecurities into talent, success, or aspirational paths.
From the 19th, he will be feeling much more at home. Taurus season allows him to connect to his sensuality, inner currents and moods, and earthy self. Taurus is modest and down-to-earth, chilled and creative, so Virgo feels at ease in this light. Check out your compatibility if you’re more interested in this!
4. Broaden His Mind
There is still some Pisces energy floating around and available to tune into from the Pisces New Moon in March. This is true for the first part of the month. You can save two birds with one breath by connecting with his intellectual side. Firstly, it will remind him of his greatness and strengths, so this is a purely positive thing. Secondly it will enable him to expand his mental and emotional horizons, and potentially spiritual ones.
You can never go wrong with some good old-fashioned talk and mutually enjoyable conversation. It is like a safety net for the Virgo man, he is ruled by planet Mercury after all! And Mercury is the Messenger planet. Add to the high-spirited and positive vibe of Aries by stimulating his mind. The Virgo man is a master of psychology. Give him something to think about and ponder…
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Final Thoughts & Key Astrological Transits
April is a sensitive month for the Virgo man, where his doubts and self-created fears are in full force. Luckily, March was a beautifully reflective and positive month, so he still has this influence. Pay special attention to the Full Moon in Scorpio on the 27th. You can give him a “boost” and remind him of the beauty and many wonderful connections and opportunities in his life.
Be careful, however, of the New Moon in fiery Aries (12th). This is when his insecurities are really brought into awareness. You will need to show some extra TLC and support him through your words and gentle affections. There are brighter prospects for love and an open connection when the Sun enters Taurus, but you can still set some groundwork in before then.
Energize his key qualities this month. Remember the power of astrology! Knowing the Virgo man secrets can help you much this month and in the months to come.
Wishing you light, love, and all the luck in the Universe on your journey!
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,