When a Virgo man and Virgo woman hook up it can be a wonderful meeting of kindred souls. But it’s more likely to be like seeing yourself in the mirror and having to confront all the things you don’t like about yourself.
This could work if you two shy, self-sufficient and hugely private souls are able to take the criticism you so love to dispense to others.
If you are able to practice self-love, you will be sensitive to each other’s anxieties and bring out the best in each other.
Here is everything about love compatibility between Virgo man and Virgo woman:
You are both responsible, sensitive, intelligent, and you both take love very seriously but this relationship can become a power struggle in which there is no clear winner. An earthy Virgo needs order in her environment as well as an intelligent partner and Virgo man needs that as well.
Sexually this can be an explosive match, where you are able to anticipate and meet each other’s needs. Sex for earthy Virgos is a healthy act of self-expression, and there is no telling how high or how deep you can go in the arms of another Virgo.
If you are able to laugh at, as well as respect yourself, you will give each other the deep sense of safety, unmatched loyalty and intellectual stimulation you both crave.
The stereotype of Virgo women is of a prudish, obsessive-compulsive librarian in sensible shoes but if you are the chaotic, messy Virgo who is more into books than bookshelves, you know that the stereotype is rubbish.
Virgo women are actually modeled on the archetype of the Virgo – the independent woman who doesn’t need a husband and is completely self-sufficient.
You may not need a lover to feel complete, but that doesn’t mean you don’t want or appreciate one, especially one who lets you do your thing without emotional tantrums or petty manipulations.
You are a subtle thinker and a great organizer who is keenly aware of the needs of others.
Your great weakness is putting others first, but if you are self-aware and know what you want for yourself, a Virgo man will get the royal treatment he deserves and you could make each other sublimely happy.
Virgo men are said to be perfectionists and they can be intensely ambitious when it comes to both love and careers. Virgos are analytical thinkers with a keen sense of justice that doesn’t always extend to seeing their own weaknesses as clearly as they see the faults of others.
A great Virgo strength is the desire to be of service and the need to bring things and people together.
Virgos want harmony around them, they detest conflict and yet they often find themselves at odds with others because they don’t compromise or back down when their principles are challenged.
The trick to winning the heart of a Virgo man is to be authentic and not to push or try to manipulate. Ask him how he feels about you and he will tell you in clear and uncompromising language, so don’t ask unless you are ready to know.
For a Virgo man, love is a complex mix of knowledge, care, and the deepest respect. They don’t go for flowery romance or empty words, but as lovers, they blossom when they encounter the understanding, warmth, and wisdom that lets them be themselves at their loving best.
Once a Virgo man commits he is a very loyal partner and the kind of friend who backs you no matter what, but you have to give him space and enough time to decide you are right for him. Appeal to his intellect, as he loves stimulating conversation and he enjoys discovering things he doesn’t know.
Both of you can be creatures of habit who are difficult to please as you both know what works and doesn’t. This can work, or be a weakness, in a relationship where two Virgos have to accommodate each other.
When two Virgos get on with each other it can be a case of great minds thinking alike. Generally, your similarities can make you a very well-matched couple, but if you refuse to see yourself in him, or treat him the way you want to be treated, it could be your undoing as well.
What to Watch for
Neither the Virgo man and Virgo woman are prepared to stray too much from what you know works well, so together you could become like respectful colleagues rather than lovers, who are bound in each other’s rigid routines and ideas.
You are both prone to planning everything to the last detail, and you both love to do hard work and be helpful, but many Virgos start to resent their work if they feel unappreciated, and this can cause conflict when two perfectionists share one bed.
Virgos are prone to being cynical and pessimistic, and they often need their constant fretting to be balanced with a lighter touch. In combination, your negative notes could ruin the song you sing together.
You both live an exciting intellectual life and in this respect, you are unlikely to ever get bored but this combination of Virgo on Virgo could go either way. You could be wonderful life partners who share easy comfortable silences, or you could be could be constantly at war.
The trick for Virgo man and Virgo woman together is being comfortable with yourself and cultivating a highly developed sense of humor.
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