A Virgo man and Gemini woman can find one another charming and interesting at first, and you could have a wonderful affair. But your different approaches to work, money, and love could, and probably will lead to more conflict than either of you wants in love relationship.
That isn’t to say you don’t stand a chance, as you certainly can make this relationship work. So, are Virgo man and Gemini woman a match?
You are both ruled by Mercury but earth sign Virgo and air sign Gemini show very different sides of the planet of communication and ideas. You may scrap and squabble like siblings instead of developing the mutual respect that this combination needs. There is a lot you can learn from one another, but you will have to work at maintaining boundaries and giving each other space.
Where Virgo is responsible, intellectual and something of a workaholic, Gemini is curious but a bit lazy and restless. You are never quite satisfied with what you have or a job well is done. You are always looking for that greener grass while Virgo is determined to make green grass grow under his feet, no matter how long that takes.
Virgo man and Gemini woman are ruled by Mercury, but your mercurial style is flighty, imaginative and while Virgo is the king of communication, you represent the trickster that Mercury can also be. Your inclination to go where the wind blows you and your indecisive and capricious nature will eventually wear down the patience of any Virgo man.
You find it hard to stick with anything and you are always distracted by new opportunities. This is a breath of fresh air for Virgo, and he may like it or put up with it at first, but your lack of staying power and irrational emotional outbursts could irritate him. He will let you know, in detail, where your faults lie.
Virgo demands and gives extreme loyalty and that isn’t something that comes naturally to you.
You are good at giving it but not good at handling criticism and you want people to listen to your every word but never hear anyone out. You also may lack the patience to seduce a Virgo man, who finds your emotional outbursts extreme and unnecessary and isn’t sure he will ever be able to trust you or take you very seriously.
Virgo man is represented by the archetype of the healer, and he can be a very deep thinker with an excellent grasp of facts. Your way of thinking is based on opinion, your opinion that is, and Virgo may find you tedious in conversation because you think you know everything but Virgo knows that you know a bit about some things and not much at all.
You will find his critical ways and commitment to excellence hard to live up and what you call creative expression he calls indulgence. While you love attracting attention, he is a shy and essentially humble soul, who may be embarrassed and appalled at how you conduct yourself in public.
He is a self-sufficient soul who likes time alone and you need space to do your thing. So respect that about each other and be aware that he doesn’t read between the lines very well. Innuendos, manipulations, and subtle hints fly over his head and leave him confused. You need to lay it out openly and honestly with your clever Virgo man and tell him what you want. You never know, if he can provide what you need, he will take great pleasure in being of service to you.
You will both enjoy exchanging ideas and exploring new information together as long as you agree to disagree. If you learn to appreciate your differences, you both have much to learn from each other.
You can be a good team if you let go of expectations and use the relationship to grow. A Virgo man is a faithful partner and powerful healer if you appreciate his skills, but sex between you could be challenging, although that really how to open you are to exploring new ways of doing things.
What to Watch for
You spend money easily and Virgo is more prudent and thoughtful with his resources. You think he is stingy and he thinks you are selfish and so there is much for you to argue about.
Your naturally flirtatious nature is something he finds tedious, and unless you appreciate his efforts, he will start to resent everything he does for you.
Your differences in style may cause some conflict which is a problem in itself, both Virgo man and Gemini woman will struggle to communicate calmly given how differently you express yourselves.
You make very good friends, but only if you respect each other greatly and think before you speak. Virgo says it as it is and you tend to exaggerate, and your different styles of making love don’t add up to explosive or wonderful sex. Gemini is likely to lose interest before Virgo has opened up, so unless you want to make it work, this is a union that could quickly lose luster before it even starts.
A Virgo man can be the love of your life but you need some help working him out. How should you approach him and what will keep him enthralled?