Love Match: Virgo Man and Aries Woman Love Compatibility

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
The combination of Virgo man and Aries woman can work but is more suited to a business or working partnership than romance. But, keep reading...

When fire sign Aries and earthbound Virgo combine in a romantic relationship anything can happen, as this is a volatile relationship that can blow hot and cold.

An independent, some say fastidious, Virgo man can be drawn to sparky Aries at first. But after a while, the Aries appetite for adventure can seem uncontrolled and misdirected to Virgo, and he will prefer a good book to you.

Here is everything you need to know about how Virgo man and Aries woman are compatible:

Virgo Man and Aries Woman chemistry

The Virgo man is on a quest to be self-sufficient and useful, so a restless, initiating Aries woman can put a spoke in the works, although Aries has much to learn about boundaries and commitment from Virgo. The brash confidence that Aries exudes is something mutable Virgo could benefit from.

And this will be fascinating and intriguing to a Virgo man who abounds with realistic common sense and duty-bound determination that be enhanced with the addition of some Aries enthusiasm and fire.

Aries is the least compatible zodiac combination for Virgo, but that doesn’t mean these two can’t make a go of it. An Aries woman will find a Virgo man challenging as an enigma that needs to be explored and conquered. Modest Virgo can be charmed and eventually won over by Aries persistence.

Eventually, the many differences that fuel the initial attraction are, sadly, what may drive this couple apart as they get polarized, leading to quarrels, conflict, and broken hearts.

Aries Woman


Aries woman is at her best within a fight. You need a cause to ride into battle for, but Virgo man may find your definition of a worthy cause as a little selfish and all about you. Around a Virgo man you may get tired of hearing that it isn’t about you because as far as you are concerned, everything is about you.

You love a challenge, and if Virgo presents a mystery to you, you won’t be put off by someone who appears to lack sensual fire. Aries is all about bravery, passion, and conviction and you can get a little obsessed about whatever underdog struggle you are championing.

Your theatrical and furious charge through life may be a little too fast and way too undisciplined for workaholic Virgo.

If your fire has been dimmed by fear or pain, Virgo is a healer who can show you how to fan your flames for the common good instead of burning up in anger and negative emotion.

Virgo Man

Your approach to life is fundamentally very different from Virgo’s, and you need to understand what makes him tick if a relationship between you is going to last beyond the initial attraction. The Virgo man is a compassionate and adaptable soul born under a feminine, mutable sign ruled by Mercury.

You can count on a Virgo man to read the fine print and perfectly finish all the dull tasks you never find time for.

Virgo rules overwork, and when a Virgo man is with an Aries woman, this coupling needs a lot of work.

It is worth it if you decide to try. You can benefit from Virgo’s wisdom and ability to heal, as all warriors need some downtime and a place to rest and recuperate.

What Works


Both of you respect and admire honesty and want the truth from a partner, and you share a natural distrust of flowery compliments and falseness. 

Virgo can be very critical and can take your criticism with a bit of defensiveness, but you may never learn to live with the nitpicking critical stance that a Virgo man takes on everything about you.

Virgo will thrive if you have his back as he can lack confidence and is his own worst critic. With a Virgo man to guide and help you, an Aries woman can feel like the world was made for her to live in.

This is the right combination of work, but it is not very romantic, that part you will have to nurture with care.

What to Watch for


You may launch an open rebellion against your Virgo man’s controlling, critical and cautious approach to life. He may feel your impatience and lack of limits are a problem for him to solve. Without mutual respect, this relationship is doomed.

The Virgo man can become a martyr in service of your whims, and feel like you take him for granted. You may think the Virgo man lacks tact and is brutally insensitive and he may come to the conclusion that you are foolish and selfish.

You have a very different approach to money and financial issues that could lead to a break in communication. While Virgo wants to talk and analyze, Aries wants action so, in conflict, you can struggle to find common ground.

Around fiery and impulsive Aries, a Virgo man can become a nagger of note and your need to socialize wildly could get cramped by intellectual Virgo’s preference for quieter talks with a few select friends.

The Score

The combination of Virgo man and Aries woman can work but is more suited to a business or working partnership than romance.

If you do try to make a go of it and make the most of your differences, you can find that your strengths work very well in combination, but the keeping the fire alive in the bedroom will always be a challenge.

If you’re ready to understand more about how compatible are Virgo man and Aries woman, check out my brand new Virgo Man and Aries Woman Love Compatibility Guide, and if you want to catch him and keep him click here to learn more about Virgo Man Secrets.

What do you think? Are Virgo man and Aries woman a match?

About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

3 thoughts on “Love Match: Virgo Man and Aries Woman Love Compatibility

  1. This should be interesting. I met an Aries woman. It hasn’t progressed yet but these articles sure give me a little pause. But I don’t think I’m controlling and nagging and she seems more down to earth so we’ll see what happens if it happens.

    1. Hi Mike! Thank you for writing in as a Virgo man interested in an Aries woman. What you need to keep in mind is that the articles are written solely based on sun sign alone. There is a lot more about you and there is a lot more about her that isn’t in the articles because there would have to be birth charts brought up, looked at, and of course, there is always free will. Get to know her as much as you can and by all means, if things progress, you should perhaps purchase her a copy of my book “Virgo Man Secrets” to help her understand you better.

  2. Recently I have been dating a virgo man and as I am an aries the feel that he has been controlling me not as if he want to . As well, he have been saying that i am pretty much self centered, if I try to do my work . All I have to say is that our relationship is not working at all. But he never say anything about breakup and if I ask him then he is like are you serious. Do I still have to be your him ?

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