The energies of June are making the Virgo man keep to himself. There is a lot of highly-charged mental energy in the air this month, and this can be confusing and chaotic. He senses this, therefore is choosing to keep in his own lane focusing on his personal goals and aspirations. However, due to being ruled by Mercury the messenger planet he is certainly open to some stimulating conversation! This is because it’s Gemini season, the only other sign ruled by Mercury…
How To Attract A Virgo Man In June 2021
1. Stimulate His Mind
The Sun travels through witty, communicative, and cerebral Gemini until the 20th. Virgo and Gemini share the same planet, Mercury – the ‘Messenger’ and communication planet. This means Virgo is feeling more analytical, rational, and logical than usual. All of his mental abilities and preferences are lit up, everything is expanded and amplified.
One sure way you can connect and ‘vibe’ with him this month is through intellectual conversation. Talk about a range of topics to get his attention. He is deeply attracted to intelligence this month, and due to Gemini’s adaptable and curious nature there is no topic that is too taboo.
You should be aware of the influencing dominant energies of the month, at least. When the Sun is in such a cerebral and ‘mental’ air sign there is an inclination to resonate more with the qualities of such sign. Gemini strengths include quick-wittedness, an agile and bright mind, rationality, reason and logic, adaptability, inquisitiveness, open-mindedness and imaginative gifts and abilities. All of these traits can be connected to and embodied for the best resonance with the Virgo man.
2. Let Him Be Analytical
Due to the cerebral vibes and strong influence from Mercury, Virgo is very analytical this June. He will want to rationally and logically think things out, introduce methods and routes to problem-solving or drawing conclusions, and be detailed and methodological in approach to communication and conversation.
If he feels shut down, on the other hand, he will most likely withdraw and feel shy or reserved. The Virgo man’s identity and personality are tied into his intellectual and analytical abilities. So, it is quite clear that any rejection or dismissal won’t be received well.
Be friendly and all-embracing. Virgo’s opposite sign is Pisces, the spiritual and empathic water sign, therefore if this Virgo man is already on a path of finding wholeness (healing) and self-development he will already be aware of what he needs to balance and integrate in his lifetime.
Pisces is compassionate, tolerant, and accepting – nothing fazes them and they’re the least jaded sign around. Be compassionate and patient even when Virgo is going off on one of his analytical or intellectual rambles. As an earth sign, he will instinctively pick up on the subtle energies at play. In other words, he will sense and know that you’re embodying a patient and empathetic vibe!
3. Project Ambition
Gemini season is amplifying his ambitious side due to the Mercury link. The Virgo man’s strengths include being deeply intelligent and thriving in a range of academic, business, and managerial or solution-driven pathways. He is silently ambitious with many goals and much drive to succeed. He wants stability, security, and success – financial security and abundance too.
Even though he is happy to support his partner in the long-term, when first getting to know someone, he likes to see a woman with ambition. It doesn’t matter what your path or purpose is, you should just have one. June is a month where your self-autonomous and independent nature should come out once again.
Project beauty and independence, self-sovereignty, and success-mindset. You don’t need to be swimming in luxuries or riches (or fame, for that matter) to have and showcase success. Victory is a mindset. And, Virgo knows this better than anyone… a lot of his determination and perseverance is rooted in the knowledge that not everyone will ‘see,’ nor does he need to show everyone.
Also remember that this man is receptive and introverted in nature because earth energy, or the earth element, is yin. Silent but powerful and present ambitious that says ‘I have my head screwed on, I know what I want and where I’m going in life,’ is very attractive!
4. Honor His Need For Space
The Gemini Solar Eclipse and Sagittarius Full Moon are also making him need to retreat a little. Virgo is a feminine sign. Virgo is earth therefore yin and receptive, this guy is the opposite to extroverted and outgoing ‘yang’ fire or air signs. So, with so much fiery and cerebral energy collectively shining down he needs to have some time alone for self-reflection. Eclipse season has a different effect on everyone, for the Virgo man it’s all about his nervous system.
As expressed above, this can lead to an open-mind and desires for intellectual conversation and connection (positively), yet it equally manifests as introspective and introverted tendencies. Essentially, he needs to collect himself and contemplate his thoughts.
He also needs to recharge, emotionally, psychologically, and physically. If you’re in a social group or setting, show your respect for his modest and passive personality by not being too forward and full-on. Hold back and give him some space. Be polite and considerate, self-aware and respectful of his subtle needs.
He might not say he needs his space, but there will come a point when joyous and upbeat social interaction is too much, so don’t make him feel bad or guilty for not being able to keep up with all the excited vibes and currents.
5. Set The Tone… Love Is On The Mind
From the 21st, things cool down from the mental/intellectual vibe and turn towards the energies of Cancer. Cancer is a sign that is very compatible with Virgo, they are considered soulmates in the Zodiac. The energy in the latter half of the month is romantic, soft, gentle and pleasing – it’s all about pleasure and romance, emotional and spiritual bonding, and developing deep and intimate connections.
You should set the tone and create the mood to put both of you in the mood for some love and cuddling. Romance helps to soften boundaries opening you and him up to the magic of chemistry. Consider a date or meeting with candles, sensually stimulating music, and anything else that heightens the senses.
Our need for intimacy and romance is rooted in our instincts, and Cancer is the most instinctive sign. Ruled by the Moon itself, Cancer represents our primal desires and emotions, subconscious forces, and our feelings and inner currents. When the Sun is in Cancer, Virgo is more inclined to crave intimate and connecting on a physical, emotional, psychological and spiritual level.
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Final Thoughts & Key Astrological Transits
June is both ambitious and intellectually stimulating for the Virgo man, and a bit hectic. So much air and fire energy are leading him to want to retreat slightly, or be more reserved and introspective. Yet, you can find some key moments for connection by allowing space to be and express himself.
When the Sun enters harmonious Cancer on the 21st, this is the time to really make your affections known. You can be more obvious and open about your feelings and intentions, and romance is equally favored.
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Wishing you light, love, and all the luck in the Universe on your journey!
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,