Is your Virgo guy talking to his ex and you’re not sure if he’s still feeling for her? Six signs your Virgo man still has feelings for his ex:
1. Love Lasts Forever
When a Virgo man really falls in love and is with someone for a long period of time. He will never stop loving that woman even when the relationship ends. Even if the relationship was horrible, he’ll still remember the good times.
His ex could have cheated on him and lied all the time. While he feels angry and hurtful feelings toward her, he’ll still have some kind of love for her inside him for the rest of his life.
A Virgo man doesn’t allow himself to fall in love unless he really thinks the person he’s with is “the one”. When things end with her, he will always wonder what he could have done differently and though when it’s her fault, he’ll still blame himself.
The love will linger. This will be especially true if he has children with her. They will be forever connected by family. This can make things awkward for the lady he dedicates himself to next.
2. You Think He Doesn’t Commit Enough
However, he’ll try his best to be respectful. Just keep in mind that when a Virgo man commits, he means it. This means that if he’s committed to you, he’s not going to dump you for his ex.
There are rare occasions where he may be different and could do this but it’s not very common. He’s more likely to struggle with himself and with his feelings instead of trying to go back to his ex.
He will inevitably have some walls up that will take a very long time to break down. The more he loves you though, the more he’ll work at lowering those walls for you.
No matter who you are or who you will be with him, he will always hold his ex in his heart in some way. It doesn’t mean he wants her back, he just cannot shake love that he once felt.
3. The Reality of Virgo Men
I’ve mentioned this in a few articles that Virgo men are the one sign in the zodiac that doesn’t need a partner to be happy in life. That doesn’t mean that he doesn’t have an ex and doesn’t feel love.
In fact, if he was with someone for many years, he will likely be single for several years in order to work out what failed and why. He will wonder if he should ever be with anyone ever again, or even if he wants to try with someone new.
Virgo men are highly analytical and are always thinking about everything. That also means that they over think things when they should relax. When it comes to an ex, he will always have a tie there.
4. He’s Still Friends With His Ex
He IS capable of being friends with his ex. But he will draw a very distinct line in his heart that will not let her in or allow her to hurt him again. Of course, if it was his fault things ended, he will realize this mistake and won’t want to repeat it.
He may think that if he wants a fresh start; he requires a new partner instead of trying to go backward. It’s sort of a rare thing for a Virgo man to go back to an ex. Due to this alone, you may not notice any issue with him and his ex.
Yes, he may talk about her from time to time. It may be positive and it may be negative. He still feels for her even if it’s just a little. He won’t break your heart to go back to her though.
He’ll analyze your relationship and whether or not it should remain intact if he feels there are problems. However, his ex will NOT be in the equation nor will it sway his decision. So, rest assured that if you think your Virgo man still has feelings for his ex, he probably doesn’t.
5. You Argue a Lot
Virgo men do not want to argue typically. However, it’s inevitable due to the fact that they think about things more than most people. They over analyze and cause themselves more trouble than should be there.
This could cause stress or strain in your relationship with him. What could happen is old problems may surface and perhaps you will handle them in a similar way that his ex did. This may make him re-think your relationship.
He doesn’t want to go through the same thing twice if he can avoid it. This would make him say things he doesn’t mean when he’s angry with you such as breaking up with you then making up 10 minutes later.
He’s terrified of going down the same road that ended so badly with his ex that he will always have some feelings left over. You’re supposed to be different and so when there are similarities, it tends to freak him out. This may not mean your Virgo man still has feelings for his ex, but it’s best to be cautious.
6. The Bottom Line
Always keep in mind that Virgo men are normally very committed to their partner. The ones that cheat are typically NOT committed and is why they aren’t playing by the rules.
Virgo men have moral conduct which they expect everyone to live up to. It’s a rare thing to see a Virgo man cheat. That being said, though he may harbor feelings for his ex, he’s not likely to be unfaithful to you.
He’s also likely to separate his relationship with you and his relationship with his ex. That means he leaves his past in the past and lives in the present with you. This would also mean he’s not likely to leave you because of her.
Whether or not she begs him to get back together, he will stay with you. Especially if you’ve built up a strong relationship and he’s 100% committed to you. Though you may realize he has feelings for her, he will not leave you for her.
Feelings last forever for him and as long as you accept that, you’ll be successful with him.
The bottom line is, if you think your Virgo man still has feelings for his ex, then it’s best to talk to him about it. You will be pleasantly surprised!
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Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,
Anna Kovach
I’ve known my virgo man for 10 years now. We’ve had nothing more than a love affair over the years. He will be single then in a relationship and seek me out after some time. I know it’s wrong, but we have this uncanny connection. Now we are both single, older and wiser. I don’t know where we stand. I’ve never known. We will be with each other and that’s all there is for the moment. We will part ways and he’ll message me to tell me he misses me. This had never occurred before. I see him more affectionate. He’s loving and says such nice things when we’re together as well. I don’t know if he may be starting to have feelings, he’s difficult to read. I only know that when we’re together I’m his only priority.
Hi Magda!
If you really want to know what is going on with him and how he feels is ask him. Tell him how you feel and what you want then ask him what he feels or wants. He will be just as honest with you as you are with him. Virgo men want to know what your intention is. Go for it! If you need more help, check out my book “Virgo Man Secrets”.
Well my ex Virgo had some man call me in back ground won’t say nothing he knows I still Inlove with him we had rough break up April 15 /2001 so wen I text I can’t get he reply back I’m confused help me then April 35 he said he sending me something ?
Hello we got back together after 26 years apart,when we did he was living with this other woman but he wasn’t happy so he would see me behind her back,so I moved into his house and she did not like that, she moved out after 2 weeks
Hi Sue!
That sounds odd to me that he was still living with her but seeing you. It’s a good thing that she moved out but you need to make sure he’s done with her. Ask him if he is. If he isn’t then this could be a huge problem for the two of you. He needs to be completely finished for it to last for you. If you would like to know more about this guy, check out my book “Virgo Man Secrets”.
My Virgo man is so confusing and I have fallen in love with him, he over thinks everything and he is still talking with his ex, I don’t know if that’s the reason he keeps holding back most times, but when we are together it feels like magic, then he starts to overthink again. I really don’t mind leaving him for his ex, because I am trying to be careful not to hurt myself, but I love him and wanting to fight for the relationship to work. He says they still talk and trying to solve things, I don’t know where that leaves me. I am Taurus by the way and his ex is Virgo as well, they were together for 3 years and I have only known him for 6 months. Sometimes I feel like maybe they are a perfect match and I should move on, but he reaches out again.
So complicated.
Hi Hannah!
Virgo can definitely be complicated and confusing so I feel you! Why is he still talking to her? Do they have a child together? If not then there is no reason he should be unless you know for a fact he’s over her. If you don’t know, you probably should ask him. He should tell you quite honestly what is up since you were honest in your asking. Tell him how you feel about him and ask him where he’s at in this. He’ll tell you. If you’d like more information on the Virgo man’s mind, check out my books on Virgo Man Secrets. It just may help you understand him a bit better.
Hello I been with my Virgo for 11 years wen we first met at start bucks we was only dating at the time but I was dealing with my child father I was unhappy with So wen I met my Virgo we went out he treated me like his queen but then as time went by he started coming to my house we got close started this relationship now I said only friends he did also but as time wen on he wanted more then friends so that went on he slowly move in my place acting like my husband so last Thursday I had kick him out he was always fussing find small things fuss about I couldn’t understand so that weekend haven’t herd from him no call no show so Monday came he drove by then turn around saw me walking my daughter to daycare for e learning said hi to us with a big smile. Now I’m confused I do miss him but he don’t respond my text but he see me on streets say hi I’m confused oh and he works by my house
As for me my vigor man has a child with his ex , and his ex has not moved on,but he tells me that he has moved on that’s is why he started things with me…yet his ex still pleads with him for the sake of the child and the love she has for him and they talk when am not around him,I have been telling him that I don’t like the idea of frequent communication with her because it scares me and makes me feel bad… because this same child is not with the ex girlfriend but with the parents to my vigor man,. But he’s been assuring me that he will never leave me because it’s me he loves,we have been dating for 7months now he doesn’t give me any problem except the ex wanting to call him frequently…am an aries ND the ex is Aquarius .. how can I make him focus only on his child and me??
HI Carol!
Ok… I completely understand your situation believe it or not. What you need to do is tell him that he needs to put his foot down with her. Have him tell her that he is happy to talk about their child and the care for said child BUT there is nothing else there so she should stop calling unless it’s about their kid. Tell him to stop answering her calls all the time OR he can answer and say “what did you need?” of which if it’s not about the kid then he should remind her that if it’s not about the kid not to call him. If he can’t stand up and be a man then this may be more trouble for you two later on. You should read more about Virgo man to understand him better honey. Check out my guides on Virgo Man Secrets.
I broke up with him a year ago because I felt he still had feelings for another girl. He did have feelings for her. I found out he was stalking her social media even though they haven’t spoken in over a year. Now, we’re thinking of trying again but I’m not sure if I can fully trust him again. But, he says it seems to be a pattern that he can’t get over the last girl he was with. So, I don’t know if I should go back just because now I know he can’t get over me. And I don’t want another girl to feel what I felt. I don’t want her to find him stalking my socials one day because he can’t get over me. I do still love him, but I’m not sure what to do.
Hi Chloe,
Ugh so sorry to hear that he was still hung up on his ex. It’s hard for Virgo to let go even if they were the ones to call it quits. If he says he can’t get over it then he’s telling you the truth and it will keep happening time and time again unless he does the healing work and makes the changes necessary. Don’t be his second best sweetheart. Stay true to yourself and keep moving forward. You deserve all the love in the world honey and he can’t give that to you being hung up on an ex. I wish you all the best in love and life!
I was dating a Virgo man for 9 months before I finally walked away. I’m a Taurus and we had a great connection, the best time together. He said he was hurt in his last relationship and wanted to take things slow. He didn’t tell me this info for awhile after we started talking. He told me at the beginning he wasn’t big on relationships so imagine my surprise when he later informed me he committed to the last woman who hurt him. At the beginning I was willing to take it slow but toward the 8th & 9th month it started to bother more. I felt I was on probation for what the last woman did. I felt I should have been judged separately and not based off of what someone else’s actions. Needless to say I walked away at 9 months because I felt at that point he should know what he wanted. Everyone said I made the right decision but at times I question it. By the way I read “Virgo Man Secrets” when I first started talking to him and it was very informative.
Hi April!
You are right about not taking the punishment for his ex’s actions. I don’t blame you one bit there. Though if you wanted him to know what you wanted, you should have told him and you should also have told him it wasn’t alright to punish you for his past. I tell you what though, you’ve GOT TO trust your intuition ALWAYS! That’s the best and most informed voice you’ll ever get. I hope going forward you won’t let this happen to you again. You see the signs and you’ll know what red flags to look out for. I wish you all the very best sweetheart!