How to Show Your Love to a Virgo Man: Everything You Need to Know

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
How to show love to a Virgo man to perfection so he feels like he's heaven around you. This is what makes him put a ring on your finger.

Shy and reserved Virgo men are capable of feeling the love in deep and powerful ways but the traditional trappings of romance tend to make them uncomfortable.

Sending this man a bunch of flowers is less likely to impress him than buying him a load of compost for his garden.

The more practical your gestures of love are, the more effective they will be. This is how to show love to a Virgo man:

Virgo men are thoughtful, intellectual beings who analyze everything around them. Showing him that you have thought things through and that you notice what he loves and enjoys, is much more valuable to a Virgo man than an expensive gift or a fancy restaurant meal.

Virgo is a mutable, or adaptable, sign so you don’t need to twist yourself into a pretzel to please him. He loves honesty, authenticity, and sensitivity to his strange preferences and neurotic needs.

A gesture that is thoughtful and practical is much more appreciated by a Virgo man than a showy declaration of love. So pay attention to the small details and listen when he talks, and he will feel loved and appreciated. This is a way to show love to a Virgo man.

Support His Work

Virgo men identify with their work in ways that are not always healthy, but telling him not to take it so seriously will just irritate him.

If he is under pressure at work don’t try to force him to have lunch with you, take some healthy sandwiches to his office and leave him to get on with it.

Gestures like that show him you love him more than anything. Yes, it sounds unromantic, but he’s a strange one.

Keep Him Healthy


Virgo men are the healers of the zodiac but they often forget to take care of themselves and they are prone to strange ailments like allergies and stress-related health issues.

If you love a Virgo man keep him supplied in vitamins and supplements, as he often gets run down, and needs to boost his energy levels. He will feel loved if you notice his health and take practical steps to improve his well being.

Respect His Need for Space

Virgo men can’t get enough time alone. As much as he may love you, he longs to sleep alone now and then.

Giving him space is the best way to show that you really do love and understand him. He is unlikely to lie to you or cheat on you, but he does need time for himself. He is also a bit fanatical about privacy, so respect his boundaries and don’t pry or spy.

Be the Best Version of You

Virgo men get a kick out of being good for you, they want to be a positive growth experience in your life.

If you can show him, or tell him, that thanks to him, you are thriving and becoming a better person, his sense of purpose and self-confidence will get a massive boost.

Tell him what you have learned from him, and spell out how he has positively influenced your life, to make him smile from ear to ear.

Tell the Truth


Virgo men are big fans of the truth and authentic communication. They have very strong instincts for sniffing out deception and manipulation.

They can tell when you are being less than honest and anything like that makes them feel uneasy. Don’t try to be subtle, tell him how you feel and why you feel the way you do.

He will appreciate and respect your trust, and he will love you for your honesty, and reward it with compassion and loyalty.

Make Meaningful Gestures

Virgo man shows his love in everything he does, he doesn’t believe that love is something you show on Valentine’s day, or with gifts and proclamations.

If you want to show your love to him, make loving and thoughtful gestures a part of everyday life. Show love in how you treat his space, his need for privacy and how you respect his work and his views.


It’s not the most romantic of relationships, but with a Virgo man, you have a chance to have a working bond that can last a lifetime.

Showing a Virgo man that you love him is something you can do with ease if you understand what he is all about.

Virgo Man Secrets, by relationship expert and respected astrologer Anna Kovach,  is the detailed guide you need to properly love and appreciate a Virgo man.

How do you show love to your Virgo man?


Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

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Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

2 thoughts on “How to Show Your Love to a Virgo Man: Everything You Need to Know

  1. Very well written, I agree with the Virgo man’s way of being. I have a Virgo brother, sister in law and boyfriend – each of them are selfless beings who give so much to everyone and forget about treating themselves. They need some pampering (in a practical way) and definitely their own free space! I love all the Virgo’s I know, my favorite people indeed.

    1. Hi Ron! Thank you for your input. Indeed, they may seem very cold to some or can have mood swings however, they do care very much about their friends, family, and partners. They are very generous and loving even if they have a hard time expressing themselves. They get awkward or don’t know how to respond sometimes. They also have a whole lot of other endearing qualities. They have some faults too and it’s important for each person who gets involved with a Virgo man, needs to know as much as they can to avoid conflict and get to know the complicated Virgo man who loves with great fury. I have so much more information in my book “Virgo Man Secrets”.

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