Are you in a relationship with a Virgo man, and you’ve noticed that you don’t seem to be his primary concern anymore? Is there anything that you can do? How can you assist the Virgo man in making your relationship his top priority?
I’m Anna Kovach, a long-time Relationship Astrologer with loads of experience with situations such as this! It’s very common to feel that you focus on your relationship more than your partner. I see it all the time! So, what can Astrology do to help this situation?
With Virgo men, I have found that these four tricks will ensure that your Virgo man sees you as a top priority. What are the tips? I’m so glad you asked! Down below, I have listed proven ways to become the Virgo man’s priority. Go ahead and dive in!
4 Ways To Become A Priority For Your Virgo Man
1. Accept Criticism With Grace
The Virgo man is a smart cookie. He’s arguably the most intelligent sign in the Zodiac. Ruled by Mercury, he has a keen, analytic mind. What’s not to love? These smarty-pants have the ability to sense what’s wrong with any patterns and what doesn’t line up. He has an insatiable urge to dispose of the extraneous and make the issue more workable.
This means that the Virgo is a critical person. He spots the flaws with ease, and so he can come off as judgmental. There is no mean spirit behind these critiques. Instead, he seeks ways to improve your life and is looking to help you!
A Virgo suppressing the urge to express his thoughts can become privately resentful. He’ll find it hard to make the person he clams up around a priority. As a result, it’s essential to allow him to say his piece. It doesn’t mean that it isn’t a tough pill to swallow, though!
I’ve found that it’s much easier to be open to criticism from a Virgo when you realize that he’s got your best interests at heart. It doesn’t feel like it at the time, of course. Keeping that perspective allows the Virgo man to express himself while giving you space to have patience.
2. Appreciate His Helpfulness
It’s not surprising that people tend to focus on what makes them feel appreciated. You wouldn’t prioritize a low-paying job that ALSO doesn’t seem to care much about the excellent work that you do! You’d drop it at the first sniff of a better opportunity. It’s no different with relationships! Virgo will prioritize the ones that are grateful for his good qualities.
One of Virgo’s best qualities is how helpful he can be. He loves to assist others in bettering themselves. He’s never one to shy away from putting in a little effort for someone he loves. This means that he’s going above and beyond for you. He’ll prioritize your needs over his own much of the time!
As a result, you should always ensure that he’s appreciated for everything he does. When you note his efforts, you make space for the Virgo man to enjoy you even more.
The Virgo man will show you love when you demonstrate to him all the ways you cherish him. It’s basic psychology that we prioritize what prioritizes us. So, make it known that he’s making you feel loved through his work, and you’ll find him wanting to make the same known to you!
3. Become Part Of His Routine
The Virgo ruler is Mercury. Mercury is all about the facts of life and doesn’t have time for games or nonsense. Predictability is the name of Mercury’s game! As a result, routines are integral to Virgo’s view of the world. Expect high productivity and perseverance from your Virgo as a general rule.
Based on this fact, my advice is to make accommodations so Virgo can finish his routines. The Virgo prioritizes his habits; by proxy, he prioritizes the one who supports his routines.
My second piece of advice is to become a part of his routine. This is a foolproof step to getting close with the Virgo man! Examples of what I mean are taking a daily walk, a morning cup of coffee, or going to the same book club every week. Doing these activities together has the Virgo looking forward to your presence (and they’re adorable!).
Since Virgo loves the predictability of a set-in-stone schedule, he won’t miss any dates. It’s easy to become incorporated into the Virgo’s routine. He loves to talk, so he’ll be happy to chit-chat while doing what he knows needs done. This is the best tip in my arsenal to be at the top of Virgo’s to-do list!
4. Remember, Your Love’s A Work In Progress
Virgos are industrious creatures who tend always to have a project going on in the background. How does he decide what his main tasks are going to be? The ones that have the potential for the most significant improvement! Virgo strives for perfection, after all.
Partnering with a Virgo means that there will be many attempts to improve until everything is ‘right.’ Virgo desires a perfect relationship but also understands that perfection takes work! It’s a great idea to always think of your relationship as a work in progress with the Virgo.
Realistically, your relationship won’t be perfect because no relationship is perfect. Yet, the allure of perfection is what keeps a Virgo going! This is why it’s best to view this as a strength. The relationship is going to excel over less goal-oriented relationships.
On top of gaining an ever-expanding love, your relationship will become Virgo’s most excellent project! There will never be a cap on how stellar your relationship can be, so the Virgo will always be able to improve your love.
Read next: 6 Signs That A Virgo Man Wants To Commit To You
Bringing It All Together
To become the Virgo man’s priority, you need to realize that he LOVES to improve things. Knowing this will ensure you understand his motivation. You are consistently challenged by the Virgo man to be a better version of yourself! If you’re open to improvement, you’ll realize that you quickly become a priority for the Virgo man!
Remember to find ways to enter his daily life through habit and routine as well. This simple hack plants yourself right into the Virgo man’s life. Don’t sleep on this one, ladies! Utilizing the Virgoan need for consistent routine, he’ll naturally begin appreciating you more.
Like all things Virgo related, you’ll need to be persistent to make it to the top of the Virgo’s priorities! Using my tips, I know that you’ll open his eyes to your worth.
Do you know in your heart that you are your Virgo man’s top priority? If so, you must let us all know how you do it! Leave a comment below and let us know.
If you’re looking to grow your love with your Virgo to greater heights, then check out my guide Forever Love With A Virgo Man to find out how to sustain your love with the Virgo for all time!
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Wishing you all the luck in the Universe,
Anna Kovach
Hi Anna, I love everything you have to say about a Virgo man and I’m learning alot as well, alot of these don’t apply to me though because my Virgo Man isn’t mine anymore, I was seeking to get him back but being that he is very distant now I’m thinking it’s just time for me to give up and let him go.
Hi Annette!
I’m glad that my articles giving you some sort of inspiration. I’m sorry to hear that he is not yours anymore. If he is being distant then time is the only thing that is going to help with this. Try to put focus on yourself and in your life. Make your path a bright one. When you’re not focusing on him, he will either miss you deeply and come back or you won’t hear from him and you’ll know it’s time to move on. Give silence a shot and see what happens. Either way you’re going to go for the betterment of your own life! Blessings to you!
Sell dear I hate to say this but the Vidgo man I have been with for 7 years is far from being as you described. He is by most a narcisisst. I have been told that by 7 different people, some are relationship coachs. All virgo men does mot have same qualities. Most are very selfish and uses people for their needs and then they dont get what they want out of their life you go.they onlg want gou when its to their advantage
Hi Dee!
Oh no, I’m sorry to hear that your particular Virgo guy is a narcissist. That’s awful! They are all capable of it but most do not take that path. No, all Virgo men are not the same. They all have different Moons, Venus, Mars, and rising signs. Knowing a Virgo man requires great study into their birth charts. They are complicated guys. One of my best friends is a Sagittarius and married a Virgo man and he is very loving and giving with her. He makes her a priority. So I’m sorry to hear the one you encountered isn’t this way. I hope you find what you’re looking for sweetheart. Just remember every single man in this universe is different in some way due to birth charts. It’s the same with women.
Been with my Virgo man for 35 years, married 32.5 years. he has found a younger woman (27 years his junior) and does not want to let her go. Says he cant live without her. Just wasted 35 years of my life. Been with her for about five years, I suspected buit could not catch him until about 6 weeks ago. So unfortunately this info is not reall going to help me.
Hi Yvette!
Oh my goodness. I am so very sorry to hear this news. Eeks sounds like he let his growth as a man changed and as such, he decided to look for something different in a woman. Any man is capable of doing this sadly. Many do it during midlife crisis. They cannot accept aging and try to recapture their youth by dating much younger women, driving sports cars, etc. You’re right the article probably will not matter. In your case, she’s now the priority. Sweetheart, do yourself a favor and shake lose from this guy. You deserve to be a priority for someone. Sending you blessings of healing love!