How To Attract A Virgo Man In April 2021

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Aries season is April, and the Virgo man doesn’t feel completely comfortable or in his element in Aries energy. Fortunately, I have some fabulous tips you can receive to win his heart this April.

Aries season is April, and the Virgo man doesn’t feel completely comfortable or in his element in Aries energy. Fortunately, the Sun enters Taurus from the 19th, a compatible and harmonious fellow earth sign. You should prepare for the latter half of the month and keep his sensitivities in check for the first half. He needs a lot of emotional support and reassurance! Fortunately, I have some fabulous tips you can receive to win his heart this April.

How To Attract A Virgo Man In April 2021

1. You Must Be Super Sensitive

Attracting A Virgo Man In April 2021

It’s paramount that you are sensitive to his needs. During Aries season, he feels repressed and overpowered. Overpowered by what exactly, we will never know! But he is quite shy and reserved deep down. He’s sensitive with many insecurities, largely from his anxious nature and tendency towards stress and nervous dispositions. Yet, also because he’s just quite a nervous and sensitive creature.

So, he needs a gentle and loving hand this April. Be sensitive, caring, kind and supportive. Hold his hand (literally!) and offer him wise words of encouragement and support. You can be as mushy and affectionate as need be, there’s no need to hold back. He will appreciate all the love he can get. Imagine wrapping him in a big, ethereal bubble of love. 

You know those warm and glowy feelings, the ones that make you feel deeply connected and at one with someone? Yes. Make a conscious effort to experience those as much as possible. Don’t do it in a needy way or one that feeds your codependency, do it in a way that empowers him and uplifts you in the process.

2. Positive Mindsets Are Needed

Stay as positive as possible. He will fall into negativity and despair much easier than in the previous month, when the Sun was mostly in Pisces. Aries is dominant, masculine, quite aggressive at times, and known for being insensitive. There is a hot-headed and deeply direct approach with Aries, and this isn’t very compatible with sensitive Virgo. Negativity, depression, low moods and anxiety are common.

In April, try your best to uplift your Virgo love interest or soon to be partner. Stay enthusiastic, optimistic and upbeat. Or, at least use optimistic sensitivity to encourage him to focus on the positives in his life. He is very hard-working, ambitious and persevering. He has a lot of strengths! Aries season doesn’t bring these out of him in the best ways.

In saying this, self-leadership and inner strength are highlighted. The Virgo man can feel empowered and connected to his purpose or service at this time, but it needs some conscious effort and willpower to get him to stay aligned to this path! 

3. Shine Light On His Follies

This is one of the few months where you can “feed into” his flaws and follies, slightly… This is, of course, referring to his judgmental, critical, and “know it all” ways. The Virgo man is one of the most self-critical and cynical people of the Zodiac, he thinks he knows best. He believes himself to be the master of perspective (all perspectives) and has very strong judgements and beliefs. He sincerely thinks his way is the only way.

As a result, he can be incredibly nit-picky, arrogant at times, and demanding. His inner control freak can come out and overall, he comes across as intolerable and condescending. Alas, the human experience is seldom smooth sailing and certainly not always rooted in the light. Shine light on his follies. Sometimes, the only way out and up is through! 

Humor him, appease him ever so slightly, and give into his need to be nit-picky and judgmental. By going “through” and “in” you will help him find the light. The truth is, the Virgo man just needs to express his frustrations and vent. If you can provide a space for him to do so, he will not only see you as a possible soulmate, but also someone he is willing to invest a lot of time in. 

4. Play On His Need For Emotional Connection

Tips To Attract A Virgo Man In April 2021

There is a Scorpio Full Moon on the 27th, and this highlights emotional intensity – and chemistry. Scorpio is the most sexual sign. When the Full Moon is in this deeply intense, intuitive and spiritual sign, one feels things more strongly. Instinct, intuition and senses are heightened, you are able to tune into subtle and spiritual energy more, where emotions and feelings are apparent. There is a presence of soul and presence itself too. We feel things with depth and intensity – our need for intimacy is heightened as well. 

Connect with him whether that be intellectually, spiritually, emotionally, or spiritually. Seek out connections in multiple ways. He craves security, comfort, and emotional assurance. The funny thing about the Virgo man is his hidden insecurities and self-doubts are the keys to his success. He shines in his glory when he alchemizes his subconscious fears and insecurities into talent, success, or aspirational paths. 

From the 19th, he will be feeling much more at home. Taurus season allows him to connect to his sensuality, inner currents and moods, and earthy self. Taurus is modest and down-to-earth, chilled and creative, so Virgo feels at ease in this light. Check out your compatibility if you’re more interested in this!

4. Broaden His Mind

There is still some Pisces energy floating around and available to tune into from the Pisces New Moon in March. This is true for the first part of the month. You can save two birds with one breath by connecting with his intellectual side. Firstly, it will remind him of his greatness and strengths, so this is a purely positive thing. Secondly it will enable him to expand his mental and emotional horizons, and potentially spiritual ones.

You can never go wrong with some good old-fashioned talk and mutually enjoyable conversation. It is like a safety net for the Virgo man, he is ruled by planet Mercury after all! And Mercury is the Messenger planet. Add to the high-spirited and positive vibe of Aries by stimulating his mind. The Virgo man is a master of psychology. Give him something to think about and ponder…

Read next: 3 Texts That Melt a Virgo Man’s Heart

Final Thoughts & Key Astrological Transits

April is a sensitive month for the Virgo man, where his doubts and self-created fears are in full force. Luckily, March was a beautifully reflective and positive month, so he still has this influence. Pay special attention to the Full Moon in Scorpio on the 27th. You can give him a “boost” and remind him of the beauty and many wonderful connections and opportunities in his life.

Be careful, however, of the New Moon in fiery Aries (12th). This is when his insecurities are really brought into awareness. You will need to show some extra TLC and support him through your words and gentle affections. There are brighter prospects for love and an open connection when the Sun enters Taurus, but you can still set some groundwork in before then. 

Energize his key qualities this month. Remember the power of astrology! Knowing the Virgo man secrets can help you much this month and in the months to come. 

Wishing you light, love, and all the luck in the Universe on your journey!

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

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9 thoughts on “How To Attract A Virgo Man In April 2021

    1. Hi Sue!

      First thing to mention is that Pluto goes into retrograde around the 21st of April. We are already in the pre-shadow period which means we can already start to feel some of this. For you, this could mean making huge changes to your looks, personality, beliefs, or the way other people see you. For him, this would mean making changes in the way he approaches people, changes or taking up new hobbies, and possibly his thoughts on having children. Right now he may also be feeling frisky and sexual. When Venus turns into Taurus though around the 14th, it will put him focusing on his learning skills, travelling, and making changes in that arena of his life. Right now you’re focused oh home and family life but on the 14th, you’ll focus on projects, hobbies, and how you meet new people. These two can intertwine and bring light to a new relationship between you or a refreshed relationship depending on your situation. Wanna know more about Virgo? Check out my books on Virgo Man Secrets.

    1. Hi M!

      Although you are both Earth signs and can bump heads from time to time due to stubbornness, you two are actually a near perfect match. You probably provide your Virgo guy with passion, stability, and loyalty which is something he needs and wants. He can provide you with virtually the same thing. He’ll always have your back. If you would like to know more about Virgo man, check out my books on Virgo Man Secrets. Good luck!

    1. Hi Lizzy!

      Yes, Taurus woman and Virgo man are a tremendous match if you two can keep each other on a level playing field. The stubbornness you two have can cause issues between you sometimes but as long as you talk calmly and openly, you can make it work. You two are quite lovely together and have the potential to have a great love. Be honest with him and ask him for the same. He’s Virgo so he’s already built that way. When something is wrong, tell him. Don’t hide your feelings from him. If you would like to know more, check out my books on Virgo Man Secrets. It can help you get to know him better.

    1. Hi Rini!

      Are you stating that this article in particular describes a Virgo man and Gemini female? If not… Virgo man should love your spontaneity. Be honest with him and tell him what you want or what you see happening. You’ll find him to be receptive if not, he’ll tell you why he isn’t into it. There is no reason not to go for it! If you’d like to learn more about Virgo man, check out my books on Virgo Man Secrets!

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